[KO Traveling Hobo]

Objectification is quantifying their attractiveness down to a nice set of tits. Celebration would be complimenting her overall beauty without concentrating on an obvious overly sexualized area of her body.

Ignore the dirty, shameful breasts that God has cursed women with. Got it.

[J-Rod]

Why do women dislike being objectified? They should be flattered when I recognize them mainly for how much I may like to put my wiener in them.

[bengraven]

Lol dude.

I spent the next 15 seconds trying to awkwardly mumble a reason for saying it, but my wife just did the angry dismissal hand motion and I heard it about it later. haha

Why do women dislike being objectified? They should flattered when I recognize them mainly for how much I may like to put my wiener in them.

The old joke is that they don't mind compliments on how they look...as long as it's someone they want to sleep with.

[bud]

Didn't you also once talk to a woman who forgot a letter of the alphabet? I guess this reaction wouldn't even surprise me then.

i think the women smokeydave tends to go for are generally the bottom of the barrel.

[LiK]

I spent the next 15 seconds trying to awkwardly mumble a reason for saying it, but my wife just did the angry dismissal hand motion and I heard it about it later. haha

no angry sex?

[Emitan]

He has a fantastic voice, I could listen to him all day.

DAMN THESE ELECTRIC SEX PANTS!

[marrec]

Ignore the dirty, shameful breasts that God has cursed women with. Got it.

No, I was just pointing out to you why it was objectifying, not telling you to stop staring at breasts. If you find it shameful that's on you.

[Slayven]

Manners and commonsense, how do they work?

[Willkiller]

The old joke is that they don't mind compliments on how they look...as long as it's someone they want to sleep with.

Joke?

[NaturalHigh]

The other day a random girl complimented my TMNT t-shirt and I didn't get mad at all. I just blushed and said thank you. She was 13.

One day there will be another Oprah and she will tell girls it is okay to accept compliments on your boobs and then everything will be okay.

[shanshan310]

The old joke is that they don't mind compliments on how they look...as long as it's someone they want to sleep with.

Well yeah :p My response if my boyfriend says nice breasts and if some stranger on the street says nice breasts is always going to be different.

[Baconsaurus Rex]

Awesome. Was that intentional?

They've done studies, you know.

[Vyse The Legend]

Most handsome men can get away with it, I think.

This is 100% true. I mentioned this to my girlfriend and her friends, and they all agreed that they'd accept a compliment more readily from an attractive man than not.

That said, it's not a free pass to be a dick. It just gives you a bit more breathing room, before they think you're a creepy jerk.

Same goes for men, though.

[KO Traveling Hobo]

No, I was just pointing out to you why it was objectifying, not telling you to stop staring at breasts. If you find it shameful that's on you.

I'm super tired atm so it's quite possible my reading comprehension is failing me, but are you saying that staring is okay while complimenting is not?

[sixteen-bit]

Awesome. Was that intentional?

It's a quote from some unfunny movie.

[samus i am]

Someone didn't pay attention in sexual harassment training.

[coldvein]

i often pull a seth rogan in donnie darko and say "i like yer boobs".

[strafer]

I told my friend that and she laughed and grabbed my crotch.

[robertsan21]

It works sometimes, tried it ones in spanish to a spanish woman, Hola tetona rica.... she kind of told me to fuck of by turning around and walked away.

then I tried it on a different lady, it worked great and I even got laid.

[Kinitari]

Pick the situation, and you can do it. First date with my girlfriend, mentioned her unbelievable thangs - as we were joking about how we were both kind of nervous, can't remember how it went but she laughed... And well, I'm dating her.

And I tell close friends sometimes, depending on the friend and the situation - usually something like "Woah Emily, what's with your bamboozles today?! Damn hard keeping my eyes off them" or something sillier - it's important when saying this to be making an obvious effort at not looking at the breasts, same compliment while staring at them is crossing a line unless you're dating.

[shinobi602]

The same reason it's taboo for a woman to compliment me on my bulge?

I'd welcome it actually.

"Damn, nice bulge you got there."

"Thanks babe ;) "

[phosphor112]

I tell a woman that they are beautiful from time to time. I mean... it's hard not to. Sometimes you see a woman and go "wow." I have never specifically said "breasts" or anything of that nature, but letting a woman know they have a "wow" factor can be good for them.

I'd welcome it actually. "Damn, nice bulge you got there." "Thanks babe ;) "

[Az]

The same reason it's taboo for a woman to compliment me on my bulge?

That would be so awesome to get that compliment.
Just picture it...

[Sanky Panky]

Well if a girl came up to me and said "That's a cock you seem to have in those pants", then I would think it's rud... nah nevermind, it would be pretty hot.

edit: yeah beaten.


However girls have to deal with creeps day in and day out.

[KO Traveling Hobo]

Pick the situation, and you can do it. First date with my girlfriend, mentioned her unbelievable thangs - as we were joking about how we were both kind of nervous, can't remember how it went but she laughed... And well, I'm dating her. And I tell close friends sometimes, depending on the friend and the situation - usually something like "Woah Emily, what's with your bamboozles today?! Damn hard keeping my eyes off them" or singeing sillier - it's important when saying this to be making an obvious effort at not looking at the breasts, same compliment while staring at them is crossing a line unless you're dating.

This. How you say it is just as important as what you say, if not more so.

[marrec]

I'm super tired atm so it's quite possible my reading comprehension is failing me, but are you saying that staring is okay while complimenting is not?

I think it'd be rude to stare at a woman's chest, just as I think it'd be rude to compliment her chest afterwards. But you were wondering why it was objectifying to compliment her on her breasts, especially as a stranger.

[SmokyDave]

i think the women smokeydave tends to go for are generally the bottom of the barrel.

With the notable exception of my fiancée, you're 100% correct. I have a penchant for skanks and nutters. Oh, and chicks with sweaty boobs.

[60_gig_PS3]

women cant handle the truth

[entrement]

Seriously?

Only in lovemaking.

[andymcc]

Seriously? Only in lovemaking.

yep. or if you're complimenting your SO on something that accentuates her bust or something.

[ChuyMasta]

Just let your eyes do the talking.

I'd go with this.

[Kafel]

There's a lack of pics in this thread. When should I compliment ?

[Revolutionary]

I think it's bullshit. They wear shirts with crazy amounts of cleavage and I can't comment on how nice they look, or even look at them? Pfft.

This goes for FB pictures too, where women conveniently fit their cleavage into frame EVERY SINGLE TIME. Yeah, real subtle.

I'm onto you, ladies.

[phosphor112]

I told my friend that and she laughed and grabbed my crotch.

...what

[shinobi602]

I think it's bullshit. They wear shirts with crazy amounts of cleavage and I can't comment on how nice they look, or even look at them? Pfft. This goes for FB pictures too, where women conveniently fit their cleavage into frame EVERY SINGLE TIME. Yeah, real subtle. I'm onto you, ladies.

It's all show.

Deep down they wear that because they love when we oogle their shit.

[.GqueB.]

Because it is...?

I don't know. It's just one of those things that aren't important enough to be discussed so it won't change until it just sort of happens one day. Like I'm sure calling someone a retard was considered wrong decades ago but now it's considered generally "ok".

"ok" in the sense that you won't always be called out for saying it. You often won't really.

[Omegasquash]

I always figure keep it classy. If someone is wearing a shirt with cleavage, they know that their breasts are somewhat out there. They chose that appearance, so chances are, someone is going to see them. Doesn't mean that we need to ogle them, but it's OK to take note.

Besides (correct me if I'm wrong here, dating GAF), but if you've got the right game, she'll want to show them to you anyway. I would guarantee that most of the time if that's what you're focused on though, it'll shine through and might not (read, MIGHT) not be liked by the lady.

[ronito]

Most women don't want to be wanted by men they don't want. They find it gross.
It all comes down to looks. Of course there are some women that don't mind compliments like that from anyone. But they're the exception.

[yogloo]

I agree OP. Why can't Mel Gibson call people sugar tits. Leave crazy Mel alone. :(

[Kinyou]

I always figure keep it classy. If someone is wearing a shirt with cleavage, they know that their breasts are somewhat out there. They chose that appearance, so chances are, someone is going to see them. Doesn't mean that we need to ogle them, but it's OK to take note. Besides (correct me if I'm wrong here, dating GAF), but if you've got the right game, she'll want to show them to you anyway. I would guarantee that most of the time if that's what you're focused on though, it'll shine through and might not (read, MIGHT) not be liked by the lady.

I think it's still smarter to say "Nice shirt" than "Nice cleavage"

[Zoramon089]

Because it is...? I don't know. It's just one of those things that aren't important enough to be discussed so it won't change until it just sort of happens one day. Like I'm sure calling someone a retard was considered wrong decades ago but now it's considered generally "ok". "ok" in the sense that you won't always be called out for saying it. You often won't really.

How is this in any way the same? Calling a mentally retarded person retard is incredibly offensive. If you're talking about just calling a friend that because they're being dumb then it's no different than joking with a female friend about boobs. Yeah they might not "like" it but you probably won't be called out on it either

[cwmartin]

If your compliment starts with "Hey, don't take this the wrong way", you probably shouldn't say it.

[Verelios]

When I was around 13-14 years old, I was on a lazy river at a water park. This guy came up to me and told me that if I don't stop looking at his girlfriend's boobs he would take me out of the pool, light me on fire and cut me in half. My slightly older brother was there and we assured him that I did no such thing. I was traumatized at the end of the conversation and my brother was probably moreso. He started crying after the guy left and I was sick to my stomach. After we got out of the pool my brother asked me if I WAS looking at her and I swore my life that I wasn't. That is why I would not compliment someone on their boobs. BTW I lied. I was totally looking at them for probably around five minutes straight.

Bentendo, Bentendo, Bentendo- don't we all?

I wouldn't admit to it though. I don't want to look like a creep in society's eyes.

[ChocolateCupcakes]

Like a month ago another lady said this to me and even from her it was weird.

[coldvein]

Oh, and chicks with sweaty boobs.

the BEST. boob sweat is my favorite liquid

[.GqueB.]

How is this in any way the same? Calling a mentally retarded person retard is incredibly offensive. If you're talking about just calling a friend that because they're being dumb then it's no different than joking with a female friend about boobs. Yeah they might not "like" it but you probably won't be called out on it either

Why would you think I meant that? I clearly meant the second thing. And the thread didn't say "female friend" it just said "a woman". I couldn't go up to a woman at my job and say "nice tits" but I could easily call her a retard at a meeting in a joking way. Which is my point.

What are you going on about?

[xbhaskarx]

I agree OP. Why can't Mel Gibson call people sugar tits. Leave crazy Mel alone. :(

Big breasts are responsible for starting most wars...

[GotEmRunnin]

the BEST. boob sweat is my favorite liquid

really? I never touch the stuff.

[coldvein]

really? I never touch the stuff.

i write poetry about it.

[Aylinato]

Would you compliment a male on their breasts?