[AceBandage]

Yes, successfully.
Though, the relationship didn't last very long (but it was because of very different reasons).

[MidnightScott]

I almost had sex with my boyfriend the first time we went out to see a movie. We went to a park at night and went in the back and gave each other blowjobs and wanted to have sex but he didn't have a condom. But yeah I usually hookup almost immediately just to get a feel for it ;o SLUT

[Eggman]

Sex is a wonderful thing.

[Sentry]

Lost my virginity on the first day of being 17, with a MILF. or more accurately a MWWTFM.

We never dated.

Do or do not. There is no try.

Life became complicated, modern times arrived.
Board games are underrated, I want a different life.

[Always-honest]

yeah happened to me once. It was because she was horny... i would never ask or expect to get sex on a first date (nor do i give a fuck). I was just being bored at some club (i hate clubs) and she started speaking to me. I took her to my friends place (or rather, she went along) and she sucked me and we fucked... My guess is she does this every other weekend. It was nice but it's not how i'd like to live my life.

Virginity lost: age 15

[windowlurker]

Not on a date.

Fucked my friends mom one day. I was 16. Friend had to leave for baseball practice (coach was his real father), I stayed to finish playing MGS2 at the time. And the mom was being all seductive. All I remember is her ass and getting lost on that tank bunker.

[Kentpaul]

I have a girlfriend of 3 years at the moment but when i was single of course i tired!

[HappyBivouac]

Does it depend on the vibes the female/male gives you ?

This is the obvious answer. Just let the lovin' take hold and see where it goes. Sometimes it'll happen, sometimes it won't.

Ain't a matter of "trying."

[Guerrillas in the Mist]

Is having sex with a girl before you start dating her doing it wrong?

[damn that's nice]

>sex >the first date

[CF_Fighter]

Is having sex with a girl before you start dating her doing it wrong?

No, you just both liked each other enough to elevate the physical into a relationship.

Now with me, no, I would never do it. Unless there was some kind of crazy, star-crossed lovers, crown of sonnets writing, attraction there. As open as I am with sex in society I personally still reserve it for women I want something more with as I build really strong connections with the girls I sleep with. But, I've only slept with two women so I might still have some level of naivete there.

I lost my virginity at 26, it's actually been a just a few days past the one year mark. Second night of hanging out with this girl I met on OKC.

[Klyka]

"try"

[shuri]

I think this is the wrongest post on GAF history

It's pretty much the truth.

[matt360]

In Japan if you even make it to the point of having a first date, you are pretty much guaranteed sex that night. I've never been with someone here where that wasn't the case. But I've been here for several years and most of my sexual experiences back in the states were in high school where you had to date for a while before having sex.

[shanshan310]

Nope.




I was 16, we'd been dating a little over a year.

[Jburton]

I have had a few one night stands and two relationships where we fucked on the second date.

If a girl gives me an opening (no pun intended) I will certainly go for it ..... but I would not overtly try and pressure a girl in to doing so.

Lost my virginity when I was 20, a late bloomer so to speak.

[HappyBivouac]

It's pretty much the truth.

Bullshit defeatist attitude. We make our own destinies. Feelings change all the time.

Of course there's no "strategy," though. That's just a fucked up way of thinking.

[Timedog]

Me and my current gal were getting down and dirty within an hour of meeting each other.

To the second question, I'm a (born again) virgin.

[Eggman]

Damn, didn't know Devo was so willing.

[Rez]

straight people

[drugstore_cowboy]

Lost my virginity at 15 (whilst skiving summer work near Silverstone)...21 years ago.

Haven't dated in a long time, my missus won't let me.

I used to try it on though and usually suceeded in getting laid, that's the point of it.

[Kentpaul]

straight people

What about us ?

PS. i have had lot of sex just by arranging it on MSN chat and going for it like a week later.

[Boozeroony]

Yeah.

Lost virginity at 21 after 3 dates. It has been very busy last 6 years as I had a lot op catching up to do. Hitting the gym and loosing the glasses has worked fine for me.

If she is hot, but mediocre personality -> yes
If attractive and awesome personality -> less likely.

[neorej]

Wouldn't be a first date any other way.

Lost my virginity at 15 to the 18yr old sister of a classmate of mine.

[Dead Man]

straight people

Right?

[FStop7]

Yes, if the signs are there. But it usually meant that was the end of things.

[coolcole93]

Never been on a date

****

Last wednesday (fuck yeah) at age 18. Late but whatever :D

[aznpxdd]

Props to ya'll that can do this on a first date, I personally don't have the balls to do it.

Just my opinion, but I don't really like girls that give it up on first dates anyways. But if your game is that good...then I suppose that's a different story.

[Omegasquash]

Yep. The first gal I did it with was just a random hookup at a beach. The second that I did it with was a relationship that lasted three months. The third that I did it with married me.

Lost my virginity at 20.

[TheVampire]

What are you guys doing for first dates that lead to this sex?

Usually its just like a coffee meet up to meet and sus out the other person.

[Kosmo]

Try? No. But being older means there is less beating around the bush.

And ironically, more beating around the 'bush'

What are you guys doing for first dates that lead to this sex?

Go out, have a few drinks, figure out a non-sexual way to initiate contact (e.g. make her laugh while you're walking, a little bump into her) - if she's game, she will reciprocate.

[Mistouze]

I'll go for a kiss if the date went well. Beyond that it's up to the mood of both of us and the passion of the moment >_> Lately, only the girl having her period stopped us from smanging I guess approaching 30 years old mean we don't waste much time on waiting.

[Eggman]

You guys fuck a lot.

[G-Bus]

Depends on the vibe I'm getting from the girl.

I did with my current gf. We're still together 3 months later and I see no end in sight. We're both quite happy with each other. Oddly enough it didn't completely break the ice between us so to speak. I think it took a few weeks before we got a lot more comfortable with each other.


Lost it.. Well, 3 months ago. She was my first lol.

[Valnen]

You guys fuck a lot.

Or so some people want the internet to believe I guess.

[uncledonnie]

Sex on the first date often means a different kind of relationship. On the other hand, sex on the second date is apparently totally fine. Not sure exactly what the philosophy behind that is, but whatevs.

[ReBurn]

I never had sex on a first date.

There was one time when a girl got naked in my car the first time she rode in it. But that wasn't a date and we didn't have sex. I was taking her home from work. It was actually the most frustrating night of my life, because she told me to come back to her house after midnight and then she didn't answer the door. What's up with that?

[Mistouze]

You guys fuck a lot.

The thread asks about sex, people are going to talk about their sex experiences. You better stop or people are going to bring up your girl-age threads.

[Eggman]

The thread asks about sex, people are going to talk about their sex experiences. You better stop or people are going to bring up your girl-age threads.

I just expected less people to fuck on the first date.

[Quacking]

I had sex only with my actual girlfriend and we did it at the first opportunity we had.

I was 19 years old that time.

[Mistouze]

I just expected less people to fuck on the first date.

People are horny and women are less and less pressed into not listenning to their desires.

[SillyEskimo]

I pretty much always did back in the day. It was easy. I would often flip the script and eat some pussy, then go home for the night without release at all. That will throw a woman for a loop and really fuck with her head. My entire dating life was pretty much a living example of the concept "like attracts like". I am a very physical person, so I tended to date women that were similar. I also dated perverts. The relationships never lasted, but that was my fault not the women's. I never had sex just to have sex though. My intentions were that each encounter would hopefully lead to a meaningful relationship but I didn't understand at the time that I was not really capable of that. I broke a lot of hearts and look back on that time with a mix of happiness and sadness. I let go of some pretty great ladies due to my own insecurities of the time.

Societal rules and pressures fall to the wayside when 2 people are alone and highly attracted to one another. There is something very freeing about the simple fact that you can have sex if you want to. No one cares or even has to know. It's just two people at that moment. Nothing else matters.

I waited until the 3rd date with the woman who is now my wife. She seduced me the first chance that we had time alone, so that worked out well. I would have waited forever though. Just kidding. I wouldn't have waited too long without sex before moving on.

[BattleMonkey]

Been on a bunch of dates where the first date went all the way but full on sex. Anything goes, but girl will always be like "no"... guess they feel like it cheapens them on the first date?

Course always on the 2nd date the first thing we would do is hit the bedroom and do the deed. It's ok because it was the 2nd date....

Course those "relationships" never went anywhere.

[Xun]

I'll let you know in a month or so.

Why in a month or so?

[Klyka]

I almost had sex with my boyfriend the first time we went out to see a movie. We went to a park at night and went in the back and gave each other blowjobs and wanted to have sex but he didn't have a condom. But yeah I usually hookup almost immediately just to get a feel for it ;o SLUT

Posts like this always make me smile.
"my boyfriend and me´gave each other blowjobs" I read that and think "what? How do you give a girl a blo...oh of course! hahaha".
It's just kinda funny but I love how nowadays you can be open about this without much of a problem.

[electricshake]

I never have and I don't know if I would. Not that there's anything wrong with girls who do, I'm just not one of them.

Also, 19.

[FairyD]

Nah, I think the most I've done on a first date is shake hands or that light hug. Been a while since I've last been on one, has to be almost two years now. Shit, thinking about it, it has been over two years. January 2010. Damn, time to message people on OKCupid.

[Kinitari]

Two girls I saw last summer tried to with me, but I had just gotten out of my first ever relationship (it lasted 7 years) so I was a bit... uncomfortable with that. Did it on the second and third with those girls.

My current lady of 5 months, she told me straight up on the first date after the kiss that we were not having sex, that she refused to have sex with me for at least 4 or 5 dates. It seemed like it was a lot harder for her than it was for me.

Basically, what I am saying is - I don't know how it used to be, but girls like to get down early and often now adays.

[walking fiend]

I just expected less people to fuck on the first date.

People on average fuck like 100 times a year (unless you are in Japan or a Muslim country); so after only 5 yrs it will be 500 times; so if even 5% of them are fuck on the first date, that would amount to 25 times.

[FairyD]

People on average fuck like 100 times a year (unless you are in Japan or a Muslim country); so after only 5 yrs it will be 500 times; so if even 5% of them are fuck on the first date, that would amount to 25 times.

100 times a year? That's a lot of money.