No minimum hours! Have around 30 hours so far in the last 3 weeks. I have some free time on my hands but they also make it easy to come back. Wonderful environment (the harlem one)
Thanks. I will look into all of them. I have a lot of free time this summer and wouldn't mind helping others. The food bank sounds great since it looks like you don't need to sign up a minimum amount of hours over a given time frame.
This is more of an encouragement post than anything else, especially for those late bloomers. Chances are, if youre reading this, youre a decent person to your family, friends and colleagues. You have dreams, you have hopes and ambitions.
Dont put up with anyones nonsense. Dont be anyones emotional punching bag. Have respect for yourself and never be afraid to leave toxic people out of your life. You always need to come first, your well being is the only thing that matters. Leave anyone that gives you consistent trouble in your life. Life is too damm short and youre not here to fix people or change them. If you adopt to this attitude, youll be much happier and be surrounded by decent, positive people. Will you be showered with the sex that youre attracted to? No, but you will consistently date and have meaningful relationships that are worth a damm. A lot of people are dysfunctional, but that doesnt mean you need to put up with them and dont allow anyone to change your mind on that. If you're writing an entire page about a fight in your relationship on neogaf, chances are, its not going to work. Never be afraid of being alone.
I recently lost my viriginty last month to a wonderful girl of 6 months at the age of 24. She messaged me on POF and talked for a month(didnt meet) but I had to go back to my home country for a bit so I told her i needed time alone. She messaged me 2 months later and we've been together since. I haven't kissed a girl since high school and Ive spent so much time over the years troubling myself over negative and toxic people, especially after they left me. Whenever I did meet a girl, it was always short lived. And it certainly didn't help that I was still hanged up on some long distance girl from my childhood. On top of that, being a virgin at the time still bothered me some what.
Wether this last another 3 months, 3 years or 30, she is worth all those female related troubles I've had. I couldn't ask for a better "first" adult relationship.And if it doesnt last, anyone who I meet has to meet up with the standard she has set for me. She's caring, compassionate, playful, considerate, independent!, career driven and thoughtful. I love how we're not too involved in each other's lives and that we're very career driven. Because of that, we give each other plenty of breathing room. I recently took her to Orlando for the weekend, just because. And now she actually bought tickets for us to go on a week cruise overseas. I went from a girl who couldn't even buy a bus ticket to come see me, to a girl who is buying me a cruise ticket.
Just dont let anyone tell you decent people dont exist out there. I even had good friends tell me to my face(I was hush about my relationship for a while) that you cant have good relationships like that. You set the standards you want for yourself, nobody else does. Just because your friends may have a draining relationships, that doesnt mean you need to. Always hope that youll meet someone decent. Keep living your life, keep doing your hobbies, keep discovering new hobbies and that person will come on their own time.
Now give me a congrats on the sex gif.
Maybe a gif of Charles S. Dutton clapping at the screen with a coat
Definitely that one gif with that hairy bearded man nodding at the screen.
