What if he just watched the first few episodes of Twin Peaks instead of watching those two movies?
I mean, if you're on-board with the style after 3 episodes, absolutely. I just think it's hard to convince people to stick with it if they're not feeling the pilot.
I'm having a conversation with another Lynch fan and we seem to agree...
Straight Story is Lynch at his most accessible. But it doesn't feel like much of a Lynch film.
Eraserhead and Inland Empire are "the most Lynch" but super inaccessible for newcomers.
Blue Velvet is probably the perfect balance of accessible and Lynchian, but not necessarily the best first foray into Lynch because of the 80's Lynchian melodrama that it shares with Twin Peaks. "modern" audiences seem to be turned off by that, for the most part.
I say Lost Highway because it's the perfect mix of accessible with Lynch-feel, without the melodrama (and has a killer soundtrack, to boot)
So yeah... I say Lost Highway & Blue Velvet first and foremost. Those are the best prep for diving into Twin Peaks / Lynch in general. I'd follow those with Eraserhead and Mulholland Drive, because the former is "the most Lynch" and good prep for Red Room / Black Lodge type madness, and the latter is Lynch's masterpiece but still kind of inaccessible due to length and general weirdness.
(this may be contrary to one of my earlier posts, but I've thought about it more today! LOL)
and to be clear... TP pilot + 2 episodes is about 3 hours of your time. If you're not feeling that style in the pilot, getting through those two episodes to get to the payoff can be quite a chore. I recommend Lost Highway and Blue Velvet because they are each self-contained and compelling unto themselves. LH in particular is under-appreciated, I think.