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Member
(02-26-2012, 03:56 AM)
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Guro + fur?
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Member
(02-26-2012, 05:49 AM)
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Hi guys, finally decided to post here, I didn't really have much stories to talk about before I guess heh.
Anyway, I'm a bit confused about my sexuality right now. I mean, I know I like guys, but since I started attending university, I'm a lot more social than I was in my teenage years and met some girls I wouldn't mind dating too (and I dated a few of them and it went relatively well). Thing is, I'm not sure if it's more a desire for a relationship (I was a lonely teenager with very few friends and barely went out at the time) or if it's genuine attraction. The fact that I never tried anything with a dude before very recently didn't help matters much too. So, I'm out to a few people (well 6 people to be exact), and a lot of people I know and spend time with don't know about it (mostly because some people in my university are extremely gossipy and if they knew the entire university would know the next day, and I'd rather be able to tell people at my own pace...). Telling people always went the same way, only happened when I'm drunk (because I could never muster the courage to tell them otherwise), I usually feel good about it until I wake up the next morning, then I feel awful until I get to talk to them again sober and see they're totally okay with it. Then I feel much better (and it's such a relief being able to talk to someone after years of hiding it). Anyway I'm going to stop venting now >.> Hope everything goes well here :) |
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Member
(02-26-2012, 08:46 AM)
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Maybe a weird question, but are any you guys vaccinated against Hepatitis B? Here gay and bisexual guys can get vaccinated against hep. B for free. I think I'm going to make an appointment pretty soon. It's three vaccines over the course of five months, and then you're protected against hep. b for the rest of your life.
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pristine morning snow
(02-26-2012, 09:06 AM)
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I've been faintly wondering how much different my life would be if I were straight. In my classes, I literally have girls all over me -- flirting, innuendo, advances, groping... it's like a ridiculous bizarro world version of my actual life. *sigh*
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Member
(02-26-2012, 09:14 AM)
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Last edited by GasProblem; 02-26-2012 at 09:27 AM.
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Member
(02-26-2012, 09:38 AM)
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But it doesn't seem like you want to be with anyone. You have what you want. If that's not so, I wish you would go for what you wanted. |
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Banned
(02-26-2012, 01:49 PM)
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Hey y'all I know this thread is about relationships but I went out for the first time last night. My friend and his friends took me out to two gay bar/clubs in Houston called Meteor and FBar. It was fucking insane they bought me a cherry vodka and a beer and then I bought us each a beer, and normally I hate the stuff but it was fucking good. I was dancing with them and everything. Needless to say a gay club seems more interesting than a straight club although I've never been. Getting fucked up is so fun lol, we were all dancing like sluts hahaha.
Anyway we couldn't rememeber where we parked the car so we walked around a whole until we found it. We made it back to my friends place around 3 and all 3 of us slept in his queen size bed haha. I just woke up. Serioisly they popped my going out cherry hahs and I'll definitely go again. |
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Lotus Member
(02-26-2012, 06:25 PM)
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Anyway, I wouldn't worry about your sexuality. I feel that a lot of times people over-complicate things. You're out in the world and discovering more about yourself, and that's perfectly ok. Sexuality is a lot more fluid than people give it credit for. Sure, some guys are more "gay" than others, but you don't have to be exclusively attracted to men to be gay. You could be bi, or you could shun labels altogether and just be you. As long as you're being true to yourself (and to other people), you're gravy. |
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pristine morning snow
(02-26-2012, 06:56 PM)
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And I do want to be with someone quite badly, but I can admit (and always have) that my standards are very specific and impossibly high, and there are a number of personal or emotional factors that keep me from pursuing sex for the sake of sex. Bad mistakes happen under these circumstances. -__- |
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Obsidian fan
(02-26-2012, 11:35 PM)
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