OG Shaka Zulu
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So my wife and I have been dating since 2004, we've had our ups and downs as far as infidelity goes, in 06 she cheated and we broke up for a bit. Flash forward to today, we have 3 kids and have gotten over our issues and are doing fine.
Today she drops a bombshell on me. Back in 06 when we were off, she was out with friends at a bar. Woke up butt naked in her bedroom, with a guys watch in her room and a phone number scribbled on paper. She calls the number, he says he was drunk as hell and doesn't remember anything. She didn't press charges, she was too traumatized for it and just blocked things out of her mind.
I'll be honest, I am fucking drunk and angry right now and want to kill this guy. I am fucking pissed and don't know what to do about it. Anyone have experience with this? I have no priors.
To add, the friend she was out with... we lost contact with her for a few years but she is now a rival attorney that we both encounter in Court. Her personality towards us has changed and she's formal and acts like we were never friends at some point. I attributed the change of behavior to work stress, but now in hindsight I'm wondering if she felt guilty about that night and is now just awkward with us. I am fucking furious at the moment.
Today she drops a bombshell on me. Back in 06 when we were off, she was out with friends at a bar. Woke up butt naked in her bedroom, with a guys watch in her room and a phone number scribbled on paper. She calls the number, he says he was drunk as hell and doesn't remember anything. She didn't press charges, she was too traumatized for it and just blocked things out of her mind.
I'll be honest, I am fucking drunk and angry right now and want to kill this guy. I am fucking pissed and don't know what to do about it. Anyone have experience with this? I have no priors.
To add, the friend she was out with... we lost contact with her for a few years but she is now a rival attorney that we both encounter in Court. Her personality towards us has changed and she's formal and acts like we were never friends at some point. I attributed the change of behavior to work stress, but now in hindsight I'm wondering if she felt guilty about that night and is now just awkward with us. I am fucking furious at the moment.