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The Interracial Dating Thread |OT|

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Topher said:
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i'll never forget that paul mooney quote "The only thing a white woman can do for Robert DeNiro is to point him in the direction of a fine black woman"
 
Air said:
Another example is if you're only into white girls, but somehow all the ones you ever dated, never seemed to jive with you. But you meet a black girl who you say you're not attracted to, but her personality melds very well with you. You would be doing YOURSELF a disservice by ignoring such a compatible mate.

I don't know about that. Some degree of mutual physical attraction is vital for a relationship to work imo. I'f I'm vibin with someone, but not attracted to them, they will make a great friend.
 

Air

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Bay Maximus said:
I don't know about that. Some degree of mutual physical attraction is vital for a relationship to work imo. I'f I'm vibin with someone, but not attracted to them, they will make a great friend.

Of course. I'm not saying you HAVE to choose someone you're not attracted to physically. Just to keep an open mind.

A friend of mine did not like black girls(for his own weird reasons), but after keeping an open mind, and realizing what he's attracted to physically in a woman, he was able to find those features spread across a wider variety of woman.

So all I'm saying is keep an open mind, because you might find out something about yourself you never would have thought possible
 

jon bones

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I'm brown (Sri lankan) and have dated white girls and brown girls. I've been known to hook up with black girls on occasion as well.

Never been with a non-brown Asian girl, though. Went out with a Vietnamese chick a couple times but it didn't go anywhere.

Girls are beautiful, regardless of race.
 

Jangocube

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I'm not in an interracial relationship, but other members of my family are and I don't see anything wrong with it.

And yes, Oreos are delicious.

And no, women aren't beautiful. Some are, most aren't.
 

Undubbed

Member
You know what I've never seen? An Asian man and a black women. They've got to be around somewhere.

We must search!

Now that I think of it I rarely see a Asian dude with a non Asian girlfriend(relatively speaking). And when I search for porn I think I've only seen one Asian man in western porn. I always wondered how Asian men are treated in American porn.
 
Undubbed said:
You know what I've never seen? An Asian man and a black women. They've got to be around somewhere.

We must search!

Now that I think of it I rarely see a Asian dude with a non Asian girlfriend(relatively speaking). And when I search for porn I think I've only seen one Asian man in western porn. I always wondered how Asian men are treated in American porn.


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I also found this: http://blasiannarrative.blogspot.com/
 

2San

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Dabanton said:
I'm black. I have gone out with most girls went through a period of serious asian obsession been out and been in :D women of

Indian
Pakistani
How did that work out for you? I come from the sub-continent myself(well my parents do), but I have some weird aversion for them. Except for those who are pretty much white on the inside. :eek:
Plywood said:
Wow that term is beyond loaded: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=oreo

As for new term, I vote for vanilla mocha. Y/N?
Interesting we use the word "Bounty", but it doesn't have a negative meaning over here(but isn't positive either, it's just neutral) .

For Americans who don't know what a Bounty is;
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agm2502

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Cousteau said:
Some of the hottest girls on the planet are mixed.
Keep having babies you interracial couples.

I'm white (English) married to a black women (African), got a baby on the way so yeah you're welcome lol.
 

Imm0rt4l

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Undubbed said:
You know what I've never seen? An Asian man and a black women. They've got to be around somewhere.

We must search!

Now that I think of it I rarely see a Asian dude with a non Asian girlfriend(relatively speaking). And when I search for porn I think I've only seen one Asian man in western porn. I always wondered how Asian men are treated in American porn.
I knew one when I used to attend church. Asian dude with a black woman, they had a pretty little girl.
 
agm2502 said:
I'm white (English) married to a black women (African), got a baby on the way so yeah you're welcome lol.
That's awesome man I ALWAYS speak up for my white brothers trying to convince black women I know to open up and date outside of their race. I don't know if it's history or cultural differences or a mutual lack of attraction but that's a real tough road there.
 

Pastry

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I'm a Mexican dating a White/Syrian girl, been with her for two and a half years and I plan on marrying her. She regularly gets confused for being Mexican but we live in San Antonio so that is pretty understandable, she has gotten used to it after a while haha. She has some pretty interesting country family living in West Texas that I think were pretty surprised when they found out she was with a Mexican, they got over her father being Syrian a long time ago.
 
Vox-Pop said:
Is a latina dating someone white really interracial?

A Latina (or Latino) dating someone white, black or otherwise doesn't make it automatically interracial as it's not considered a race but an ethnicity.
 

JGS

Banned
Before marriage, I was an equal opportunity dater. However, I always felt like I had more in common with my own race (Culture wise). which worked out nice since they were the ones I was physically attracted to more.

Interracial dating involved more educating than dating within my race. I think culture differences are going the way of the dodo but people are still going to gravitate overall to their own race. I just think there will be less hang-up with dating/marrying outside of it.
 

2San

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Plywood said:
I like that one also, Bounty, I'm gonna use that. Also that looks like it taste good.
It's good, but be warned the white center is coconut. I know some people dislike that.
 

besada

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I dated a Guatemalan girl years and years ago. She had big tits and she was a poet. It was fun. My wife's even whiter than I am, though.
 

Pirabear

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Bay Maximus said:
Btw, oreo is a derogatory term. Can we get a name change? I mean really

Almost forgot about the title, but yeah. I DESPISE the term oreo, especially since the only people I've ever seen using it are suburban white kids that see a black person that isn't acting like a ghetto moron.
 

Ranger X

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zero margin said:
Talking with your genes? wtf is going on in this thread lol

edit - language barrier I guess


lol , it just means that I am instinctively, naturally attracted to them. I can't fight it.
 

Ranger X

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captmcblack said:
End of thread.

This is all I meant by "I don't discriminate; no one ever should".

Women are beautiful in all shades, shapes and sizes.


Completely agree. I'd just bring on the table that we shouldn't shy before having preferences though. At same beauty level, I take the darker skin. I'm just like that.
 
Air said:
He's basically saying keep an open mind in regards to who you pursue. Because yes we all subconsciously discriminate, like you said with fatties, etc, but because we do that already, why must you narrow it down even more? Eventually when you do enough of it you'll shrink your dating pool to something ridiculously small. Think about it of all the 3.5 billion women or so, if you are an average male (lets say in america with a population pool of about 308 million people). If you stay in the states, but are able to travel to any which state you please, than you already have a pool of 308 million people. That's fine right, but only if you're bisexual. Let's assume half of that are females. So about 154 million females to select from. Not bad, but the pool is getting smaller. How many of those woman are of legal age, or an age desirable for sexual activity?

If you're starting to understand than you realize that your pool of woman suitable for you get smaller and smaller. So let's say you only date Indian woman between the ages of 18-50. That selection pool is EXTREMELY TINY. By pursuing such rare woman, and cutting off the other few millions, you're making life for yourself needlessly stressful. People usually say "oh I can never find the girl for me". Those people are so picky that their pool of women can only take up a n incredibly small fraction of the population.

So maybe mc phrased it wrong, and a better way would be to say: "Don't discriminate more than you already subconsciously do".

I hope you understand, and if you need me to elaborate I will try

EDIT: Another example is if you're only into white girls, but somehow all the ones you ever dated, never seemed to jive with you. But you meet a black girl who you say you're not attracted to, but her personality melds very well with you. You would be doing YOURSELF a disservice by ignoring such a compatible mate.
Yeah, i get what you're saying.
I obviously would date a black/asian girl if i was attracted to her, but there are very few of them in central europe and i've yet to meet one that was attractive. well, there was the one or other asian girl that was fairly attractive, but nothing remarkable.
Either way, 95-99% of the girls here are white, so i'm not really missing out.
I'm forever alone anyway, no matter the race
 
i live in a country where 99% of girls are the same race, which is different to my own, so i'm sortof in this thread by default - besides japanese girls though i've always been into girls from wherever. i've had girlfriends from greece, iran, kenya...interracial dating is awesome. honestly right now i think i'd find it sortof weird being with a girl that i could communicate fluently with, not to mention less interesting; i like the language and cultural exchange that goes with it.
 
captmcblack said:
Just gonna pitch a tent in this here thread and watch.

Also, my current girlfriend is Hispanic and I'm black.
My previous girlfriends were black women and white women.
I don't discriminate. No one ever should.

Wait what?
 

3dmodeler

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Undubbed said:
You know what I've never seen? An Asian man and a black women. They've got to be around somewhere.

We must search!

Now that I think of it I rarely see a Asian dude with a non Asian girlfriend(relatively speaking). And when I search for porn I think I've only seen one Asian man in western porn. I always wondered how Asian men are treated in American porn.

Funny you should say that. I stumbled onto a site full of pictures of Chinese men with beautiful African women.

http://www.tianya.cn/publicforum/content/funinfo/1/2572446.shtml

Just make sure you don't read the comments.
 

2San

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3dmodeler said:
Just make sure you don't read the comments.
Google translate makes it hard to understand what they are saying. :eek: The whole "Black African women is the solution to the gender imbalance in China!" made me chuckle though.
 

Measley

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I'm mixed race (amerindian, black, white) and my wife is white. I've dated just about every ethnicity. Only a fool would limit their options.
 
I'm black, and I've dated within and outside my race.

I do have a thing for hispanic women though, although I think that just came from growing up in Washington Heights, heh.
 

george_us

Member
Black guy here.

Last chick I dated was Asian, Native-American, and white. Dat ass told me she was black though. She had a kid though which really, really sucked when I found out. One of the coolest and most alluring girls I've ever met.

Now I'm currently talking to an Aussie white girl. Not really dating since she had to fly back to Melbourne for a couple of months but she seems pretty awesome.
 

Dabanton

Member
2San said:
How did that work out for you? I come from the sub-continent myself(well my parents do), but I have some weird aversion for them. Except for those who are pretty much white on the inside. :eek:

The indian girl her folks were ok they were artists so weren't too taken aback. The Pakistani girls parents weren't to happy to be honest her mum in particular was outraged it just got too much for her so we broke up.
 
I find myself drawn to mainly black and ethnic looking girls... probably cause there is such and overload of beautiful blondes here in Sweden that they kind of all blend together. :p
Beautiful black women are definitely more rare in these parts, and there's something incredibly alluring about them. It's definitely a challenge for a skinny white boy such as myself to get their attention however, but that doesn't stop me from trying. :p

I've also dated an asian girl once that had the body of a little boy and was incredibly passive in bed; I basically had to do all the work which isn't very fun. Once when I had whiskey-dick I told her to help me get going and her response was that she 'didn't know how'. What the hell? It's not that difficult really, you just stroke it til it's hard. It's not rocket-science.
 
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