PixelatedBookake
Junior Member
I've found that I don't really care about many things. It's kinda hard for me to start caring about people and how the feel about me for some reason. For the longest time (and even now) if someone were to ask me if I were happy, I would never be able to answer "yes" Despite this, I go out of my way to let people think I am happy and to make others happy. I was even voted "Most Friendliest Male" in high school.
This doesn't mean I'm sad though. Just.... content. Small things make me happy for short bursts. Like listen to music I love, cooking a recipe I found online, or enjoying a video game. I've settled for Bs and Cs in college and have yet to get a single A. I don't even think I care about my IT major very much. I'm just doing it so I have more job doors open for me in the future. But I fake enthusiasm for the subject I'm front of dad and others in the family to look like I have my shit together.
Is this normal? I've been to therapy for a few months in the winter of last year but don't feel like it helped to much. I thought my therapist was a nice lady but I don't think she did a very good job addressing my problem. I mean, she is a university counselor I saw multiple times for free, but still. I can't afford a therapist that isn't free lol
What about you guys? I'm not sure if everybody feels this at some points but I've felt this way for what could almost be considered my entire life. Maybe me being punished as a kid by my parents for crying a lot and being emotional let me to be less emotional? I dunno?
Thoughts? Suggestions? Anyone else with the same situation?
This doesn't mean I'm sad though. Just.... content. Small things make me happy for short bursts. Like listen to music I love, cooking a recipe I found online, or enjoying a video game. I've settled for Bs and Cs in college and have yet to get a single A. I don't even think I care about my IT major very much. I'm just doing it so I have more job doors open for me in the future. But I fake enthusiasm for the subject I'm front of dad and others in the family to look like I have my shit together.
Is this normal? I've been to therapy for a few months in the winter of last year but don't feel like it helped to much. I thought my therapist was a nice lady but I don't think she did a very good job addressing my problem. I mean, she is a university counselor I saw multiple times for free, but still. I can't afford a therapist that isn't free lol
What about you guys? I'm not sure if everybody feels this at some points but I've felt this way for what could almost be considered my entire life. Maybe me being punished as a kid by my parents for crying a lot and being emotional let me to be less emotional? I dunno?
Thoughts? Suggestions? Anyone else with the same situation?