RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
I completely agree about the tumblr thing. They can sometimes be oddly specific. The other day I stumbled onto a tumblr that was all about hot fit guys that got chubby in college.
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Fantastical
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I completely agree about the tumblr thing. They can sometimes be oddly specific. The other day I stumbled onto a tumblr that was all about hot fit guys that got chubby in college.
Lol, that's so weird.
That sounds hot
No but I do now.
Marry me. (yeah, you shouldn't have any trouble meeting people, lol)
Obligatory bathroom phone cam shot that I don't think I shared with the thread before! I need to find this shirt again...lost it somewhere. =/
I'm trying to picture the logistics. I'm a little turned on, not gonna lie.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
I saw a video like that once.
BlazingDarkness
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thread just took a turn for the better
Fantastical
Death Prophet
There's a Tumblr for that.
Just when you'd thought you'd heard everything. I don't need a URL for that one, thanks.
I'm thinking of doing of of those porn hiatus things for a bit. Not that I think I'm addicted but I'm finding they're just not really doing anything for me at the moment and cutting back never hurts right?
GasProblem
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So, went to a gay bar for the first time ever last night. It was that meeting up group i was talking about. Im in a group of 9 and theyre all really nice people. This first meeting we only talked about our coming out (or still being in the closet). Going to do more fun stuff later on though. At 10am the regular bar night began and people that werent part of our group started to come in. I spent the whole night just talking to different members of my group. Im horrible at mingling. I just cant walk up to a group of people who i dont know and start blabbering. For some reason i always think im not good enough or something, that people can do better then me. I dont know, next time Im going to have a few more beers and try to mingle a but more, getting out if my comfort zone and hopefully getting over these annoying feelings of anxiety. Seeing people around me having fun and socializing and being comfortable in their skin just makes me wish i could feel the same. But I hate self-pity and this isnt the tell me your personal issues thread so im going to stop typing now. Also its 4:30 AM and im really tired but my eyes just wont close.
That's.. quite early for a "bar night".
But yeah, first time is always "weird", topped wit h this been the first time you go there with this people too.
So, patience. In the end, you're not supposed to "have to enjoy" a bar. I've been to a couple..alone ,with friends, with co-workers..and it never clicked with me. I still go when invited and stuff and with a positive attitude, but is just not my thing.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Found it. <3
This is really hot as well, but I feel so bad for the guys with the smaller dicks.
The other day I stumbled onto a tumblr that was all about hot fit guys that got chubby in college.
I'm still on the look out for this one though...
This is really hot as well, but I feel so bad for the guys with the smaller dicks.
Don't! They're probably enjoying it more than the big guy
I need to find a guy with a bigger dick than me. *kicks a rock* Hate bein' submissive sometimes.
*kicks a rock* Hate bein' submissive sometimes.Don't! They're probably enjoying it more than the big guy
I need to find a guy with a bigger dick than me.
I see what you did there...
Nah, you're pretty slutty.
But OWN IT. It's hot! A person in absolute control of their sexuality will always be 100 times hotter than a slut in denial.
Fantastical
Death Prophet
Don't! They're probably enjoying it more than the big guy
I need to find a guy with a bigger dick than me.
Oh you poor thing. >_>
DR2K
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I don't think I've earned enough merit badges for slut. Maybe one day.
Don't sell yourself short. I think you've raised many a head in this thread with your stories of taking BBD like a champ.
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Don't! They're probably enjoying it more than the big guy
lol
Don't! They're probably enjoying it more than the big guy
I need to find a guy with a bigger dick than me.
How is the size of the penis related to being submissive or not?
CHEEZMO
Obsidian fan
That's what I was wondering.
lordfroakie
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Don't! They're probably enjoying it more than the big guy
I need to find a guy with a bigger dick than me.
What about Danny?
DR2K
Banned
Don't sell yourself short. I think you've raised many a head in this thread with your stories of taking BBD like a champ.
I didn't take it, it could barely fit in my mouth, lol.
I think that it is an antiquated idea that the size of the penis is related to the manliness of the person, but ok.
Is there a subject that -won't- offend gayGAF in some way?
RatskyWatsky
Hunky Nostradamus
Go on...
Marry me. (yeah, you shouldn't have any trouble meeting people, lol)
Obligatory bathroom phone cam shot that I don't think I shared with the thread before! I need to find this shirt again...lost it somewhere. =/
Oh hai. We talked on grindr.
CHEEZMO
Obsidian fan
ooh, do tell
I'm not offended, I'm just a bit sad that some people don't realize that the size of the manhood has nothing to do with how assertive you are in bed.
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No more than there's a post of yours with anything of value in it.
I don't believe that at all; I just find it kinky to be out-sized, knowing that there's a major societal connection between penis size and worth as a male.
You really shouldn't be looking for connections between people's fetishes and their views on gender roles.
(Obviously ignoring the utterly pathetic cheap shot.)
excelforward
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Magnus, I don't think I ever realized that was your Gaf name. I just know you on the FaceBox. Weird.
I'd hit on you, too, but we both know where I stand on that matter.
I'd hit on you, too, but we both know where I stand on that matter.
i.e. I'd hit it like an orc in a room full of hobbits.
excelforward
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Interesting that you brought this up, because it's something I've been struggling with a little bit myself. My partner and I are open, and he personally finds my general level of sluttiness really hot. I think it's hot that he is to. However, I don't think it's hot that I am... does that make sense?
I've been struggling a little bit recently with getting better self-confidence, and as a result I've been getting better. I got this mostly throught starting to lift weights seriously for the first time, and gaining about 8lbs of muscle over two months. As I get more confident in myself, I'm getting more confident in my sexuality, too. Until then, I'll just fake it 'til I make it, and keep lifting weights (in the hopes of one day not being so scrawny).
It makes sense, but I really wouldn't worry about it much. If you and your partner are mutually comfortable with it, I'd be happy.
(Also, congrats on sticking to your workout plan! Takes a lot of tenacity to gain 8lbs of muscle in two months. I'm genuinely impressed.)
excelforward
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Tenacity and a whole crapton of eating. I'm in half-marathon training right now (my race is on Cinco de Mayo), and then I'm right back to lifting. I want to try and throw on 10-12lbs in two months, and then do a 5-ish pound cut over the next two months. I'm aiming for a solid 150lbs by October. I'm aiming to squat 200lbs (at 165), deadlift 185lbs (at 155), and benchpress 150 (at 125 now) by the end of the year.
If I win, I'll post pics.
As to us being comfortable, we're down with it... and usually ask details from the other partner for spankbank material later. I'm happy with the setup, and he seems to enjoy it, too.
hey gaf! i wanna make it short: my gf (together for one year) is bisexual. recently she made a lot of sexual innuendos e.g. how she would perform having oral sex with a girl after we had sex...well she always had these thoughts but never acted on them...plus recently she spent a lot of time with her female friend from work...actually more time than with me - e.g. while we where together that evening talking her friend called and she told me that she wants to go over cuz she called. she says that she is just a friend and that she would tell me if she would like to try something out with her...i don´t know if that´s just jealousy from my side or if i should worry. it´s just the feeling of being not so important anymore that bugs me...how would you deal with such a situation gaf?
excelforward
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My advice is just to believe her. If you were in her situation, how would it feel if suddenly she came up and told you that she thought you were cheating on her? Pretty angry, right? I say this especially since she's willing to be open about whether or not she wants to get with this girl. The best thing, in my opinion, is to have a good conversation (no blaming, not anger, etc.) letting her know that you're feeling a little neglected and would liek to spend more time with her. Maybe even ask her if all three of you could hang out (but obviously in a non-sexual manner).
Remember, relationship is all about communication. Let her know you really want to spend some more time with her. If she's hesitant to spend time with you, or says one thing and blantantly does another, then there's a bit of a red flag.
tl;dr Trust her. Talk to her. Let her know your needs.
Well i think this has already happened. Because recently when i ask her if we can have some together time e.g. tomorrow at time x she mostly tells me that she doesn´t know because she doesn´t know when her female friend calls to come over...i think she already has a guilty conscience because she is also didn´t want to talk about when i asked her if she is avoiding me. I really don´t know how to act.
excelforward
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Sounds like you're a dick.
Is this a repeating trend, or maybe a once-in-a-while thing? Rather than saying that you want to meet on certain days, maybe just try and put out a general "Hey, I want to spend more time with you." It sounds sillly, I'm sure, but just saying "Hey, I feel kind of neglected recently" is a way to both be direct and show her you're willing to open up.
Asking her if she's avoiding you will instantly put her on the defensive, because that could come across as a 'YOU are doing this to me' statement not a 'This is how I feel' statement. One feels judgemental, the other feels trusting. In any argument, the easiest way to make it escalate it is to use 'you' statements.
excelforward
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How have you been? <3
Oh hai thar! I'm good, just getting ready to finish up my first year at Roosevelt. You need to come back up to Chicago this summer and enjoy the wonderfulness that is the Lake Shore path full of hot mens. Plus, ya know, I actually like seeing you.
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