starchild excalibur
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I have a friend (we'll call him Joey Joe Joe Junior Shabadoo, or "Joey" for short) that I've known for a handful years or so now. Over the years - due to various personal reasons - I've found myself growing less close with him. Not due to him doing anything horrible, really, but just in the way that as some people get older they feel less inclined to hang out all the time. Many of my friends - even ones that I'm closer to than him - I'll see maybe once every few weeks or even more rarely, which works just fine for me. Also, I'm an introvert who often enjoys my free time alone.
I think Joey doesn't have a ton of friends (hey, no judgments - I don't either), so he's often asking to hang out or asking what I'm up to. Is there any decent way to tell a friend that you don't wanna hang out, not because you're busy, but simply because you don't feel like seeing them? Additionally, is there a way to tell them this without you seeming like an asshole and them possibly getting all moody around you?
We're both in our 30s and work at the same company, if that provides more context/explanation about my general friend fatigue, too.
I think Joey doesn't have a ton of friends (hey, no judgments - I don't either), so he's often asking to hang out or asking what I'm up to. Is there any decent way to tell a friend that you don't wanna hang out, not because you're busy, but simply because you don't feel like seeing them? Additionally, is there a way to tell them this without you seeming like an asshole and them possibly getting all moody around you?
We're both in our 30s and work at the same company, if that provides more context/explanation about my general friend fatigue, too.