Dabookerman
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(09-18-2009, 01:03 AM)

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#51

Originally Posted by disillusion386:
I didn't know 90% of American men were afraid of shaking hands or patting each other on the back.
What?

I thought men like that liked to shower together and compare the size of their cocks?
Replicant
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(09-18-2009, 01:03 AM)

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#52

Originally Posted by nilbog21:
You guys make fun of him but this is like 90% of american men
Really? Hmm, come to think of it, when I met some Americans in Japan, I do notice that they tend to be less...physical in expressing their affection. Meanwhile, guys from UK, Sweden, (Europe mostly) etc are pretty comfortable with hugging (to say goodbye/wish good luck), putting hands around your shoulder, and some even comfortable with winking/physically joking around (slapping someone's ass), etc. I thought that's just a one-off case though. I didn't think it's actually a generic thing with most American guys.
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#53

Originally Posted by rhfb:
High fives, fist bumps, and maybe jumping shoulder bumps... beyond that... no
It's just a small leap from that to a HomoAmerica.
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#54

Originally Posted by evil solrac v3.0:
lick their earlobes....
ROFL
Mumei
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(09-18-2009, 01:05 AM)

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#55

Originally Posted by heliosRAzi:
I think it depends on the attractiveness of the woman.
It doesn't depend on the attractiveness of the guy for me, so not necessarily.
KibblesBits
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#56

This is totally an American thing.
And to some extent the United Kingdom.
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#57

its only gay if goes all the way in
Replicant
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(09-18-2009, 01:06 AM)

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#58

Originally Posted by RefigeKru:
There's nothing wrong with anything you posted. Yesterday at a party my friend pinned me up against a wall and mimicked screwing me, earlier during the night he slapped my groin too. All guy fun. Kicking it with the bro's.

One of my friends DOES take it too far, rubbing my back, side of my body and stuff while being nice over stuff I'm not even depressed about (For example, I'm detailing daddy issues, and he's rubbing me all over). Rubbing my neck, tickling the lobe of my ear. Too "sensual" for my liking.
Those are so hawt!

Originally Posted by Teh Hamburglar:
its only gay if goes all the way in
Wrong. It's only gay if the balls touch.
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(09-18-2009, 01:07 AM)

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#59

Originally Posted by KibblesBits:
This is totally an American thing.
And to some extent the United Kingdom.
I'm still not sure why my friends get angry when I rub my penis on their thighs.

I'm just saying "You're my best friend!"

Originally Posted by Teh Hamburglar:
its only gay if goes all the way in
Originally Posted by Replicant:
Wrong. It's only gay if the balls touch.
You're both right.

It won't stop me from trying though.

*blushes*
red shoe paul
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#60

First pounds and high fives. That's it.
kaskade
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#61

I know when I see most of my friends during winter break we will share some man hugging time.
StuBurns
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#62

It's interesting how totally different physical contact tends to be between friends of the same sex vs the opposite sex. Even when it's not sexually charged there tends to be a lot more leaning on each other, head on each others shoulders, sitting on laps. The kind of thing most people would feel completely uncomfortable to do with people of the same sex.
Dabookerman
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(09-18-2009, 01:09 AM)

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#63

Brush hands when walking side by side.
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(09-18-2009, 01:10 AM)

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#64

Originally Posted by stuburns:
It's interesting how totally different physical contact tends to be between friends of the same sex vs the opposite sex. Even when it's not sexually charged there tends to be a lot more leaning on each other, head on each others shoulders, sitting on laps. The kind of thing most people would feel completely uncomfortable to do with people of the same sex.
Speak for yourself.
RefigeKru
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(09-18-2009, 01:13 AM)
#65

I've sat on my friend's lap before, and they've sat on mine. :lol

I think what you just posted is something certain friends can do when they're really comfortable around each other.
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(09-18-2009, 01:14 AM)

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#66

Originally Posted by RefigeKru:
I've sat on my friend's lap before, and they've sat on mine. :lol

I think what you just posted is something certain friends can do when they're really comfortable around each other.
A couple of friends and I would even jack off together.

Little did I know one of my friends was looking at me when we did so.

It got a little awkward when I realized he was looking at me instead of the porn.
StuBurns
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(09-18-2009, 01:16 AM)

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#67

Originally Posted by Thunder Monkey:
A couple of friends and I would even jack off together.
I've never felt like a prude till right now.
KibblesBits
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(09-18-2009, 01:17 AM)

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#68

Originally Posted by Thunder Monkey:
A couple of friends and I would even jack off together.

Little did I know one of my friends was looking at me when we did so.

It got a little awkward when I realized he was looking at me instead of the porn.
you liked it.
RefigeKru
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(09-18-2009, 01:17 AM)
#69

Originally Posted by Thunder Monkey:
A couple of friends and I would even jack off together.

Little did I know one of my friends was looking at me when we did so.

It got a little awkward when I realized he was looking at me instead of the porn.
Hmm.
Replicant
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(09-18-2009, 01:17 AM)

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#70

Originally Posted by Thunder Monkey:
A couple of friends and I would even jack off together.

Little did I know one of my friends was looking at me when we did so.

It got a little awkward when I realized he was looking at me instead of the porn.
Give the guy a break. He probably just needs 'live flesh' to get turned on.
Dabookerman
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(09-18-2009, 01:18 AM)

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#71

Originally Posted by Thunder Monkey:
A couple of friends and I would even jack off together.

Little did I know one of my friends was looking at me when we did so.

It got a little awkward when I realized he was looking at me instead of the porn.
Soggy Biscuit yes?

You lost didn't you.
JBuccCP
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(09-18-2009, 01:18 AM)

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#72

What's the etiquette when jacking off with friends? Do you each get your own corner of the room, have to aim another direction? Is it every man for himself or do you try to all finish at the same time?
KibblesBits
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(09-18-2009, 01:19 AM)

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#73

^ C-C-C-C-Combo Breaker!
disillusion386
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(09-18-2009, 01:20 AM)

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#74

Originally Posted by JBuccCP:
What's the etiquette when jacking off with friends? Do you each get your own corner of the room, have to aim another direction? Is it every man for himself or do you try to all finish at the same time?
You all try to ejaculate on a cookie and the last one to come has to eat the cookie.
USD
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(09-18-2009, 01:20 AM)

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#75

Originally Posted by stuburns:
It's interesting how totally different physical contact tends to be between friends of the same sex vs the opposite sex. Even when it's not sexually charged there tends to be a lot more leaning on each other, head on each others shoulders, sitting on laps. The kind of thing most people would feel completely uncomfortable to do with people of the same sex.
There is certainly noticeable differences between sexes though, part it tied to stigma. I see girls do the bolded fairly often, generally in a playful/friendly way. Rarely would you see this between two guy friends (where I live).
Lelielle
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(09-18-2009, 01:22 AM)
#76

Protecting and Maintaining your Heterosexual house of cards:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iObGIkqhJJw

:lol
giga
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(09-18-2009, 01:22 AM)

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#77

Originally Posted by Undeux:
Just don't overthink it? It's not a big deal.
Pretty much this.

I have some guy friends who I'm pretty close with and we have no problem with the occasional hug or pat. (it's usually for fun) I can understand how it can be uncomfortable--you just have to let go and remember that it's not an advancement on you (flirting, hitting on you, whatever), just jolly friendship.
Jenga
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#78

Stick to handshakes. If you're friends start giving you pats/high-fives/hugs/et etc., then feel free to imitate, it should be fair game from then on.
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(09-18-2009, 01:26 AM)

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#79

Don't touch me!
you're not my priest!
reilo
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(09-18-2009, 01:27 AM)

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#80

Don't cross the streams!
Thunder Monkey
(09-18-2009, 01:27 AM)

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#81

Originally Posted by stuburns:
I've never felt like a prude till right now.
If that makes me gay then I don't wanna be straight!
Originally Posted by KibblesBits:
you liked it.
*blushes*
Originally Posted by RefigeKru:
Hmm.
Very hmmm.
Originally Posted by Replicant:
Give the guy a break. He probably just needs 'live flesh' to get turned on.
I never said I stopped.
Originally Posted by Dabookerman:
Soggy Biscuit yes?

You lost didn't you.
Nah, we were in it for the orgasms.
Originally Posted by JBuccCP:
What's the etiquette when jacking off with friends? Do you each get your own corner of the room, have to aim another direction? Is it every man for himself or do you try to all finish at the same time?
Hell, I was the only guy in the room that could mount a threefer.
Originally Posted by KibblesBits:
^ C-C-C-C-Combo Breaker!
:lol
industrian
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(09-18-2009, 01:28 AM)

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#82

Well, I was talked into doing a dance called "The Bump", but my hip slipped and my buttocks came into contact with the buttocks of another young man.
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(09-18-2009, 01:31 AM)

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#83

Originally Posted by industrian:
Well, I was talked into doing a dance called "The Bump", but my hip slipped and my buttocks came into contact with the buttocks of another young man.
I will miss that show. :(
ant1532
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(09-18-2009, 01:31 AM)

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#84

Originally Posted by WyndhamPrice:
IS THIS A SHIRT?
Replicant
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(09-18-2009, 01:34 AM)

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#85

Originally Posted by JBuccCP:
What's the etiquette when jacking off with friends? Do you each get your own corner of the room, have to aim another direction? Is it every man for himself or do you try to all finish at the same time?
Synchronized cumming. The new hot trend from GAF.
oxrock
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#86

I find the bro handshake/hug to be the least uncomfortable. Let me illustrate.
Step 1
[IMG]http://i29.************/2dqlmwk.jpg[/IMG]

Steps 2-3
[IMG]http://i31.************/264j091.jpg[/IMG]

With really close friends I find this the most acceptable, with family a more traditional hug is called for imho.
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(09-18-2009, 01:35 AM)

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#87

Originally Posted by Replicant:
Synchronized cumming. The new hot trend from GAF.
An Olympic sport in the making... cumming.

My family use to think I could be a politician one day.

I will make sure that is never the case!
industrian
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(09-18-2009, 01:36 AM)

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#88

Is it gay to play Putt-Putt golf with a friend and watch his butt-butt when he tees off? But, but! I ain't done yet. In football the quarterback yells out "hutt-hutt" while he reaches in another grown man's ass. Grabs on his nuts but just what if it was never meant, it was just an accident. But he tripped, fell, slipped and his penis went in his teeny tiny little round hiney but he didn't mean it but his little weenie flinched just a little bit. And I don't mean to go in into any more details but what if he pictured it as a females butt? Is that gay? I just need to clear things up. Till then I'll just walk around with a manly strut.
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(09-18-2009, 01:37 AM)

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Originally Posted by industrian:
Is it gay to play Putt-Putt golf with a friend and watch his butt-butt when he tees off? But, but! I ain't done yet. In football the quarterback yells out "hutt-hutt" while he reaches in another grown man's ass. Grabs on his nuts but just what if it was never meant, it was just an accident. But he tripped, fell, slipped and his penis went in. His teeny tiny little round hiney but he didn't mean it but his little weenie flinched just a little bit. And I don't mean to go in into any more details but what if he pictured it as a females butt? Is that gay? I just need to clear things up. Till then I'll just walk around with a manly strut.
:lol :lol

Awesome.
minx88
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(09-18-2009, 01:58 AM)

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#90

It isn't gay unless you blow your load.....
Blackace
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(09-18-2009, 02:00 AM)

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Originally Posted by industrian:
Is it gay to play Putt-Putt golf with a friend and watch his butt-butt when he tees off? But, but! I ain't done yet. In football the quarterback yells out "hutt-hutt" while he reaches in another grown man's ass. Grabs on his nuts but just what if it was never meant, it was just an accident. But he tripped, fell, slipped and his penis went in his teeny tiny little round hiney but he didn't mean it but his little weenie flinched just a little bit. And I don't mean to go in into any more details but what if he pictured it as a females butt? Is that gay? I just need to clear things up. Till then I'll just walk around with a manly strut.
Fuckin' brain's brawn, and brass balls
I cut 'em off, i got 'em pickled and bronzed in a glass jar
Inside of a hall, with my framed autograph,
Sunglasses with elton john's name, on my drag wall
I'm out the closet, i been lying my ass off
All this time, me and dre been fucking with hats off

Suck it marshall
YYZ
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#92

In communist China, it's acceptable for close male friends to hold hands. Take that, America.
santouras
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#93

just have some PK
nestea
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(09-18-2009, 02:10 AM)
#94

So, out of curiosity here. When you are hugging a woman, are you doing so with sexual intent?

If not, it sounds like you are experiencing some form of affection by hugging them. Have you ever peaked at other naked men in the locker room?
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#95

Patting on the ass is acceptable, it's football season.
Aselith
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I've got to tell you, OP, there's nothing more brotherly than getting jacked off by your best guy friend. You should really try it. I think you'll find yourself pleasently suprised.
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#97

Originally Posted by Fafnir:
^ this looks Goatse-ish to me.
fastford58
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#98

I generally do not like physical contact with people so the mand-shake and bro-hug always feel awkward to me.

Of course, I don't like touching my blood relatives either. My wife on the other hand, I'll snog her rotten all day and night.
Slurmer
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(09-18-2009, 02:28 AM)

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#99

Originally Posted by inner-G:
^ this looks Goatse-ish to me.
damn you
DMeisterJ
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(09-18-2009, 02:36 AM)

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#100

Hold the fuck on, who is jacking off with other dudes at the same time? Oh my god, what fucking world do I live in!