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This is 100% a substance issue, OP. Do not let it get to you (seems easy for me to say, I know). I have had a problem with whiskey dick before and learned my lesson the hard way as well.
Knowing your limits and setting expectations ahead of time is EXTREMELY important. If it is a situation where you will be imbibing, either take care to limit you intake, or inform the parties involved of your situation. There is no shame in owning up to the fact that alcohol causes a major malfunction - it does for many folks, and you are most certainly not alone.
Whenever my wife and I get into something freaky with a new person and substances are involved I am careful to moderate myself. A shot or two of liquor (or two beers), or a toke or two at most, and never the two in combination in any amount.
If performance anxiety is the root cause, you will find out next attempt. At that point you either need to work with a psychologist or get a prescription for daddy's little helpers. The latter will solve any problems with getting Jimmy hard as a rock regardless of how inebriated or nervous you are, but they can be expensive if you aren't buying them from overseas.
I'm close to you in age and once upon a time, in my late teens and early twenties, whiskey dick meant that I could go for hours. Now it means that I can't get it up at all. It happens to the best of us.
Knowing your limits and setting expectations ahead of time is EXTREMELY important. If it is a situation where you will be imbibing, either take care to limit you intake, or inform the parties involved of your situation. There is no shame in owning up to the fact that alcohol causes a major malfunction - it does for many folks, and you are most certainly not alone.
Whenever my wife and I get into something freaky with a new person and substances are involved I am careful to moderate myself. A shot or two of liquor (or two beers), or a toke or two at most, and never the two in combination in any amount.
If performance anxiety is the root cause, you will find out next attempt. At that point you either need to work with a psychologist or get a prescription for daddy's little helpers. The latter will solve any problems with getting Jimmy hard as a rock regardless of how inebriated or nervous you are, but they can be expensive if you aren't buying them from overseas.
I'm close to you in age and once upon a time, in my late teens and early twenties, whiskey dick meant that I could go for hours. Now it means that I can't get it up at all. It happens to the best of us.
Yowsa, that's one way to go about it. Whatever floats your boat, man. I ain't judging.
ThatStupidLion
Member
Probably just whiskey dick brah. No worries dude!
Lord Panda
The Sea is Always Right
Yep, it was a swing and a miss.
Jason's Ultimatum
Member
You got to find a middle ground. Drink a little where you can be hard and last longer.
If your goal is to stay harder for longer, drinking is definitely the wrong way to go about it.
Erm, that's one way to go about it I guess.
LoremIpsum
Neo Member
I would have that problem also if I saw someone fucking my girlfriend.
I have no problem with threesome with another girl though, maybe you should try that.
I second that!
I have no problem with threesome with another girl though, maybe you should try that.
I second that!
Why are you trying to give this man whiskey and coke dick? 😂
Sniffynose
Member
Maybe seeing the person you love getting pounded by your friend and really enjoying it kinda soured your libido lmao. Ayyy just wait until the time comes where you two are serious serious and she still would rather have the other dick.
Fun times until feelings get involved.
Fun times until feelings get involved.
milamber182
Member
Should have given the poor guy a blowjob to make up for cock blocking him 
The Hermit
Member
Maybe deep down you don't enjoy the idea of having another guy fucking your girlfriend, and you feel bad that she didn't care about that and enjoyed the sex with your friend.
I know a couple who I am pretty sure they are into it, and, even though he has a hot girlfriend, I don't think I could do that knowing my gf would be sucking his cock.
I don't have enough self esteem for that, would be wondering " is my dick enough? Can I hold longer?" Being limp would be an absolute nightmare.
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I know a couple who I am pretty sure they are into it, and, even though he has a hot girlfriend, I don't think I could do that knowing my gf would be sucking his cock.
I don't have enough self esteem for that, would be wondering " is my dick enough? Can I hold longer?" Being limp would be an absolute nightmare.
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Phoenix RISING
Banned
OP learned that the fantasy of swapping partners is a lot more fun than the reality.
Vicetrailia
Member
Everyone knows that if you're swapping, and one person isn't having fun, you stop. You can't take one for the team because that means two people aren't having fun.
Putemintheoven
Neo Member
EMBRACE CUCKOLDRY
Yeah don't understand why people call it shitty. Everybody needs to be in on it and have fun. The moment one gets cuckolded against his or her wishes while the others are getting down, you're just on a fast track to a very messy break up.
