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Checking in. :3
Prax
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Inanna said:
Yes, but non-wired ones kind of don't have the same amount of support. The shape's usually blah. (Okay, this might be the problem with having larger breasts. idk).
Lacey bras are only for show--unnecessary! I like plain thinly lined bras best and am totally wowed by how much extra padding for push-up effects many bras have these days! SUCH AMAZING BRA TECHNOLOGY EXISTS NOW. Too bad I don't want any of it!
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Rikkun said:
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ajf009 said:
I'm sure Gowans will get around to it eventually. Message him about it if you want.
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kisaya said:
Yeah, I had figured
(and this was the case, but...it couldn't happen for a couple reasons...another story heh... *sadface)I assume most of the girls here expect to be asked out or have the guy be the initiator. I know this is traditional. There is one woman (41 y/o I believe) who is a friend of mine and in some ways an advice giver. She has a good job, oversees a decently large group of specialists, and is pretty strong-willed. She told me a few stories from her dating years, and how on several occasions she was simply too impatient to try and get a guy to ask her out and would instead initiate (give a number, etc). She's fairly attractive (certainly good enough to be asked out), so I found this funny. Any girls get this feeling?
Why would girls want to know who the guy they are interested in used to date? Most women I know don't do that, not the sane ones at least. If my friends know a guy they just tell me what they think of him and how he is as a person or if they like him or not, they don't go on and on and give me a huge list of girls he's been with. Seriously, why would anyone want to know THAT? And no I wouldn't ask them to tell me everything about the guy. I mean, the whole point of dating is getting to know each other.Clegg said:
I need some help. Why is it that most of the time girls have radically different taste on good mens clothing? At least in what I've noticed. They seem to think whatever current trend is what's good fashion. I've seem enough outfits picked out by friends girlfriends and awful clothing complimented by friends to nevernot take a womens sartorial advice with a grain of salt.
Sorry bad english is due to typing on a phone.
Sorry bad english is due to typing on a phone.
thesoapster said:Yeah, I had figured
I assume most of the girls here expect to be asked out or have the guy be the initiator. I know this is traditional. There is one woman (41 y/o I believe) who is a friend of mine and in some ways an advice giver. She has a good job, oversees a decently large group of specialists, and is pretty strong-willed. She told me a few stories from her dating years, and how on several occasions she was simply too impatient to try and get a guy to ask her out and would instead initiate (give a number, etc). She's fairly attractive (certainly good enough to be asked out), so I found this funny. Any girls get this feeling?
Most girls like guys who are really confident, which is why they wait for him to make the first move. It's pretty much the first test.
Like I said before, if there's an obvious mutual attraction and the guy doesn't ask first, I'll just jump on it. So much better than sitting around waiting with all these feelings bottled up inside.
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so "awwwww" is vagina for "pussy kryptonite"
i'm learning
i'm learning
shanshan310
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Rikkun said:
Hey, I did the wing-woman thing once and it worked. My friend was trying to pick up this Korean girl, and I spoke a bit of Korean. He ended up getting her number
Awww yeah.Noooooo push-up bras are the best. But even with them I can't get the cleavage effect TT-TT
Sports bras/ bras without wire etc make me feel uncomfortable. Usually the fabrics pretty thin and I'm not cool with people seeing nipples.
Alucrid said:
I don't know about bad taste, but typically a girl wants to look good next to her man. If she sees something in fashion for men then she obviously would want the guy to follow that model.
Same goes with guy friends. If she sees that they're wearing something that's "out of style" then she wants to help him out by picking up clothes that goes with whats in fashion. We do the same for our girl friends.
It's another story though if what's in fashion just doesn't look good on the guy. No one should ever wear something that doesn't go well with them even if it's in fashion.
kisaya said:
The hand thing would have made think the same thing. This is one of the problems that drives both sexes insane, the misunderstanding of signals like this. He/She says/does one thing that gets interpreted as an advance while the other person didn't mean anything by it.
Blade Worker said:
Funny about the aww one, I've used that on girls and I didn't mean I wasn't attracted, was just joking around if they do something silly. What are some things that guys do that confuse you girls?
I also hate the putting you in a box from the first time they meet you since I take a while to open up but by then I'm screwed already.
What things do guys do that confuse you girls
shanshan310
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Alucrid said:
Men's fashion never really changes though. At least, that's what I feel. You can never go wrong with a nice shirt.
Jin34 said:
Let me explain the hand thing haha. Usually I always have something to play with in my hands. I'm known for having conversations where I take a straw wrapper and just breaking it into little pieces while we're talking. In this case, me, him, and a few other friends were chilling and at one point we high fived. Then it just led to me playing around with his hand for maybe 10 seconds. It really wasn't anything flirty at all, and it was funny he assumed that I liked him since he knows about my dumb gestures.
computers putin'
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That "awwww" thing is weird
I need an example of when this a bad thing. Is it bad all the time or does it depend on the context?
I need an example of when this a bad thing. Is it bad all the time or does it depend on the context?
Prax
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Inanna said:
I consider D's big! But maybe they don't work the same because your band size is pretty small!
Inanna said:
Yeah, I have one girl friend in particular that's pretty flirty with guys. She is kind of oblivious to the whole. "guys generally take all signs of physical attention as attraction" rule, so it lands her into trouble. And then she gets all creeped out by the guy wanting to make moves on her. Haha. Some girls just like teasing guys. Mind games and power games, yo. >_>
Inanna said:
She wasn't purposely being flirty, that's just how she acts with people who she's close with. He wasn't the only guy that she acted this way around, she does this with girls too.
Not really justifying her though, but she didn't really realize at that time she was leading him on, especially since she was telling him that she was looking for a relationship with his friend.
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ikkemenx said:
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shanshan310
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Lol, someone's fishing around for girl-gaf on the facebook page. I'm not falling for that one!
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to be honest you're about to get a lot of attention in this thread
Epic Tales of Penis
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So I don't have much sexual experience and the guy I'm with is of average length but has a lot of girth. Whenever we have sex I find that he's really stretching me. What are the best positions or other advice to help minimize this?
TurboLibre
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BladeWorker said:
What is this "Awww" stuff? Like the sound people make when they see a puppy?
shanshan310
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Epic Tales of Penis said:
I'm actually not sure, but of all the gaffers your name and avatar combined make you look like the least likely candidate for a girl.
Prax
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Tkawsome said:
Yes. It is the sound of condescension and pity in a "you're so cute, you try so hard" kind of way! At least, that's my interpretation.
Excited "AaAW~!" = you're amazing! -- neutral to interested.
Sympathetic "aaaww....~" = you poor cute thing... haaaaahaaaa.. I am not interested in you.
Well, if that's how I were writing characters in a comic, that is how I would portray it!
I am probably confusing you though~! I don't actually know anything! Hahaaha~!
ikkemenx said:
I just want to ask a girl out. Probably it won't end as I hope but I won't be friend-zoned again in this life if that's not what I want.
I guess so.Tkawsome said:
Epic Tales of Penis said:
I'll leave the answer to the girl but.. that nickname.
bonus: I need a multiquote something for chrome, brb.
computers putin'
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Epic Tales of Penis said:
I doubt you're a girl
Ah, mind games suck imo. You are knowingly playing with a person's feelings, that's just not right. Unless the other person is also into it which quite a few guys are. Guys like that like the chase and girls that play hard to get. I think straightforward women must be a huge turn off to guys like that.Prax said:
computers putin'
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next time I hear "awww" in a conversation with a girl I'm just walking away
Epic Tales of Penis said:
Some added lube might make things more comfortable for you.
Tkawsome said:
Yeah, it sounds random but I can actually admit to doing this. Something you can say when you take pity on a guy or if someone (who likes you but you don't really like back) is just talking about something unfortunate and you awkwardly try to sympathize "aww, haha..." as it's a good silence-filler. Just really works when you don't have anything else to say to the person.
But yeah, like Prax mentioned if it's a really sincere/excited "AWW" it can be totally different. I can also remember doing this around guys I REALLY liked.
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computers putin' said:
But like Prax said, it really depends on the "aww". Sometimes its kinda condescending, other times it suggests genuine excitement/ overload of cutness. I'm guilty of doing both.
Alucrid said:
You can rarely go wrong with a leather jacket and/ or a button up shirt. I guess it depends on your body shape though...
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Prax said:
*walks away*
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Alucrid said:
Pfft I'm good at picking out men's fashion. About a year or two ago I spotted a cool jacket that one of my guy pal's still wears. I think it helps though that I'm more into harder edge fashion to begin with.
Typographenia
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At the risk of sounding horribly ignorant or generalizing...
I'm curious, Girls of Gaf, what's with the big appeal of changing hair color?
Most of the time it's that thing where girls bleach their hair blonde or just the tips or something, but why? Is it that you just want to wear it differently, don't like the original color, or some other reason?
It's always perplexed me, as I think dyed hair tends to look tacky more often than not. Natural hair color just looks so much nicer, in my opinion.
I'm curious, Girls of Gaf, what's with the big appeal of changing hair color?
Most of the time it's that thing where girls bleach their hair blonde or just the tips or something, but why? Is it that you just want to wear it differently, don't like the original color, or some other reason?
It's always perplexed me, as I think dyed hair tends to look tacky more often than not. Natural hair color just looks so much nicer, in my opinion.
kisaya said:
I know, I made a long post in the dating-age thread some days ago and a guy told me "Just ask her out, geez" so here I am.
She's a semi-coworker, 4y younger than me, don't wanna ruin the mood at workplace, we both work way too much, hopefully tomorrow I'll have time to ask her.
Ah, the guy also said to don't rape her, so I'll be careful if I'll get the date.
Typographenia said:
It's possible you might not be noticing a lot of the more subtle dye jobs. Often it's more than for aesthetic reasons. A fresh cut/dye or both can feel rejuvenating. Like at the start of a new school year where you want things to be different. For some people it's just for fun/experimentation and for some people it can be a pretty personal decision. Some people just get sick of a colour and want to get bold, and some might be deciding to go for a whole new look altogether. Personally I'm not a fan of big/wacky dyejobs and unnatural colours (neons, blues, greens and pinks) but sometimes just tinting to a shade that complements your skintone/eyes etc can do a whole lot of good!
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