[Jason Raize '75 - '04]

Her photo is available on an internet dating site... I'm not seeing the problem?

This

[marrec]

She's just using you to get a free meal.

[Eggman]

Man, I remember the times of facethejury and ratemybody.

ratemypoo was also a hit.

[Karl2177]

A "camera visible in the mirror" shot? Oh dear.

Well that's a great nsfw warning...

[ReConstructDead]

It's probably a dude.
A black dude.

[LakeEarth]

Don't listen to the negatives here. You can totally find a cute awesome girl on these websites. You'll also find a lot of lame girls, or ones where you have nothing to talk about, but thems the risks of dating anyone.

She's just using you to get a free meal.

Also a possibility. But I dated a girl for a few months who later admitted to me that I was just a "free dinner" at first, but was just too damned adorable to stop dating.

Then again I also got the girl who got a phonecall mid-date and said her mom was sick. I was so pissed that I gave her a ride to her car, and stood there until she drove off, just to force her to keep the lie going.

[BGBW]

I was going to say, if he's a hardcore gamer there's a chance she reads GAF.

Wheres the correlation? If A is true then B is true?

Remember, girls love to pay for everything on the first date.

50/50 split all the way. If they don't like it, then it was never going to work.

[Entropia]

Man, I remember the times of facethejury and ratemybody.

HotOrNot!


Anyway, OP: You managed to get a date from 1 girl on a dating site. Good luck. While the chances of that are low, it's nothing to be bragging about.

[Dibbz]

The pic is probably 5 years old OP. Run for your life.

[mik83kuu]

I hope your date goes superbly. God speed :-)

[Angry Grimace]

lol @ jealousy-GAF trying to convince OP all sorts of flags are being set off.

[Steelrain]

It's probably a dude. A black dude.

Whys he gotta be black?

[DrFunk]

First one you meet online is never successful OP. Don't get attached

[nateeasy]

She used a picture of herself from 5 years ago. Add 45 pounds to her.

[Zeouterlimits]

Good luck OP, but the one rule is - never post the picture!

[marrec]

lol @ jealousy-GAF trying to convince OP all sorts of flags are being set off.

Jealousy? Hardly.

Me and my hand don't need to go out to fancy places to have fun.

[LeleSocho]

OP you are a liar, you said she was cute :/

[BGBW]

Well that's a great nsfw warning...

Fixed it now. Didn't even realise that was a valid link. Was just censoring the OP's link to avoid any problems.

[toxicgonzo]

I could have had a date with a girl from OkC, but she said she'd be drinking in the middle of the day and that's when the red flags were raised.

Too bad too, she was a gamer nerd. Liked minecraft and stuff.

[scy]

lol @ jealousy-GAF trying to convince OP all sorts of flags are being set off.

To be fair, if we don't hear back from him after the weekend then she probably has him tied up in her closet.

Time to start a betting pool folks.

[Floex]

I think this is actually the worst topic on the internet right now

[brianjones]

I could have had a date with a girl from OkC, but she said she'd be drinking in the middle of the day and that's when the red flags were raised.

sounds like my kind of girl

[RobotMafia]

Good for you man. Hope it goes well. Nerdy girls are the best.

[The Broken Ska Record]

Online dating has yet to work for me, as has dating offline. Dating has yet to work for me.

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I've had ZERO luck with OKC. Or anything else.

[Steelrain]

I think this is actually the worst topic on the internet right now

[wormstrangler]

lol @ jealousy-GAF trying to convince OP all sorts of flags are being set off.

I assume most are just having a laugh.

[AlimNassor]

Well that's a great nsfw warning...

whys that?

[marrec]

To be fair, if we don't hear back from him after the weekend then she probably has him tied up in her closet. Time to start a betting pool folks.

He would be so lucky.

*now jealous*

Good for you man. Hope it goes well. Nerdy girls are the best.

Ain't this the truth. Mostly because I don't like sitting there thinking "Oh Jesus I have to make a Futurama reference here... don't do it!"

[Crazymoogle]

Don't listen to the negatives here. You can totally find a cute awesome girl on these websites. You'll also find a lot of lame girls, or ones where you have nothing to talk about, but thems the risks of dating anyone.

This

OKC worked for me, but obviously finding someone is only the first step.

[Acheron]

Warning: OKCupid girls are flaky. I've gotten a few dates but never a real relationship out of it. Including "I loved our date, of course I'd be glad to have another" followed by apparently her uncle being injured in a car accident followed by never getting a response again.

I'm not extremely impressed with the average quality of people on it, which is why I left. But if you find what you're looking for, awesome. I'd just be wary about the above.

[alterno69]

Good for the op, nothing more fun than meeting new people, i wish you and her a happy ending :)

[BGBW]

To be fair, if we don't hear back from him after the weekend then she probably has him tied up in her closet.

That means she is just yandere for him. The trick is to turn the yan into dere. Once they're deredere they're all yours.

[AbortedWalrusFetus]

I never really understood the stigma against dating sites. I think it's a bit silly to rely on them exclusively if you don't have to, but I don't know why anyone would pass them up. I would use one if I were single, I think.

[ruxtpin]

always remember

oh lord. This. So much this.

TC... Let me tell you a little story. I used Yahoo's dating service years ago. This amazingly good looking blonde actually messaged me and thought we should get together. We spoke a number of times on messenger and then met up at a restaurant a couple of weeks later to get dinner. Meet said girl, she's just as good looking as in her pics, sit down to order food and I try to get the conversation going...

*SMACK*
She slaps my face (not too hard, but not softly either)
"Stop looking at me!" *laughs*

"Umm, okay... So, how about ... yadda yadda?"

*SMACK*
"You're cute, stop staring at me though!" *laughs*

This continued for the entirety of the dinner. I shit you not. We drive to a ice cream place afterwards and it was the same thing. I drove her back to her car afterwards and said, "Get out of my car. I want to go home." She flipped out and asking me what the hell was wrong with me. I replied, "You've been hitting me in the face for the last 3 hours! You don't do that to someone you just met!"

(Granted, I wouldn't hit someone in the face that I had met long ago, but you get the point.)

[agrajag]

Someone told me about okcupid and how it was actually useful. I decided to sign up and almost as soon as I got everything finished, I was messaged by this cute girl <__<. She was wearing an aperture science t-shirt, and she enjoyed PC gaming. Anyways we hit things off and we arranged a date for lunch at a restaurant she said I had to try. I hope this works. The date is Saturday.

I can't wait to meet u, were gonna have so much fun at Chili's

[fuzzyreactor]

met my GF on okcupid. been over a year now

[marrec]

I can't wait to meet u, were gonna have so much fun at Chili's

:lol

Perfect.

[Alucrid]

whys that?

I think he thinks bathroom = nude

[scy]

He would be so lucky. *now jealous*

Victory!

That means she is just yandere for him. The trick is to turn the yan into dere. Once they're deredere they're all yours.

Best dere? Best dere.

[mikeybwright]

Lots of hilarious posts in here.

Good luck OP, one of my cousins met his (soon to be) wife on OKCupid.

[ZROCOOL]

Remember, girls love to pay for everything on the first date.

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Don't fall victim of the free meal trick.

[Karl2177]

Fixed it now. Didn't even realise that was a valid link. Was just censoring the OP's link to avoid any problems.

That's good. I'm surprised at the chances of xxxxx.jpg on imgur actually being an image that isn't appropriate.

I think he thinks bathroom = nude

No, he censored the link(but it was still to imgur) to prevent anything and it was a nude woman with her hair covering her boobs.

[T.O.P]

3 guys in a 200 miles radius



this site sucks (for gays)

[Wallach]

Wheres the correlation? If A is true then B is true?

What? I didn't say anything like that.

Anyway, make sure to make cake jokes. Gamers love those.

[eattomorro]

. Don't fall victim of the free meal trick.

Amen. Especially if she starts texting an ex during the meal...then run the fark away!!!!1111

[UpperCaseN]

I met my wife on okcupid. I 2nd the op. its not bad at all. all the service of the paid sites but free

yup. I met my fiance on plentyoffish, the other free one. she was up front in her profile by saying she likes cartoons (read: anime) and video games, which intrigued me. similar to OP's aperture science shirt girl

[storybook77]

Might my wife through okcupid. Just like real life, it'll be hit or miss until you find someone you just click with.

I'm recalling Chris Rock saying when you first meet someone, you aren't meeting them, you're meeting their representative. lol

[Kozak]

Good luck OP. She's super cute.

[KO Traveling Hobo]

Am I the only one who thinks the OP sounds like incredibly blatant viral advertising?

[FlyingTeacup]

good luck and have fun.