Abstrusity
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Disgusting people on the internet, tossing rape threats out...
It's because they aren't afraid. They should be made to fear.
It's because they aren't afraid. They should be made to fear.
Talking about a dating situation, big nope for me.
I don't see why I'm part of any problem lol, Women can do what they want, I'm not saying that all women need to shave or not, it's their body, I'm just saying that an unshaved women has 0 chance with me, it's fine, they're millions of people that are probably fine with it.
Been married for 17 years. I only shave my legs if I'm going to be wearing a skirt or shorts or dress. Husband still fucks me on the regular and has no complaints about my disgusting hairy legs.
This in my experience is how most long term relationships work.
So get over it. Shaving is a chore most of us don't do on the regular. Sorry
fucking lmao at the men coming into this thread to give their opinion on women's unshaven legs
y'all are part of the problem
(actually same if you feel the need to show everyone what a Cool and Accepting man you are because you're okay with unshaven legs. shut up)
Shes looks stunning regardless. It would be awesome if this became the norm for all women.
I would have thought men vocalizing they don't care about leg hair would be at least a bit helpful in countering the idea that women have to shave their legs. Or maybe not everyone with an opinion shut up I guess.
I feel like there will be a technology advancement like laser or some kind of pill that stops the growth, before that would happen, it's deeply ingrained.
Although real talk, it's fucked up she's getting threats for being herself.
Laser already exists...
meh, this is great as far as equality / freedom of choice is concerned.
but personally i find body hair kinda gross, and wish it was more socially acceptable for me to shave my legs as a man.
[i shave my armpits at least, which feels SUPER nice]
still though, this just shows she has bigger balls than me!
yup.
just can't fathom why people resort immediately to death threats as soon as somebody else makes a[n alternative?] choice with their own god damn body...
I think the thing to take away from most internet males being shitlords is the fact that most males probably are no matter if they use the net or not.
I'm pretty sure saying something like 'most women are shitlords' would get an instant ban here, and yet doing the same for males seems to be okay? Unless I'm misunderstanding something, GAF seems to have some really bad double-standards because this isn't the first time I'm seeing posts like this
I'm more offended by the grey shell toes.Indeed lol. Let me post it:
You probably should take it up in another thread.
One where the topic of discussion isn't men sending rape-threats to a woman because she didn't shave her legs.
A big portion of the male population are violent assholes. A much, much larger portion than women.Sadly death- and rape-threats have become some kind of go-to-threat for these sad and pathetic human beings. I don't understand what a person thinks he/she achieves by typing shit like that
I'm pretty sure saying something like 'most women are shitlords' would get an instant ban here, and yet doing the same for males seems to be okay? Unless I'm misunderstanding something, GAF seems to have some really bad double-standards because this isn't the first time I'm seeing posts like this
Shes looks stunning regardless. It would be awesome if this became the norm for all women.
Eh? I'm just answering a post that has been made in this thread?
If you are implying that the topic of this thread justifies typing something like that here, let me make this point
I don't get the logic here. People think she's gross and but are willing to force sex on her?
Why would you threaten to rape a woman because of something you don't find sexually attractive/arousing on her body?
I mean, threatening rape makes it seem like her hairy legs are a pretty big dealbreaker. How do you even get it up at that point?
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Rape isn't about sexual pleasure. It's an act of violence and control.So you don't find her attractive because she doesn't shave her legs but you'd rape her? I don't get it.
Some people are fucked in the head. Who cares? You do you.
Why would you send rape threats over someone else having unshaven legs?.? Makes little sense
I can understand (probably not the correct word) people saying aggressive shit if someone said something provocative but this is just silly.
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I don't know how to read this other than victim blaming.
It's hard to "do you" when you're being threatened with rape.
Jesus, no. I'm saying that she should be allowed to do her thing. It has literally no effect on other people.
No, I'm stating that a thread where a woman is receiving rape threats is not the thread to discuss "Well, why can't we say most women are [whatever]?"
The fact that you were answering a question someone else asked doesn't change that.
I think the problem is that when the thread becomes about men giving their approval or disapproval for leg hair, it makes it all about them.I would have thought men vocalizing they don't care about leg hair would be at least a bit helpful in countering the idea that women have to shave their legs. Or maybe not everyone with an opinion shut up I guess.
Don't worry guys, I fixed the picture!!!
But that's not what i said, you are putting words in my mouth i didn't say
It's not 'why can't we say that', it's 'why can anybody say that'. I agree that nobody should say 'most women are shitlords' because it is a generalisation and also insulting. But the same should go for men too you know?
I'm not taking any sides. I'm just saying A insulting B is not allowed. Of course, that's how it should be. But B shouldn't be allowed to insult A either. Because.. Equality and stuff.
Those people who type those kind of threats deserve all kind of insults but you still shouldn't blame 'most men' or whatever for that because that's a blatant generalisation
I don't know why you guys are trying to defend stuff like that. But well, as i do not want to derail this thread any further as you said we should just stop here.
fucking lmao at the men coming into this thread to give their opinion on women's unshaven legs
y'all are part of the problem
(actually same if you feel the need to show everyone what a Cool and Accepting man you are because you're okay with unshaven legs. shut up)
I wish more men wore their back hairs and shoulder hair more proudly in online photos/social media!
As a hairy man myself; would love to also fight that negative stigma society has put on my types.
I see... You can't express support for her or women who don't shave their legs because otherwise psychowave will think you're a disingenuous piece of shit.
Death threats for unshaven legs???? What.
meh, this is great as far as equality / freedom of choice is concerned.
but personally i find body hair kinda gross, and wish it was more socially acceptable for me to shave my legs as a man.
[i shave my armpits at least, which feels SUPER nice]
still though, this just shows she has bigger balls than me!
I think it's fair to say thatonlinerape threats are literally always horrible.
ftfy
How did the laser treatments go? Were they effective? Did they at least make you psychologically more secure about your body?Yep
I've paid £1300ish for I think it was 9 laser treatments on my back and shoulders some years back due to how insecure I felt about it.
I hate how we can't win.
"Your legs and arms are so hairy!"
*All right, I'll just shave/wax them*
"Omg did you wax your legs???"
*Ok, I'll wait for the hair to grow back then maybe I'll just slightly trim them"
"Have you been trimming your legs?"
*...*
A thread about a woman getting rape threats for something so stupid has devolved into guys stating their preference for leg hair on women.....