I fucking love carbs, but Keto is life changing.
No more hunger, extra energy, clearer mind, only takes 1 drink to get drunk, and so easy to lose weight.
We incorporate plenty of vegetables, but do miss out on fruits.
I don't think that people who haven't been in Ketosis realize what it's like, and how there can be more to the formula than calories in, calories out.
I don't think the average person really has an idea of how many unnecessary carbs they consume each day.
You said it better than I could.
How do you incorporate fruits? We'll occasionally have a few berries, or a couple bites of something bigger, but it's more of a treat.
I was going to actually quote you a bold everything. The alcohol part is especially amazing. But yes, I like to cut up a couple strawberries and blackberries and use a bit of whip for desert as a treat if I have enough carbs left over. So good.
Almost all of the actual research does say it's psuedo-science because unless you're gravely overweight to the point your weight is a far worse concern than nutritionally poisoning yourself, it's worse for you to eat a very-high protein or very-low carb diet.
What people don't get is that all fad diets like low-carb/no fat/whatever are based on calories-in, calories-out to begin with.
The difference between a fad diet and just doing calories in calories out is that the latter is actually sustainable because it's easy to make a life choice between "I'm going to dinner with my family tonight maybe I should just have a garden salad for lunch" than "I'm going to dinner with my family tonight, better make sure I instruct the kitchen staff to remove anything offensive from all of my dishes."
I think it's important to first identify that their are different ketogenic diets out there. The one that I follow (I'm using the keto reddit as my main resource) is different from atkins and southbeach. There is no high protein/ no fat. It's low carb, moderate protein, and if you are still hungry, you can substitute that with some fat.
Fat takes longer to burn which means less hunger spikes and it makes IF easier. Reducing carbs is like stopping cigs. You get cravings but it becomes easier to avoid a lot of junk food. Because of this reduced appetite and cravings, a lot of people will do "lazy keto" and eat some protein and salad or whatever when they feel hungry and naturally clock in below or at their calorie count. But this actually isn't recommended.
It's recommended that you track your macros including you protein as not to eat to little or too much. I personal issue for me is not eating enough so I have to force myself to eat some chicken and veggies. It's very much still a calorie in calorie out diet. People who do their research knows this.
Your definition of a fad diet is strange. People, in an attempt to lose weight should do whatever works for them. Have you actually looked at the macros of a lot of restaurant food. It's pretty high, and depending on your sex and height, it's much easier to go over. Plenty of places do have keto friendly options and asking for a special order is fine as long as it's not extreme. You just sound bitter now. I did laugh at "please remove all offensive items from my plate" though and some alcohol is allowed. I'm not an aggressive vegan.
Keto is also plenty sustainable but again, it's not for everyone.