I guess that was where the open relationship part came to being. Obviously that's the past now.
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My girlfriend is a lesbian.
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I guess that was where the open relationship part came to being. Obviously that's the past now.
Man there really should be an official break-up thread.
That being said, OP just give yourself time. That's all you can do, outside of picking up new hobbies and meeting new people.
I went through the worst breakup imaginable (betrayal, lying, cheating, close friends involved) this past summer. It took me a really long time to get over it. I never thought I would at one point.
Months later I'm happy and life moves on. Just know that you'll eventually meet someone who is a better fit, and wants to actually be with you because you're you.
That being said, OP just give yourself time. That's all you can do, outside of picking up new hobbies and meeting new people.
I went through the worst breakup imaginable (betrayal, lying, cheating, close friends involved) this past summer. It took me a really long time to get over it. I never thought I would at one point.
Months later I'm happy and life moves on. Just know that you'll eventually meet someone who is a better fit, and wants to actually be with you because you're you.
(snicker)
Gaaaaaaaaaad DAMN.
kitchenmotors
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You know what to do BlueSteel... Go gay with Delio. I remember that connection you two had!
Damn sis!
Damn sis!
I will support her every step of the way. I just need to clear my mind. Thanks for helping me through this guys.
Anticitizen One
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At least you didn't find out after marrying her
Chicago you say? Pics of the GF?
Dark Octave
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You'll get through this and be alright, man. Creating a thread and putting your business out there when you are at your most vulnerable state, will draw a lot of different opinions and mocking, but it's a good tool to vent and get stuff off of your chest and ease your mind as well. It does help.
Devolution
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Chicago gaf should buy this guy some beers.
I see people quoting this as if it's some sick burn. I'm not stupid, I know that. She's not sure though, and if I didn't make that clear well then I'll rub my dick with rubbing alcohol if it makes you feel any better.
It is a sick burn. It doesn't have anything to do with you.
Text me big boy. I'll take that pain away.
The Anti-Monitor
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I don't think you understand why that is a sick burn, or who it is directed to.
Oh. Derp. I guess I assumed too much then. My bad.
EDIT: Yea I went back and looked. Jumped the gun on that one.
keltickennedy
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Break ups suck man. Have a few.
See if you can still be friends (i doubt it since you were that close) but everyone is different. Life goes on and things will get better man.
"the sweet isn't as sweet without the sour"
Btw, how long were you two together? I think I missed it.
I now know the error of my ways.
Yea, I'm really sorry about that Satch. Take a virtual fake beer from me as my apology?
I hate this comic. It's spelled bestiality.
avengers23
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Adopt Weezer's "Pink Triangle" as your new anthem.
FrankCaron
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I've wondered about that and wonder what stuff I'd do, given my mindset in the past. Then I see my own face and get all awkward.
ThanksVision
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last minute entry as post of the year
MWS Natural
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She found new...clit?
A+
donkey show
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I know that feel bro. It's gonna be tough for a bit, but just there's always someone else.
God I'm saving this gif.
PhoenixDark
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Just move on bro, it has nothing to do with anything you did or didn't do. You're young, face reality: any girl you get with right now likely will not be "the one" so don't trip. I'm not saying you should treat potential girlfriends like shit because it doesn't matter...I'm saying don't get obsessed over a mirage. If it works awesome, you beat statistics. If not...dust yourself off and re-enter the market with more experience.
ohhhh myyyy gooooooddddddd
My man.
OP... things are probably going a mile a minute for you right now, just try to breathe and slow down for a bit. If it gets too much for you, and you need some time alone I'm sure your girlfriend (ex?) will understand. Just tell her that a lot of stuff just happened, and while you want to keep talking to her about it, you just need a little time to get it all sorted in your head.
God, looking at satch's post in the actual context... wow.
Yea, I feel a lot better now. Thanks GAF.
Just did.
Yea, I feel a lot better now. Thanks GAF.
Just did.
kitchenmotors
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OP is no girl. I felt those rippling muscles when we hugged
Get it gurl. Pounce on ha.
Gurl I would. Was far to hot to pass up.
You'll have to settle for when I go on Tinychat again ;D
kitchenmotors
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I'm sure you could tame ha into sleeping on the bottom bunk.
Meus Renaissance
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So she was only with you because of physical attraction?
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