Hello Dating-GAF. It me, the hopeless loser hooked to this girl who ignores me yet she doesn't want me to leave her.
I haven't update because honestly everything remains the same with her but at least I stopped worrying too much and just try to mind my business while she minds her own despite continuing being "in a relationship" As always, she says she is mad mad MAD busy with school/work and I understand. Last night however, I talked briefly with her and told me she is going to "escape" to a concert of her favorite band. Problem is, her dad didn't allow her to go AND the concert is going to be in another city. Despite of that, she is already on her way to the concert happening tonight.
Hahah I feel like an absolute utter shit right now. She doesn't have 10 minutes to chat or go out with me but she has the time to escape and go to a concert in another city with who knows who. She now will probably get grounded by her dad and we would probably never going out never again because of that. I think this was the last nail on the coffin. I've been extremely patience with her but my god... seriously I'm so pissed off right now I needed to vent somewhere and since I don't have friends, this is the only place to do so. :'/
Literally no one (and yes, I mean literally, not like when people say literally as emphasis only) in the world is so busy they don't have 10 minutes to chat with their supposed significant other. LITERALLY. NO. ONE.Hello Dating-GAF. It me, the hopeless loser hooked to this girl who ignores me yet she doesn't want me to leave her.
I haven't update because honestly everything remains the same with her but at least I stopped worrying too much and just try to mind my business while she minds her own despite continuing being "in a relationship" As always, she says she is mad mad MAD busy with school/work and I understand. Last night however, I talked briefly with her and told me she is going to "escape" to a concert of her favorite band. Problem is, her dad didn't allow her to go AND the concert is going to be in another city. Despite of that, she is already on her way to the concert happening tonight.
Hahah I feel like an absolute utter shit right now. She doesn't have 10 minutes to chat or go out with me but she has the time to escape and go to a concert in another city with who knows who. She now will probably get grounded by her dad and we would probably never going out never again because of that. I think this was the last nail on the coffin. I've been extremely patience with her but my god... seriously I'm so pissed off right now I needed to vent somewhere and since I don't have friends, this is the only place to do so. :'/
Hello Dating-GAF. It me, the hopeless loser hooked to this girl who ignores me yet she doesn't want me to leave her.
I haven't update because honestly everything remains the same with her but at least I stopped worrying too much and just try to mind my business while she minds her own despite continuing being "in a relationship" As always, she says she is mad mad MAD busy with school/work and I understand. Last night however, I talked briefly with her and told me she is going to "escape" to a concert of her favorite band. Problem is, her dad didn't allow her to go AND the concert is going to be in another city. Despite of that, she is already on her way to the concert happening tonight.
Hahah I feel like an absolute utter shit right now. She doesn't have 10 minutes to chat or go out with me but she has the time to escape and go to a concert in another city with who knows who. She now will probably get grounded by her dad and we would probably never going out never again because of that. I think this was the last nail on the coffin. I've been extremely patience with her but my god... seriously I'm so pissed off right now I needed to vent somewhere and since I don't have friends, this is the only place to do so. :'/
She doesn't have 10 minutes to chat or go out with me but
Dates getting grounded?
"Going hard" means going to bed at 11:30pm?
What happened to this thread?
Thank you for your words and advice, guys. Hah, well she is 21 and I just turned 27. Her dad is still very estrict and protective with her. But yeah I had enough. I honestly feel so utilized and offended by her right now. This act she pulled is a clear indicator that she simply doesn't care enough for me after all this months coming with excuses to not go out or talk with me. Oh boy but when it comes to traveling to another freaking city to a concert despite the consequences, she is going to be 100% in no matter if there's need to skip work and school. I honestly don't think she is actually seeing somebody else, she is genuinely busy af with school/work, plus she is very introvert just like me and she has a very tough personality so she doesn't trust in anybody else just like that. That's why I tried so hard to keep the posture and being patience with her, because I thought she was going to be worth it on the long term by having a girlfriend with that personality... but it seems she simply doesn't give a damn about me despite she saying the opposite. This act she did totally prove it. Siiighhhhh. I don't even feel like start talking to another girls or go back to Tinder. Right now I just want to lay down on my bed until I pass out. Fuck just when I was on the middle of doing an important work commision right now, this just ruined me don't know how I'm gonna finish it now.
Thank you for your words and advice, guys. Hah, well she is 21 and I just turned 27. Her dad is still very estrict and protective with her. But yeah I had enough. I honestly feel so utilized and offended by her right now. This act she pulled is a clear indicator that she simply doesn't care enough for me after all this months coming with excuses to not go out or talk with me. Oh boy but when it comes to traveling to another freaking city to a concert despite the consequences, she is going to be 100% in no matter if there's need to skip work and school. I honestly don't think she is actually seeing somebody else, she is genuinely busy af with school/work, plus she is very introvert just like me and she has a very tough personality so she doesn't trust in anybody else just like that. That's why I tried so hard to keep the posture and being patience with her, because I thought she was going to be worth it on the long term by having a girlfriend with that personality... but it seems she simply doesn't give a damn about me despite she saying the opposite. This act she did totally prove it. Siiighhhhh. I don't even feel like start talking to another girls or go back to Tinder. Right now I just want to lay down on my bed until I pass out. Fuck just when I was on the middle of doing an important work commision right now, this just ruined me don't know how I'm gonna finish it now.
Thank you for your words and advice, guys. Hah, well she is 21 and I just turned 27. Her dad is still very estrict and protective with her. But yeah I had enough. I honestly feel so utilized and offended by her right now. This act she pulled is a clear indicator that she simply doesn't care enough for me after all this months coming with excuses to not go out or talk with me. Oh boy but when it comes to traveling to another freaking city to a concert despite the consequences, she is going to be 100% in no matter if there's need to skip work and school. I honestly don't think she is actually seeing somebody else, she is genuinely busy af with school/work, plus she is very introvert just like me and she has a very tough personality so she doesn't trust in anybody else just like that. That's why I tried so hard to keep the posture and being patience with her, because I thought she was going to be worth it on the long term by having a girlfriend with that personality... but it seems she simply doesn't give a damn about me despite she saying the opposite. This act she did totally prove it. Siiighhhhh. I don't even feel like start talking to another girls or go back to Tinder. Right now I just want to lay down on my bed until I pass out. Fuck just when I was on the middle of doing an important work commision right now, this just ruined me don't know how I'm gonna finish it now.
I'm hoping to sell her on movies or whatever at my place, but if that doesn't fly then I'd like to have a non-half assed backup.
Wait what? I thought "being exclusive" automatically made them your girlfriend. I need to brush up on my dating lingo.Weve been hanging out a lot since the second date and weve decided to be exclusive.
In a couple of weeks Ill bring up the topic of being in a bf/gf relationship, but she might bring it up first lol.
Just gotta keep up what Ive been doing I guess!
That's really a personal thing and totally up to you. Some people can date a million people at once while some of us can only do one.I'm recently single again in my thirties and back on the dating scene. I'm having lots of fun... I'm a bit out of touch with dating in general after a string of long term relationships, so would appreciate some general advice.
How many people is a decent amount to be seeing at once? I'm not looking for love, just fun and sex with awesome people. Right now there's one girl that's basically a FWB situation, and three to four others are actual dates scattered across the week. I have a few others wanting to have a first date in a pretty steady stream too. It's a bit much so I'll slow down proactively contacting new people, but is it normal to have quite a few prospective dates that you're having sex with on the go at once?
Related - is this considered weird? Like, there's no lying involved. I assume they're dating others too which is fine. Is there a point it becomes weird? Or am I right in assuming that would only be an issue much later, like when / if the 'exclusive' chat happens, likely months down the road if we're still interested in each other?
I'm at a loss on how to explain that. She's fishing for information, but for whom? For her attached friend? For her attached friend, to set-up a threesome? For herself? I have no interest in any of those scenarios, so I let the weird thing be a weird thing.
That girl she's talking about - It's kinda-racist girl! We didn't just "go on a date", we dated for over a month. We got to know each other in the biblical sense. And with my friend (and presumably her sister) being black, puts the kinda racist thing in new perspective.
Hello Dating-GAF. It me, the hopeless loser hooked to this girl who ignores me yet she doesn't want me to leave her.
I haven't update because honestly everything remains the same with her but at least I stopped worrying too much and just try to mind my business while she minds her own despite continuing being "in a relationship" As always, she says she is mad mad MAD busy with school/work and I understand. Last night however, I talked briefly with her and told me she is going to "escape" to a concert of her favorite band. Problem is, her dad didn't allow her to go AND the concert is going to be in another city. Despite of that, she is already on her way to the concert happening tonight.
Hahah I feel like an absolute utter shit right now. She doesn't have 10 minutes to chat or go out with me but she has the time to escape and go to a concert in another city with who knows who. She now will probably get grounded by her dad and we would probably never going out never again because of that. I think this was the last nail on the coffin. I've been extremely patience with her but my god... seriously I'm so pissed off right now I needed to vent somewhere and since I don't have friends, this is the only place to do so. :'/
Thank you for your words and advice, guys. Hah, well she is 21 and I just turned 27. Her dad is still very estrict and protective with her. But yeah I had enough. I honestly feel so utilized and offended by her right now. This act she pulled is a clear indicator that she simply doesn't care enough for me after all this months coming with excuses to not go out or talk with me. Oh boy but when it comes to traveling to another freaking city to a concert despite the consequences, she is going to be 100% in no matter if there's need to skip work and school. I honestly don't think she is actually seeing somebody else, she is genuinely busy af with school/work, plus she is very introvert just like me and she has a very tough personality so she doesn't trust in anybody else just like that. That's why I tried so hard to keep the posture and being patience with her, because I thought she was going to be worth it on the long term by having a girlfriend with that personality... but it seems she simply doesn't give a damn about me despite she saying the opposite. This act she did totally prove it. Siiighhhhh. I don't even feel like start talking to another girls or go back to Tinder. Right now I just want to lay down on my bed until I pass out. Fuck just when I was on the middle of doing an important work commision right now, this just ruined me don't know how I'm gonna finish it now.
I'm really happy for you man.Im cooking dinner for the girl Ive been seeing tonight. Weve been hanging out a lot since the second date and weve decided to be exclusive.
Everythings going so well and it feels really nice. In a couple of weeks Ill bring up the topic of being in a bf/gf relationship, but she might bring it up first lol.
Just gotta keep up what Ive been doing I guess!
I'm sorry Adan, but this is just getting pathetic. How hard can it even be to break up with a girl you haven't seen in months? You only have yourself to blame at this point.
Does anybody else remember that one thread about a gaffer who was flying out to see some girl? This reminds me of that
Also I forgot his username, but that thread was gold.
Does anybody else remember that one thread about a gaffer who was flying out to see some girl? This reminds me of that
Also I forgot his username, but that thread was gold.
Does anybody else remember that one thread about a gaffer who was flying out to see some girl? This reminds me of that
Also I forgot his username, but that thread was gold.
Ashodin, legendary thread. And yes, he got married.Didn't they end up getting married?
Potential last post lol, If it all goes to shit, pour one out for the best community.
Already happened. Was one of the first threads actually.I'm honestly hoping some creates a mirror thread at the other place.
Already happened. Was one of the first threads actually.
Almost all the regulars moved on and created a mirror thread elsewhere. I was hoping to get closure on AdanVC's situation at the very least.So did everyone leave or what's going on
So did everyone leave or what's going on