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(02-29-2012, 09:50 AM)
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#651
Ignorant and hater who judge a community based on a single person rant.
These are the racists and sexists people you are talking about: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FHC8K...eature=related |
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my titty out of milk
(02-29-2012, 09:53 AM)
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(02-29-2012, 09:53 AM)
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#653
I guess the dynamic of authority *should* be what ever is acceptable by the people participating in the social situation. A kindergarten class will have a different measurement for what is acceptable behavior then say a biker gang.... but a bunch of kids having fun shouldn't have someone come in and tell them they are misbehaving???? That's a bad example because the people in the stream aren't kids, they're adults and should be able to police themselves. Did I answer the question? Edit: That's exactly what I mean, and what I was trying to say is that grey area has to be decided upon/acceptable to the people inside the group (aka the people in the stream).. not to people outside the group (aka GAF).
Last edited by Ketch; 02-29-2012 at 09:58 AM.
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(02-29-2012, 09:56 AM)
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#654
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(02-29-2012, 10:00 AM)
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#657
I don't think there is anyway anyone could defend Aris in this situation. Sure trash talk is part of gaming and always has been in some form but the way Aris acted was just plain unacceptable. If you mess up I am gonna smell you... like is he fucking serious? Watching that video was uncomfortable and disheartening in ways to think that they allowed this guy to continue on.
I also can't believe some of the stuff I have read today on this situation and some of the excuses like "oh everyone was high strung and stressed" or "you weren't there so you don't know the whole story" really? the video spoke pretty clear. If this guy can't act like a mature adult then he shouldn't be there bottom line. Someone from Capcom or running the event may have talked to him but he was allowed to carry on so they obviously didn't do a good enough job. I am glad Patrick wrote his article I think it is something that needed to be addressed and good on him. Also blaming him for writing it is weak he went with what he had and the write-up complimented the videos just fine. Patrick is also someone I have faith in to research and no doubt he did and wrote his article with the best intentions. I do agree however that the opening of the article did cast abit of an unfair negative vibe on the entire community with the quote from Aris but I am sure it wasn't meant to be taken that way. I think the way the story blew up it quickly turned into many things. |
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(02-29-2012, 10:03 AM)
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#658
And if it does, then saying that the community are the only ones who get to decide or measure what is acceptable, or talk about what is unacceptable, is a really bad look. I mean, it's going to have some kind of organising sense of itself (which you could flatter by calling it an ethos), and that will abstractly promote some kind of conduct. And maybe that ethos is really solid and works 90% of the time. But it's not adequate to just point at it when shit goes wrong.
Last edited by Salazar; 02-29-2012 at 10:06 AM.
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(02-29-2012, 10:15 AM)
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#659
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(02-29-2012, 10:16 AM)
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#660
Last edited by close to the edge; 02-29-2012 at 10:21 AM.
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(02-29-2012, 10:23 AM)
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#661
I did not think the beard guy was representative of the community, as I saw a lot of players doing nothing to help her out, and I did notice the beard guy was getting help from the online community. He was obviously talking to various people online. and, I think there were people who defended/sided with him as well? I mean, I even read the SRK letter and I think it even mentions there that what the bearded guy speaks isn't entirely without truth? With that said, I also know not everyone in the community partakes in it. I have a few friends that used to play and win local tourneys all the time and I know they're not like that. But even if they did, whatever goes on in the community -- whatever. If everyone there is cool with it then that's fine. You guys are likely friends/close enough with each other to make those kind of jokes that you can make. But the reality show bit was what really threw me for a loop. Cause what I saw was pretty disgusting and the girl did not seem like she was comfortable with it. I believe it went on for five days -- without Capcom doing a thing about it. That is what I thought was disgusting. |
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(02-29-2012, 10:49 AM)
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#662
You only have to watch one of the regular streams for a short while to see what a bunch of dickheads some of these people are. Not everyone obviously, but there's clearly a culture, born from the sweaty teenboy anger and atmosphere of dark, smelly arcade nerd-holes.
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(02-29-2012, 11:00 AM)
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#663
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tagged by Blackace
(02-29-2012, 11:14 AM)
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(02-29-2012, 11:17 AM)
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#665
Just had a rather amusing back and forth with someone on twitter about this. You guys be the judge, is this what the FGC should be worried about changing? Because to me, this is what the FGC should be striving to get rid of.
http://twitter.com/DarkseidRules/sta...13539213656064 http://twitter.com/DarkseidRules/sta...24296571613184 http://twitter.com/DarkseidRules/sta...25679332978688 http://twitter.com/DarkseidRules/sta...27151974076417 http://twitter.com/DarkseidRules/sta...28747806093314 http://twitter.com/DarkseidRules/sta...29475241000960 |
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Obsessed with 4chan
(02-29-2012, 11:25 AM)
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The Mayuh of f'n Bawston
(02-29-2012, 11:27 AM)
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#668
Who is this guy anyway, I just sent him a facetious message |
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(02-29-2012, 11:27 AM)
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#669
Because this is exactly the type of shit that certain circles in the FGC are defending. I'd be shocked if Mike Watson himself didn't agree with every word this guy has said so far.
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(02-29-2012, 11:35 AM)
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#671
Also who cares if Mike Watson would agree (or is agreeing)? It pretty much known that he's a dumbass and every inch of respect he gets is only because he plays since like 20 years. |
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(02-29-2012, 11:40 AM)
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#672
Those circles are a small minority. They don't speak for the rest of us nor are they large in numbers as I just stated. Every community has a small minority of jerks and the FGC is no different. But like I said, most of us don't tolerate that kind of behavior.
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(02-29-2012, 11:42 AM)
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#673
Nor did I claim they speak for anyone but themselves. However, I question how much of a minority it is when this is the typical response I've seen to the situation from within the community. SRK, Stream chats etc. If they're a minority, they're a very VERY loud one.
Last edited by 19 & 21; 02-29-2012 at 11:45 AM.
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hates soccer, is Mexican
(02-29-2012, 11:44 AM)
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#676
The problem with the FGC is that its mostly populated by young 20-something year old scrubs. Once these young men get married and have kids, daughters, they'll grow up and finally understand why calling women "bitches" and "rape" jokes aren't funny.
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GAF parliamentarian
(02-29-2012, 11:50 AM)
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(02-29-2012, 11:51 AM)
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#682
So there you guy, a large majority of people are just watching in silence and enjoying themselves. Maybe they're discussing the show some where else like most of us have done using NeoGAF. But the minority that are speaking are normally loud and obnoxious and are the ones that get noticed and have in the past, done a great job of getting under peoples skin. Unfortunately that's not going to change. It's the nature of the internet. But point being, yeah, that small minority can be quite vocal as they say stupid things and of course it catches peoples attention more when they do so. |
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(02-29-2012, 11:56 AM)
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#683
Edit: For perspective on my perspective and a side note; I've dabbled in and out of the community over the last few years. I really wanted to get into UMvC3 but I'm fucking awful and the disconnect between being a shit player and being at least moderately adequet is so huge within the game and the community that its a difficult nut to crack, so to speak. I love many of the traits of the community and I really do enjoy many of the personalities involved with it. I'd love to get involved even more but it's tough to know how to go about that when you're on the outside looking in, and everyone on the inside wants to step their own game up as much as they can which means not giving newcomers the time of day in most instances.
Last edited by 19 & 21; 02-29-2012 at 12:01 PM.
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(02-29-2012, 12:02 PM)
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(02-29-2012, 12:05 PM)
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#685
Have you read inkblots article? He runs EVO, the largest fighting game tournament on the planet. He also runs SRK, the most popular fighting game site on the internet. Besides that he's also one of the most respected members of the community out there and is seen as our of the leaders of the community. This is what he had to say
http://shoryuken.com/2012/02/29/back...ond-the-drama/ There are also a lot more of the well known members of the FGC that have spoken out against this and in support of Super Yan but there is so much to list. LI Joe, the guys at Empire Arcadia, the Wake up SRK podcast, Fanatiq and more all had streams condemning that kind of behavior. Besides that there have been made tweets against this kind of stuff as well. More will be said in due time. In the end I don't really believe Aris is that bad of a guy. He really does think this is just shit and giggles. I don't think he will change nor does he really needs to when he's around friends and people he knows. But hopefully he can tone it down when around woman, children or people he's not familiar with.
Last edited by Rice-Eater; 02-29-2012 at 12:09 PM.
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(02-29-2012, 12:05 PM)
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#686
That crap aside, 20 year olds do have a lot of baggage which they will carry with them anywhere they go. Obviously it is a lot easier to have them check it at the door if what they say will be used against them (in other words expectations are put into place). The alternative would be getting rid of things you don't like in all cultures and sub-cultures as a whole which might influence them, like sexism commonly found in rap. Not likely to happen.
Last edited by Riposte; 02-29-2012 at 12:10 PM.
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(02-29-2012, 12:10 PM)
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#687
I most definitely did and its an enjoyable read, but its not enough to tackle the issue. Change comes from within a group like this. When people do or say things that are unacceptable, it needs to be said while its happening. By everyone. But that's just my opinion, that's the only way I've seen things like this turn around.
I'll look into the rest you mentioned when I have more time. |
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(02-29-2012, 12:20 PM)
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#690
This isn't just one individual. There are numerous posts in this very thread that suggest the FGC is an insular group of people. 'You can't make an informed opinion if you're not part of the community' or 'this thing will blow over in due time and everything will be back to normal.' If this is how you want to perpetrate a healthy community, then fine, but don't act like you can get away with offensive language when it's being broadcasted by all to see, read or hear. These people have a social responsibility. Either be insular and keep being twats or stop being twats and help the community grow into something more than just a pastime. You cannot have your cake and eat it too. |
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(02-29-2012, 12:27 PM)
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#691
SRK is afraid to do this though, understandably so, but I think they need to take the courageous step here for the good of the community as a whole. There are plenty of folks who want to see FGC expansion fail, it's just like any other fandom in that regard. Some folks want to keep it the Super Adventure Club. The FGC has a lot of great people in it. That's proof that the asshat behavior isn't needed to have a productive FGC. It's not a defense of the FGC the way it is. Aris may not be a bad person in his heart of hearts, but that doesn't excuse his behavior one bit. |
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(02-29-2012, 12:29 PM)
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(02-29-2012, 12:29 PM)
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#693
Quote:
This article is sad cause it is all about trying to make people forget about the problem and feel good about the community, instead of fixing the root cause of the problem.
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He who pursues two rabbits gets two rabbits.
(02-29-2012, 12:35 PM)
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#694
If you're talking about that whole esports nonsense, there's a lot more to it besides etiquette/attitude. That's a conversation for a different thread though.
Last edited by Sixfortyfive; 02-29-2012 at 12:37 PM.
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Obsessed with 4chan
(02-29-2012, 12:38 PM)
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(02-29-2012, 12:42 PM)
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#696
I am absolutely disgusted by this but not surprised at all. My wife is into gaming as much as I am (she's also on NeoGAF) and we play games together all the time, and she's subjected to this kind of behavior on a pretty regular basis. She shrugs it off most of the time but it has genuinely hurt her feelings on a few occasions and made her feel like shit.
Smelling her and asking her cup size? If he was harassing my wife like that in real life, I would beat the ever loving shit out of that guy. Aris's behavior, attitude, and poor sportsmanship are entirely unacceptable and a poor reflection of the community. I hope something is done about this but I'm not holding my breath. |
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(02-29-2012, 12:47 PM)
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#697
and he's far, far from the only one |
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(02-29-2012, 12:48 PM)
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#698
They can decide that a given offending tournament won't offer Evo seed points, and they can ban players from Evo. Not sure how far that'll go, but it'd be a start.
Last edited by obonicus; 02-29-2012 at 12:50 PM.
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(02-29-2012, 12:49 PM)
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#699
Which why the whole Esports thing is a big subject because it would mean a lot of change within the community possible moving into a more league based structure.
Last edited by JudgeN; 02-29-2012 at 12:57 PM.
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