[Venfayth]

Would you compliment a male on their breasts?

If he wears low-cut tops, yes.

[Raiden]

I think it's because it's too overtly sexual, comes across a sleazy. To comment on her eyes or something is cool, to comment on her breasts implies sexual thought. I told a random female shop assistant the other day that she had beautiful smile. She blushed, glanced away, and bit her lip slightly. I think she appreciated it, I got a very shy "thank you" and another flash of her smile. Everybody wins! She had a kickass rack too by the way. ;P

If you had complimented her on that she would be in your bed naked by now.

[Az987]

Would you compliment a male on their breasts?

I was at a concert festival type thing a while back and it was a really hot day so I was walking around without my shirt on and a random chubby girl walked up to me, smiled and pinched my nipple.

It was pretty weird but I'm not going to lie and say I wasn't flattered and a little turned on.

[Talon]

Boob sweat smells bad. Smelling a sweaty bra = no thanks.

[J-Rod]

Edit: Whoops, this isn't the breast feeding topic.

[low-G]

I complimented my best female friend's breasts and she took it well.

She complemented my dick, after all.

Wait, wut.

Boob sweat smells bad. Smelling a sweaty bra = no thanks.

But it feels good.

[Venfayth]

I complimented my best female friend's breasts and she took it well. She complemented my dick, after all. Wait, wut.

Good wordplay.

[LiK]

I complimented my best female friend's breasts and she took it well. She complemented my dick, after all. Wait, wut.

you guys have benefits?

[coldvein]

Boob sweat smells bad. Smelling a sweaty bra = no thanks.

like most other delicious things, that shit is good when its fresh.

[bengraven]

I would compliment a man on his breasts in a heart beat.

Dude, those are awesome pecs.

Thanks. I work out.

[Tenks]

Acknowledging someone's physical attractiveness is objectification? Really? Having great boobs isn't something that a woman should be ashamed of. It should be celebrated.

Boobs are a sex object. That is why we as men enjoy seeing them exposed. We have evolved that way. We don't see a nose as a sex object. Sure it can add to the overall attractiveness of the individual but it isn't the same thing.

[LiK]

Boobs are a sex object. That is why we as men enjoy seeing them exposed. We have evolved that way. We don't see a nose as a sex object. Sure it can add to the overall attractiveness of the individual but it isn't the same thing.

nose fetishists will disagree

[Solo]

ooooooh baby, all i wanna do is pick that fine ass nose of yours

[Dreams-Visions]

nose fetishists will disagree

yes, all five of them.

[YoungHav]

Complimenting them is like preaching to the choir, why bother?

[Glass Rebel]

I would compliment a man on his breasts in a heart beat. Dude, those are awesome pecs. Thanks. I work out.

We should meet.




I kinda need that right now.

Isn't that was facebook is for? I can understand not doing to someone on the street for a number of reasons, but FB, with its leagues of boob shots seems the perfect place to do this.

I always tag tits in friends' pictures and give them names.

[Angry Grimace]

I'm more confused as to why anyone needs to actually ask why they can't just walk up to chicks and tell them they have a great rack. One of my good friends has a really great rack - she doesn't need me to just tell her she has a great rack because a) I look at her breasts a lot by default and b) she already knows that she has a great rack (and that I think so, given point "a").

It's just a really awkward, creepy method of hitting on a girl.

[Speedymanic]

Isn't that was facebook is for? I can understand not doing to someone on the street for a number of reasons, but FB, with its leagues of boob shots seems the perfect place to do this.

[Karsticles]

There are cultures where it's normal to compliment a woman on her breasts. I wish I could recall them now...

[JasonMCG]

I did this once in college and honestly, I took the girl home that night. It was really weird...after the breast comment, it was like nothing was off limits.

[Speevy]

EDIT Wrong thread

[LiK]

I did this once in college and honestly, I took the girl home that night. It was really weird...after the breast comment, it was like nothing was off limits.

did you get lucky?

[SnakeswithLasers]

You guys do realize that women have been fighting against objectification as mere sex objects put on earth to be pleasure machines for men, right?

I mean, that's your answer, it's not complicated.

[Angry Grimace]

did you get lucky?

I think that was implied dude. It's not a "Dear Penthouse" thread.

[Emitan]

With the notable exception of my fiancée, you're 100% correct. I have a penchant for skanks and nutters. Oh, and chicks with sweaty boobs.

sweaty boobs are kind of sexy in a weird way...

>_>

[AlimNassor]

I don't understand either. If a girl hell even a guy walked up to me and said I had nice sexual organs, I'd take that as a compliment and it would give me some more self-confidence. I do think it's odd for either sex to be soley fixated on the sexual organs. Humans are so bizarre. You and your pheromone dances.

[MYE]

I have been able to do it once. I just straight up told her: "Please do not take this the wrong way, but you have beautiful breasts!"

lol

[Angry Grimace]

lol

The best part is that he almost assuredly meant it in the "wrong way."

I don't understand either. If a girl hell even a guy walked up to me and said I had nice sexual organs, I'd take that as a compliment and it would give me some more self-confidence. I do think it's odd for either sex to be soley fixated on the sexual organs. Humans are so bizarre. You and your pheromone dances.

Men and women aren't the same

[Chinner]

The past is a puzzle, like a broken mirror. As you piece it together, you cut yourself, your image keeps shifting. And you change with it. It could destroy you, drive you mad. It could set you free.

[Supermanisdead]

Wow, how does this thread exist? Of course you can't go around telling people they have nice tits. Are you a caveman?

[Tenks]

You guys do realize that women have been fighting against objectification as mere sex objects put on earth to be pleasure machines for men, right? I mean, that's your answer, it's not complicated.

No you don't understand. The beacon of masculinity, the man who could have any women he desires, the OP of this thread basically said to a girl he'd have sex with her. She got offended! What a slut!

I swear some of the opinions in this thread lead me to believe that not only most of GAF has no clue how a female brain operates but not even a normal, socially adjusted, male brain works.

[LiK]

I think that was implied dude. It's not a "Dear Penthouse" thread.

details blocker!

[Chinner]

They were after me, it was my fault. You can't run from your past. You'll end up running in circles. Until you fall back down to the same hole you were trying to escape from, only the hole's grown deeper.

[krameriffic]

"Capital knockers, madam!"

...and then adjust your monocle and top hat while twirling your cane and checking your gold pocket watch.

[surrogate]

Unless the girl is topless, it is sort of a stupid thing to say. I've seen a few sets that look great while clothed, but were a huge letdown once set free.

[bengraven]

Has anyone mentioned the Sword of Truth books yet?

[strafer]

soapy breasts are the best. ;)

[Socreges]

More important factors:

- if she finds you attractive or not
- if there are other females that can hear

It's just such an unusual thing to say that a lot of women instinctively think "creeper".

I think you can get away with it at a party or at the beach, but it'd be tough otherwise.

[Omegasquash]

I think it's still smarter to say "Nice shirt" than "Nice cleavage"

I think it's smarter to say nothing at all. My whole point is that they're out there for a reason...attracting others or showing off what they've got. Still doesn't mean you need to say anything. They're there. You notice. So take some action, if that's what you want to do. Be direct, but understand that the cleavage is not the entire package, most of the time.

Don't say anything at all. You don't need to. You can say something in private, if appropriate. Or if you've got game (like the OP does apparently), you can get away with it if you choose the right person to say it to.

[Chinner]

Just when you thought you had reached the deepest depths of horror, it suddenly got worse. How to turn off that small voice inside your head that started to whisper that you should be glad … that now, if not before, your revenge was justifiable on any conceivable moral scale. That small voice proved, beyond any doubt, that I was damned.

[Kinyou]

I think it's smarter to say nothing at all. My whole point is that they're out there for a reason...attracting others or showing off what they've got. Still doesn't mean you need to say anything. They're there. You notice. So take some action, if that's what you want to do. Be direct, but understand that the cleavage is not the entire package, most of the time. Don't say anything at all. You don't need to. You can say something in private, if appropriate. Or if you've got game (like the OP does apparently), you can get away with it if you choose the right person to say it to.

I think I misread your post a little, my bad. You mentioned dating-gaf and I instantly assumed that we were now talking about a first date situation.

[Escape Goat]

Baby, I wanna lick your nasolabia trough all night.

[Goya]

Thread is not complete without pics of praiseworthy, exemplary breasts.

[raebodep]

So has this instructional clip taught me wrong?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B2FtgDJbdP8

[Hot Coldman]

Better question: why do you need to? There's plenty of other, way more effective ways to compliment a woman. No way anyone is such a bastion of honesty that all they can think of to compliment someone is to say "Nice breasts!".

[Stet]

Better question: why do you need to? There's plenty of other, way more effective ways to compliment a woman. No way anyone is such a bastion of honesty that all they can think of to compliment someone is to say "Nice breasts!".

It's basically a dressed up version of "I'd slip my dick into you." If you can't see why that's offensive, well...

[Hot Coldman]

It's basically a dressed up version of "I'd slip my dick into you." If you can't see why that's offensive, well...

Pretty much.

The only way you could pull it off is if the woman in question is completely oblivious.

[grumble]

Just when you thought you had reached the deepest depths of horror, it suddenly got worse. How to turn off that small voice inside your head that started to whisper that you should be glad … that now, if not before, your revenge was justifiable on any conceivable moral scale. That small voice proved, beyond any doubt, that I was damned.

Are you having a mental breakdown?

[Opiate]

I do feel there is interesting discussion here, actually.

Specifically, we should consider that it is perfectly acceptable to compliment women on many other features. For example, I can and have complimented women on their hair, eyes, smile, and outfit with absolutely no prompting whatsoever, even if I am simply passing them by, and I've gotten unamimously positive responses.

But I'm sure I wouldn't get such a positive response if I complimented her breasts. Or her buttocks. So is it just that these bodyparts are considered overtly sexual? Perhaps, but I also think I'd get odd responses if I complimented a woman on her elbows, or feet, or shoulders.

What parameters decide how socially appropriate the compliment is? It isn't as simple as sexuality or cultural customs, I feel.

[joelseph]

Mods give off such a cultured vibe, I love it!