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(05-11-2012, 04:55 PM)
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#352
Nope I never personally bullied anyone. I just don't think this was a big deal on the scale of things that I saw in the 90s and 00s, let alone what probably went on back in those days. Romney's done worse things as an adult then cut someone's hair.
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(05-11-2012, 04:55 PM)
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#353
Hah, same here. The absolute "worst" thing I ever did growing up was in direct response to years of being bullied. After getting an in school suspension with my bully for getting punched in the stomach and doing nothing I decided to fight back, so I did a few times. I never started anything, but after that point I figured if I'm going to get in trouble for fighting anyway then I should probably actually fight. So the next time someone slammed my head into a window, etc, they got what was coming to them.
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(05-11-2012, 04:56 PM)
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#355
If by collecting comics, being one of the "weirdo art students" and playing video games and D and D then thats a pretty broad definition of doing stupid things. Me and my group of friends. Just because you were an asshat that did stupid things doesn't mean every kid is. Stop projecting to excuse your actions.
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(05-11-2012, 04:56 PM)
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#356
And I dont think anybody is saying that bullying is fine or acceptable, just that you shouldn't judge somebody's character by what they did 40 years prior in high school. |
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(05-11-2012, 04:56 PM)
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#357
Yep. Focus on what he has done as an adult because that is much more offensive and damaging.
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Hail, peons, for I have come as ambassador from the great and bountiful Blueberry Butt Explosion
(05-11-2012, 05:01 PM)
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#358
Did you have really amazing penmanship?
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(05-11-2012, 05:04 PM)
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#359
Yes, Romney's past actions show the pattern of a sociopath-- the bullying along with guiding a blind teacher into a closed door along with strapping the dog to the roof-- but what's really telling is his inability to see what was wrong in these situations. |
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(05-11-2012, 05:04 PM)
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#360
Romney could have made this go away by issuing a mature, remorseful response, but his "I don't remember" has just added this to the running theme of "Mitt the Robot can't understand what other people feel".
Also, he's been completely tone-deaf by focusing on whether the people he bullied were gay or not (e.g. "he was closeted, so of course I didn't know he was gay") - like, how about focusing on the fact that you were a bully in the first place? If he was a heterosexual nerd, that would have made it okay? You can say that incidents in the past don't tell you who a person is today (which is true), but how a person responds today about their past certainly says a lot about them. An update from Salon. http://www.salon.com/2012/05/10/mitt...school_sadist/
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(05-11-2012, 05:05 PM)
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#361
Nor do I think it is out of bounds to wonder how tolerant he has grown given his opposition to many gay rights. Though a declaration one way of the other based off this story is certainly inappropriate right now. Now if people begin uncovering stories that suggest this type of behavior or intolerance has carried over into adulthood then there does become justification to start tying those strings. |
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yet Regrets his Tag (05-11-2012, 05:07 PM)
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#362
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Blinded by the luminous glory that is David Bowie's physical manifestation.
(05-11-2012, 05:15 PM)
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#363
Wait, what?
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(05-11-2012, 05:15 PM)
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#364
"Another classmate and old friend of Romney’s told ABC “a lot of guys” who went to Cranbrook have “really negative memories” of Romney’s behavior there. He described it as “evil” and “like Lord of the Flies.” The classmate, who wouldn’t be named, says Romney is lying when he says he can’t remember the hair-cutting incident."
Ouch. lol Yea, I didn't know about that part, either. |
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(05-11-2012, 05:19 PM)
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#366
At this point when Romney has a press conference to express his true sympathetic apology to the dead bull-e it will be 100% politically motivated. It will satiate the media and empower his lobby to cry "he apologized lets move on and you are just harping on the issue" and his silent section that are cheering him for bullying a supposed gay youth will still be happy. After all, he is still bullying homosexuals. Which is sad because this issue really needs this national attention regardless of his politics.
Last edited by Ponn01; 05-11-2012 at 05:26 PM.
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(05-11-2012, 05:20 PM)
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#367
Mitt's response to this whole thing is what greatly troubles me. I got bullied in high school, and I did a little bullying myself, but I also later stood up to bullies too. I eventually learned how wrong it was and did what I could to prevent others from going through it. But 30 years later I still remember every single incident, both good and bad, and I don't think I will ever forget them. And even though it sounds like the other kids involved remember the incident clearly and feel remorse over it, not Mitt. He doesn't even recall it, it never mattered to him. He never learned a damn thing from it apparently. AND, he only apologized for offending anyone, not for the incident itself. It's simply not important to him. I'm a republican, and I don't like the direction Obama wants to take the country with his health care plan and other things, but Holy Mother of God the more I Iearn about Mitt the more I strongly dislike him. I think he is a spoiled brat who is terribly disconnected with the American populace. And if he had admitted his part in this and shown remorse, EVEN IN THE SLIGHTEST, I might have excused him. But he didn't. So I can't. I hate to say it, but I may have to vote for Obama again. Last time it was because McCain picked a soccer mom governor who was grossly unqualified to be in the White House as a running mate. I'm still mad at McCain for forcing me to vote for Obama last time. But now, I just can't vote for Romney. I simply can't. He is not a man I want in the oval office. God I hope Huntsman runs third party so I don't have to hate myself come election day for voting Obama again. Stupid ass republican party. I'm almost ashamed to admit I'm republican nowadays. :( |
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(05-11-2012, 05:21 PM)
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#368
It's nice that you've come to terms with your behavior. But if you held another student down and cut his hair against his will, then don't be surprised if he's not as forgiving as you are.
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(05-11-2012, 05:21 PM)
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#369
The situation is horrible from all perspectives but Romney hasn't handled it as well as he should have. |
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(05-11-2012, 05:22 PM)
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#370
The dog treatment was illustrative enough, this just further confirms what a fucking nutjob he is. |
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(05-11-2012, 05:23 PM)
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#371
Among his pranks included fucking with his blind teacher. The dog thing he did as an adult way later. While on a family trip he put his dog in a kennel and strapped it to the roof of his car for a long road trip. The dog shit itself and then he hosed it down in the kennel.
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Banned
(05-11-2012, 05:25 PM)
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#372
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dreams superior dreams
(05-11-2012, 05:27 PM)
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#373
Or a 17 year old black kid carrying skittles and iced tea is clearly an aggressor who is rightfully killed.
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(05-11-2012, 05:36 PM)
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#375
I'm thoroughly opposed to Romney being president, but this is pretty weaksauce political mudslinging.
It concerns me that Obama is "our" George W. Bush. If we're playing the "Which guy do you want to have a beer with" version of politics, it's clearly Obama this time. Mitt Romney is playing the role of Al Gore or John Kerry. That wouldn't be so bad except that Obama actually has worse policies than George Bush. Instead of torturing people, he just kills them with secret drone strikes. Obama is every bit as subservient to the Wall St banks. He supported extending the Bush tax cuts. His education policy has exacerbated No Child Left Behind. Honestly, it's hard to imagine how Romney could be more conservative than Obama. He'd practically have to stand up and vocally endorse slavery. |
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(05-11-2012, 05:37 PM)
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#377
wow, so people are really excusing his actions, thinking that he's a "changed man"? That at 18 he's still a kid? that it shouldn't matter?
If an 18 year old molests a child, then beats their children at 45, would you fail to recognize the connection? A man that bullies a perceived gay at 18, then advocates against the rights of gays at 45, do you assume that these events don't hold some connection? Both show a lack of regard for human decency. Sure, now he might not go out and attack some gay people on the street, but his actions are still relevant in how he deals with the social issues today. You can't just act as if these things never happened, and that they aren't part of who he is. When your a teenager, going through highschool, that's when your social fabric develops, that's how you define yourself as a man. It doesn't matter if he has restraint now, who he was then, and who he is today are still tied together.
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(05-11-2012, 05:44 PM)
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#378
Forgiveable or not, changed or not, its undeniable that this is all making him look so much worse than Obama. |
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(05-11-2012, 05:46 PM)
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(05-11-2012, 05:47 PM)
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Banned
(05-11-2012, 05:49 PM)
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(05-11-2012, 05:51 PM)
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#383
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(05-11-2012, 05:51 PM)
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(05-11-2012, 05:52 PM)
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#385
Would you vote for a bully as class president? |
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#partoftheproblem
(05-11-2012, 05:52 PM)
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#386
MURDER Animal cruelty and torture And now molestation Lets keep it up. Maybe we'll get a Hiroshima comparison next. |
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(05-11-2012, 05:53 PM)
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#387
No, since his actions at 17 or 18 would be relevant to that of a class President. His actions at 17 or 18 aren't relevant to that of a 65 year old President. All that I have to look at is his actions in the last 10 years to see what he'd be as a President. His statements in the last year alone for goodness sakes. His statements in the last week. I couldn't care less what he did 47 years ago. |
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(05-11-2012, 05:53 PM)
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#389
Turbulent times. First the NC amendment vote and resulting backlash (I live in NC, and the uproar and political arguments and battle lines forming is STILL all over my Facebook feed), then Obama's announcement, and now this.
I wonder where it's all going to lead? |
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(05-11-2012, 05:53 PM)
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#390
I know that president Obama and Nancy Pelosi responded to it by offering to cut Social Security.
Paul Ryan's budget is a goddamn joke. No president would accept it wholecloth, including Romney. It's only on the table so that Obama can look Serious and "Centrist" while pursuing disastrous austerity policies.
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(05-11-2012, 05:56 PM)
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#393
His actions at 18, abusing and bullying a gay classmate, and his approach on the rights of gay people in america are connected. If you want to attack the absurdity of the example as opposed to the actually argument, it just shows your cowardice. Sure people change, but not as much as we hope. |
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(05-11-2012, 05:58 PM)
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(05-11-2012, 06:00 PM)
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#397
Heard a guy on the radio this morning who says he was at Cranbrook a few years behind Romney and while he didn't know Romney well, his take is that it wasn't motivated by homophobia but by the fact that guys were starting to grow long hair as a trend and the upperclassmen didn't like that, and there were several incidents of them cutting the hair off other guys.
I don't really think that makes a difference though. |
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(05-11-2012, 06:00 PM)
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#398
ex - "Pop quiz? Thats gay." Or somebody wears a goofy looking shirt so "Dude, your shirt is really gay." Apparently this kid Romney picked on was picked on cuz 'his hair looked gay' or something, but does that mean he was specifically discriminating against this person because they, in fact, appeared to be a homosexual or just cuz his hair looked silly to them? There is a difference. |
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(05-11-2012, 06:00 PM)
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#399
And as someone who went to boarding school, I have to say that when you live in an environment 24-7 with guys from 14-18, crazy shit happens. I also love how Salon's article keeps describing people that Romney supposedly humiliated in high school and won't come to his defense now as his friends. |
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(05-11-2012, 06:00 PM)
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#400
http://www.npr.org/2012/05/10/152431...-also-evolving This is what cracks me up about people that get so passionate about politics. The very people you're arguing about often don't believe half the things they claim they believe in. These people are manufactured cardboard characters that are supposed to appeal to certain demographics.
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