Guess we're the same age since all of those were true for me too.
And to this day I've never picked up a real gun.
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I went to a 7-year old's CoD themed b-day party
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Guess we're the same age since all of those were true for me too.
And to this day I've never picked up a real gun.
Mass_Pincup
Banned
All right I'll make it simple.
The Sith in Star Wars are evil, it's expected that they do bad shit.
Player in COD is supposed to be a good guy, not expected that he do bad shit.
Edit: oh and both those post doesn't contradict one another.
Razgriz-Specter
Member
my uncle took me to a range a few times when I was around 18 but that is about it.
DAREALGUMMY
Member
I mean, we had G.I. Joe when I was little. Not to mention little green army men.
Final Spark
Member
I was playing wolfenstein 3d when i was 6-7 and i turned out alright...i think...
Cuningas de Häme
Member
Youidiots can't compare Wold 3D and the newest gore porn!!!
Look the difference in graphics and what actually is happenin in the games.
I really, really hope that you won't have kids ever.
Look the difference in graphics and what actually is happenin in the games.
I really, really hope that you won't have kids ever.
LogicAirForce
Neo Member
I mean kids at that age would also eat nothing but ice cream and donuts if you let them. Just because its something they like doesn't mean its good for them. And imaginary play is different than graphic games IMO. With the amount of school shootings, and mass shootings in general, I'm not so sure that its a good idea to have kids that young play games like that.
BurritoBushido
Member
That's pretty fucked up.
Worth reiterating again for the legion of posters writing "Well I played mature game X when I was 5 and I'm fine" this is not an argument, this is not a defence, this is not proof that no harm is being done.
I mean I'm not even I'm the camp that thinks there is a great correlation between violent video games and real world violence, but I firmly believe there is a type of content that 7 year old children should not be consuming and I find parents glorifying mature content via the medium of birthday party themes to be inappropriate.
I mean I'm not even I'm the camp that thinks there is a great correlation between violent video games and real world violence, but I firmly believe there is a type of content that 7 year old children should not be consuming and I find parents glorifying mature content via the medium of birthday party themes to be inappropriate.
Ocarina_117
Banned
I wasn't allowed GTA IV for a period of time when it first released. I was 14.
Was gifted it by mistake.
Yeah 7 is too young for violent games imho. When i was 7 it seemed fine due to how lame the graphics were back then. Right now though, as we near photorealistic graphics, it is inappropriate imho.
Was gifted it by mistake.
Yeah 7 is too young for violent games imho. When i was 7 it seemed fine due to how lame the graphics were back then. Right now though, as we near photorealistic graphics, it is inappropriate imho.
snowsabre93
Member
I'd say it's probably a little too much at that age. Granted I was playing a few shooters around then, but they were sci-fi games like Star Wars: Shadows of the Empire, which can be easily distinguished from the life like brutality of COD games
Astral Dog
Member
I remember how much i wanted REmake when i was 10 😢
semiconscious
Member
my $.02? i'm just glad it wasn't what my seventh birthday was like 
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...Trigonometrize.
Member
There needs to be a class in middle school dedicated to sophistry, anecdotal evidence being a big part of it. Anecdotes are a scourge on discourse.
And the problem is that a correlation between violent video games and real world violence is not the end of what we should be looking at. No, playing violent video games does not mean you're going to go out and murder someone tomorrow, but why ignore literally every other possible consequence like increased aggression, decrease in attention span, decrease in empathy? Why is not murdering someone the standard?
The glamorization of the American military industrial complex is one of Americas issues yes. Its even worse when its done to young kids instead just by adults who are able to parse between the facts of Americas policy and actually shooting at digitized terrorist brown people who have no real empathy shown in the COD games, WW2 games notwithstanding
Acerac
Banned
Seriously, if a parent doesn't want to vaccinate their children, they shouldn't be forced to. Dumbass back seat parents thinking they know what is best.
Weltall Zero
Member
I find this as disturbing as getting a gun for opening a bank account or buying ammo at Walmart, but then again I'm not American, you guys do you. Just don't act surprised when people with macho militaristic rethoric like Bush or Trump get elected.
Definitely. COD games have a giant 18 symbol on them here in the UK. Aka kids can't buy it.
Not to say there aren't some parents out there that still do/don't care. But that can be said about a lot of things.
NervousXtian
Thought Emoji Movie was good. Take that as you will.
My kid played MP locally with me at 7.
He's 12 and kicks my ass at most games now.
He's 12 and kicks my ass at most games now.
MotionBlue
Member
CoD is the new GI.JOE. GAF clutches their pearls at the weirdest shit.
Palabragrís
Member
From a non-American foreigner: I don't think that 'inappropriate'. It's just what the gun-filled culture of the United States has been creating for generations. To some of us, outside the US, the reverence some of your countrymen give to weaponry, arms and all that kind of stuff is both common (on you) and very unsettling. But not surprising at all.
That's what the US has been cultivating for generations now.
afternoon delight
Member
My parents wouldn't let me throw a Duke Nukem, Doom, or Quake birthday but I totally would have.
I would push them towards nature's monsters- dinosaurs! Or black holes!
While we may view it this way, a lot of people would not. Not saying it's right (lol war is totally not funsies) but there is a large amount of the population across the globe that is proud of their military and military service.
I would push them towards nature's monsters- dinosaurs! Or black holes!
Well put. Reagan era children entertainment was so patriotic they straight up bled red white and blue.
lol exactly
MotionBlue
Member
Pretty much. If GAF genuinely cared, they would be going after Activision for so heavily marketing towards kids. CoD has lego kits ffs.
applesaucejaxon
Member
At the end of the day, it's the parents' job to decide what is appropriate for their kids. If they feel he could handle it, so be it.
That being said, there's no way in hell I'd let my 7 year old play COD. I even minimize it when he comes into my office while I'm playing because I just don't want him to watch.
That being said, there's no way in hell I'd let my 7 year old play COD. I even minimize it when he comes into my office while I'm playing because I just don't want him to watch.
Imp the Dimp
Member
I played all sorts of inappropriate stuff and watched things I wasn't supposed to watch. I understand your concern but frankly, it's none of your business and I know I wouldn't have been grateful if I hadn't been able to do some of the things I did as a child that would be deemed inappropriate.
I cannot say for sure how an early exposure to guns, war and violence in videos shapes a human being but I honestly don't believe in a meaningful impact. It had none on me or anyone I know of, for what it's worth. Although I understand you need a bigger sample size to draw conclusions.
I cannot say for sure how an early exposure to guns, war and violence in videos shapes a human being but I honestly don't believe in a meaningful impact. It had none on me or anyone I know of, for what it's worth. Although I understand you need a bigger sample size to draw conclusions.
Razgriz-Specter
Member
That is why it is up to a parent to decide.
I was raised similarly, my parents never cared and I turned out fine. But I don't believe that is an absolute for everyone. I think it depends on the kid personally, how mature they might or not be but that of course is up to the parents.
I personally don't believe in judging what a parent lets their kids play or not. As you said, It is none of my business in the first place.
Agreed
Autoignition
Member
Really shocked at all of the hand-wringing in this thread from people who seem to be under the impression that there's a correlation between violent video games and real-world youth-related violent crime. But youth-related violent crime has decreased since the mid-90s, in spite of the rise of violent shooters like CoD and even GTA.
Basically, OP, if it's not your kid, it's not your place.
Basically, OP, if it's not your kid, it's not your place.
Where I stand on this. Also, please , don't compare GoldenEye and UT that you played as a kid to today's extremely realistic graphics
boiled goose
good with gravy
The glorification of war and violence definitely makes me uncomfortable.
A 7 year old shouldn't be watching war movies nor playing violent war games.
A 7 year old shouldn't be watching war movies nor playing violent war games.
ScaryShark
Banned
Every kid is different. It's up to the parents to recognize what their kid is able to understand and differentiate from reality. I put more 'blame' on the companies putting out birthday themed party items of this series than anyone else.
I saw Das Boot and The Last of the Mohicans when I was 8. I think games are more detached and easier to discern from reality than living and breathing people on screen.
I have a young daughter so these type of parenting decision hypotheticals enter my mind more and more and thinking about how I'll handle them when the time comes. I think as we get older we can tend to forget how young we were when we learned about adult things and adult themes. Intentionally or not.
I saw Das Boot and The Last of the Mohicans when I was 8. I think games are more detached and easier to discern from reality than living and breathing people on screen.
I have a young daughter so these type of parenting decision hypotheticals enter my mind more and more and thinking about how I'll handle them when the time comes. I think as we get older we can tend to forget how young we were when we learned about adult things and adult themes. Intentionally or not.
I would play GTA at a friend's house when I was around 10, but it was his dad's copy and we had to hide the fact that we were playing it. The fact that it was taboo is kind of what made it so exciting, but I think that's also kind of what kept it from being damaging?
Kind of like how finding your dad's porn stash probably isn't a big deal, but having pornography casually on the family television on the regular would likely have a negative effect.
OP should just update post the fully point out that the themed party is more disturbing for a 7 year old and his peers. How did the other parents react, I sure as hell would've said something to the parent if I had a kid there? I'd judge the shit out of them...
PS Stop posting your stupid anecdotes, has no use in this thread and are poor arguments...
Also, some of you should start making your kids play porn games and watch porn tv, I would like to see news stories on that.
PS Stop posting your stupid anecdotes, has no use in this thread and are poor arguments...
Also, some of you should start making your kids play porn games and watch porn tv, I would like to see news stories on that.
BumblebeeCody
Member
Nah. I was playing GTA 1/ Aliens and much more at that age. Don't be an old man, OP.
Nothing wrong with a CoD party.
Nothing wrong with a CoD party.
TBiddy
Member
The graphics were extremely realistic back then. At least, it felt like it. I honestly thought we were way past the whole "video games makes murderes" thing by now. I remember how all gamers united against that dimwit, Jack Thompson. Apparantly, that's no longer the deal.
What? No that's fucked up the kid is 7.
A lot of people in this thread seem to feel that it's either going to program kids to be violent or have no negative effects whatsoever. I have a feeling it's probably not so black and white.
joecanada
Member
well you can probably start with the fact that many of them are designed specifically to kill people , that's a start.
yukimeans_snow
Member
breaking news, kids like CoD and M rated games. They have instant gratification which is good for people of their attention span
I don't really let my 10 year old play COD, so I don't think you are out of line regarding a 7 year old (although probably best to keep it to yourself).
I wouldn't necessarily punish my son if he plays it, because he's certainly watched his cousins play it, but he would need to ask permission to play at home. If he really wanted to play some of it, I might let him play with me but not on his own. Even playing online games of Madden/2K/MLB The Show/etc, I like to monitor him periodically.
I wouldn't necessarily punish my son if he plays it, because he's certainly watched his cousins play it, but he would need to ask permission to play at home. If he really wanted to play some of it, I might let him play with me but not on his own. Even playing online games of Madden/2K/MLB The Show/etc, I like to monitor him periodically.