He actually did ask so it is not really ilegal. However he also says this.
Showing a woman your cock without her asking is illegal.
Which is a pretty good conclusion imo. Honestly I think his aology is very solid and feels honest. His time is over and he wont get any jobs for sure.
At the time, I said to myself that what I did was okay because I never showed a woman my dick without asking first, which is also true. But what I learned later in life, too late, is that when you have power over another person, asking them to look at your dick isn’t a question. It’s a predicament for them.”