Steeped in a Sea of Games
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This is what is the most puzzling about how relatively accepted corporal punishment is culturally. Like, if someone smacked their wife with a belt as a means of correcting her behavior, people would think it was despicable. In a workplace environment, it would be totally unacceptable, but with children somehow it's okay? When in reality as a parent all you are doing is taking advantage of the parent/authority relationship you have over your kids. Like, the only reason I didn't smack my dad back when he whipped me was because it was my dad, had it been anybody else I would have defended myself. It's pretty fucked up.
You'll never win people over like that. Kids are not like a full grown adult with reason. I work with teenagers in a mental health unit and when they become a danger to themselves and others, we have to physically restrain them. I've seen these kids get jabbed with a needle full of sedatives to calm them down. I would never do that to my spouse because she isn't someone not in control of herself. False equivalency just don't work in comparison.