No, she's destructive because she failed to adjust after he declined on the less enforcable requests.
1. If the casual, teasing workplace culture is positive (as he says everyone thinks it is and she says everyone thinks it's not), then it's her prerogative to assimilate.
2. Uh, yeah, sorry. Respect isn't owed to him, of course. That said, do you think people told *insert CEO of choice* to be nicer, stop swearing, run better meetings, be more generous with employee compensation, or whatever with the expectation (rather than the hope) that the requests are followed?
Better question: do you think this is a realistic or common way for ambitious businesses to run?
I mean, yeah, bad bosses suck. They're still bosses.
There's a difference between what you're describing there and sexual harassment. No boss has the onus to listen to and adopt every single idea that an employee brings before them, but they do possess the duty to refrain from discriminatory or harassing conduct towards their employees, especially based on the unequal power relationship that is recognised at law.
Where are you getting these sworn statements? Are they on the scribd from the kotaku article?