[shanshan310]

How old are you Shan? Also it depends on the pill, I'd assume. 3/4 times a day doesn't sound off. I know it has been increasing over time for me. Also, wooo, beach time for a week.

19-almost-20 :p Can I ask how old you guys are? I just assume everyone is mid 20's mostly ><

I could probably go 3/4 times a day, but only 3-4 days a week. Everyday is a little too much for me.

[Loona]

I sometimes check the thread for some perspective, I think I might be able to give some in return for once...

I find that my #1 complaint when I'm being intimate with my partner is that he doesn't make very much noise. I on the other hand, make plenty of noise. When my partner doesn't vocalize at all it makes me think that something is wrong or that he isn't enjoying himself. When he finishes he makes some noise but otherwise there are times when I might keep going because I couldn't tell. Sometimes he's more vocal but I think he's putting it on in reaction to me. Is this pretty normal for guys or not really? Too busy trying to concentrate is his excuse. I've only ever been with one person so I have no point of reference. I guess guys could answer this too.

It's already been mentioned this is actually common, but I might as well offer a possible "why" - I figure since guys are generally expected to avoid showing reactions to pain, this may also affect how we react to please as well, especially if we're somewhat focused on what we're doing, more so if it involves someone else.

Secondly. The topic came up recently where my significant other admitted to watching porn. I kind of already figured but since I didn't really know for sure I just didn't let it bother me. I've always considered myself a pretty cool and understanding girlfriend. I never would really think that I have a problem with it but I do. When I spoke out about it my boyfriend and his friend both said my feelings were irrational, ill-informed, and unfair. They said that porn is a means to an end. They said that guys don't lust after the girls in porn but that it's something they watch out of habit to help facilitate getting the jerk off process over quickly. I don't see how that makes sense. How you could watch another woman having sex and not lust after them. Isn't lusting after them the whole point of watching porn? They seemed to disagree. I don't know whether I'm jealous, disappointed, or what. I felt like maybe he was "beyond" that. He's very special to me and little revelations like this sometimes remind me that he's still... I don't know. I just sort of feel like in our relationship he should be above that. Like I should be enough for him. When I say it like that I DO feel irrational though. Then I get angry at myself for second guessing my feelings. I don't get jealous or upset that he masturbates. I just sort of misguidedly thought he did it without watching porn. Am I a jealous lunatic girlfriend?

Has the conversation on the topic covered things like how often he watches it, or if he gravitates toward certain things in the porn he watches? If there are things there he'd like to do but doesn't, it might be worth discussing with him - as for the women in there, there's usually too much of a feeling of distance for that to be an issue.
The deeds and how they're presented tend to carry more weight than the actual people in them, as far as I'm concerned - when I was younger and before I had a sex life, I'd watch anything I get my hand on, but later in life and with some experience of my own, I found myself preferring my occasional porn like I prefer my food - lovingly home made.

It's not something a guy will put a lot of thought into, so it might not be easy to talk about, but it still might be worth trying, over time, giving him time to think about it a bit on his own if the issue is important to you.

[Log4Girlz]

Just because men don't find me sexually appealing doesn't mean I can't look pretty for me! :D

Stop saying crazy stuff :/

[Ezalc]

That doesn't sound healthy.

Sounds completely normal to be that horny for a man around his age.

[Samara]

Just learned that a friend of mine had a baby yesterday. Thing is, she told no one, never went to the doctor so on. This is not even her first time having this sort of behaviour. No one knew she was pregnant last time...which was exactly a year ago.

I just cant get around how she acts. shits crazy

[FallingEdge]

Sounds completely normal to be that horny for a man around his age.

As mentioned, that sounds fine.

[BladeWorker]

Just learned that a friend of mine had a baby yesterday. Thing is, she told no one, never went to the doctor so on. This is not even her first time having this sort of behaviour. No one knew she was pregnant last time...which was exactly a year ago. I just cant get around how she acts. shits crazy

I can't imagine not seeing a doctor about a pregnancy. Is she someone who's no big fan of modern medicine?

[CleverGirl]

http://www.quickmeme.com/Idiot-Nerd-...west/?upcoming This meme was suddenly made awesome (except for a few new ones on the first page.)

Oh my gosh! I love this new incarnation.

[The Anti-Monitor]

19-almost-20 :p Can I ask how old you guys are? I just assume everyone is mid 20's mostly >< I could probably go 3/4 times a day, but only 3-4 days a week. Everyday is a little too much for me.

23 in 2 months.

And Shan, it's not a competition. But if you see you can do it again, well, why not?

[Inanna]

http://www.quickmeme.com/Idiot-Nerd-...west/?upcoming This meme was suddenly made awesome (except for a few new ones on the first page.)

Didn't know about this meme but damn, some of the older ones are fucking pathetic! :\

[Dr.Palutena]

20 in about 3 months.

[shanshan310]

23 in 2 months. And Shan, it's not a competition. But if you see you can do it again, well, why not?

I didn't mean it to be >< I was more just thinking aloud I guess. I think my sex drive would be higher if I did it more.

Also, more buff Australian athletes: http://www.freeinfosociety.com/media/images/4521.jpg Just look at those biceps!

[Emitan]

Tell them about the milk man, Shan.

[Femmeworth]

Just learned that a friend of mine had a baby yesterday. Thing is, she told no one, never went to the doctor so on. This is not even her first time having this sort of behaviour. No one knew she was pregnant last time...which was exactly a year ago. I just cant get around how she acts. shits crazy

O_o

[Emitan]

Just learned that a friend of mine had a baby yesterday. Thing is, she told no one, never went to the doctor so on. This is not even her first time having this sort of behaviour. No one knew she was pregnant last time...which was exactly a year ago. I just cant get around how she acts. shits crazy

Wait what! Missed this post before. Why wouldn't she see a doctor?!

[The Anti-Monitor]

I didn't mean it to be >< I was more just thinking aloud I guess. I think my sex drive would be higher if I did it more. Also, more buff Australian athletes: http://www.freeinfosociety.com/media/images/4521.jpg Just look at those biceps!

Well, only one way to find out!

And you're a little evil bastard.

[Koyuga]

I'll be 26 in 3 months... D:

[Devolution]

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=488281

This article, I can't.

[Emitan]

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=488281 This article, I can't.

...

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[BladeWorker]

My favourite contradiction: one guy has kids QED unsexy. Other guy has kids - grandkids, even, not unsexy.

Professor Obama? Two daughters. May as well give the guy a cardigan. And fallopian tubes.

AND THEN

Romney... set up a trust for his grandkids

That's priceless. Just...priceless.

[idlethreats]

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=488281 This article, I can't.

It's sort of amazing how much that author hates women, and how willing he is to trumpet it from a broad platform. Then again, it's the National Review- aren't they the ones that used to publish that super racist Derbyshire guy?

[Al-ibn Kermit]

My favourite contradiction: one guy has kids QED unsexy. Other guy has kids - grandkids, even, not unsexy. AND THEN That's priceless. Just...priceless.

No, the article says that if you have mostly girls then you're a beta-male loser who women will shun, but if you have a lot of boys, and your boys have lots of boys, then you must be the president.

It's satire that sort of tries to nudge you into thinking there's a hint of truth in that.

[hydragonwarrior]

I have a question for girl gaf: So unfortunately, I've kind of fallen head over heels for a particular gal (let's call her T).

Bit of background for T: She's a receptionist at the building I live at, we''ve talked lots of times, she laughs at the goofy compliments I tell her, and she's into Seinfeld and salsa (which is awesome). Lately I've gotten her number and texted her. She's on vacation this week. My plan is to ask her out to do something when she comes back (basically next time I see her).

But i've noticed a few things though that maybe you gals or guys can answer:

1. It's always myself that texts first. I'm pretty sure i caused that, but is there any way to reverse it? Like T texts me instead? Or is this more of a sign she isn't interested?

2. So while T's on vacation, I texted her just once to say have a good vacation and decided to hold off on texting her. I feel I've texted her wayy too much prior to her vacation (once a day practically) and dont want to come off as too clingy or too much "always around". Good idea or bad idea to not text her for the next few days?

On a side note, it's hard as hell holding back and not texting her lol

Thanks!

[Paper Fox]

^ Well she's already given you her number, so that's a good start. Personally I would avoid texting her while she is away. Let her enjoy her holiday, that way she'll have more to talk about when she gets back.
And as for the 'who should text first' thing, maybe she just isn't the kind of person to initiate that sort of stuff. Has she said anything/done anything else that may seem like she's not interested?

[shanshan310]

I have a question for girl gaf: So unfortunately, I've kind of fallen head over heels for a particular gal (let's call her T). Bit of background for T: She's a receptionist at the building I live at, we''ve talked lots of times, she laughs at the goofy compliments I tell her, and she's into Seinfeld and salsa (which is awesome). Lately I've gotten her number and texted her. She's on vacation this week. My plan is to ask her out to do something when she comes back (basically next time I see her). But i've noticed a few things though that maybe you gals or guys can answer: 1. It's always myself that texts first. I'm pretty sure i caused that, but is there any way to reverse it? Like T texts me instead? Or is this more of a sign she isn't interested? 2. So while T's on vacation, I texted her just once to say have a good vacation and decided to hold off on texting her. I feel I've texted her wayy too much prior to her vacation (once a day practically) and dont want to come off as too clingy or too much "always around". Good idea or bad idea to not text her for the next few days? On a side note, it's hard as hell holding back and not texting her lol Thanks!

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=445417
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=459177

[The Anti-Monitor]

Don't overthink texts and what they mean. It's a waste of everyone's time.

[hydragonwarrior]

Let her enjoy her holiday, that way she'll have more to talk about when she gets back.

Totally get this. Thanks for all the replies! I think I'll just wait till she's back.

[Devolution]

I'll never understand how some men prefer virgins. I just think back on how it was when I first started and wonder why anyone would prefer that over someone who knows what they're doing and won't be crying/frustrated and in pain.

[Professor Beef]

I'll never understand how some men prefer virgins. I just think back on how it was when I first started and wonder why anyone would prefer that over someone who knows what they're doing and won't be crying/frustrated and in pain.

Gotta get that conquest feeling.

"yeah man i got her when she was a virgin bro!"

[Platy]

I'll never understand how some men prefer virgins. I just think back on how it was when I first started and wonder why anyone would prefer that over someone who knows what they're doing and won't be crying/frustrated and in pain.

You know ... human sacrifice is not the same without one

[shanshan310]

I'll never understand how some men prefer virgins. I just think back on how it was when I first started and wonder why anyone would prefer that over someone who knows what they're doing and won't be crying/frustrated and in pain.

Well, if you look at it the other way around I think it would be fun being the more experienced one. But you do have a point. Some one who doesn't know what they're doing probably won't be able to pleasure you very well.

[Devolution]

Well, if you look at it the other way around I think it would be fun being the more experienced one. But you do have a point. Some one who doesn't know what they're doing probably won't be able to pleasure you very well.

You can be more experienced without wanting someone with zero experience or someone that's just gonna be a bloody crying mess. Also I really hate how movies portray it too, oh it's just a pinprick, who the fuck has a first time like that?

[idlethreats]

Gotta get that conquest feeling. "yeah man i got her when she was a virgin bro!"

Alternatively, a virgin will likely have no idea how bad in bed you are because they have nothing to compare the experience to.

[Leeness]

I'll never understand how some men prefer virgins. I just think back on how it was when I first started and wonder why anyone would prefer that over someone who knows what they're doing and won't be crying/frustrated and in pain.

:((((((((

Haha. D'oh. Ah well.

[Devolution]

:(((((((( Haha. D'oh. Ah well.

Girl just get yourself a boyfriend who doesn't care and will stick with you through the frustrating times and be patient. It makes all the difference. Otherwise I would have thrown in the towel on sex altogether.

[Leeness]

Girl just get yourself a boyfriend who doesn't care and will stick with you through the frustrating times and be patient. It makes all the difference. Otherwise I would have thrown in the towel on sex altogether.

That's the problem. Haha. Men still Awkward Escape from me. So I've pretty much thrown in the towel already haha.

[Professor Beef]

Alternatively, a virgin will likely have no idea how bad in bed you are because they have nothing to compare the experience to.

Haha, it was so awkward being the virgin in my relationship. She was kind about it, but I could tell there was definitely a sarcastic "c'mon now" running through her head.

Girl just get yourself a boyfriend who doesn't care and will stick with you through the frustrating times and be patient. It makes all the difference. Otherwise I would have thrown in the towel on sex altogether.

This right here.

[shanshan310]

Alternatively, a virgin will likely have no idea how bad in bed you are because they have nothing to compare the experience to.

I'm pretty sure it's a mixture of this, the conquest thing, and not wanting someone who has 'been with other people', or something.

[Platy]

I'm pretty sure it's a mixture of this, the conquest thing, and not wanting someone who has 'been with other people', or something.

I heard the word "tightness" being used for this too ... but not sure if it was a joke or not

[shanshan310]

I heard the word "tightness" being used for this too ... but not sure if it was a joke or not

That... doesn't sound right tbh, unless its someone who can't relax their muscles or something. However, if you were with an aexperienced girl she could probably make it tighter of her own accord...

[The Anti-Monitor]

The most fun is two experienced people together. I ain't got time to explain to you how to use what you were born with, kiddo.

[Platy]

That... doesn't sound right tbh, unless its someone who can't relax their muscles or something. However, if you were with an aexperienced girl she could probably make it tighter of her own accord...

Yeah ... those people probably didn't knew Pompoir ... or they were joking =P

But then again, i heard the same thing as people trying to explain why they loved anal so much =P

[The Anti-Monitor]

To be fair, I don't think most people who claim they want virgins have actually experienced that much. You just have to remember how your first time went to realize why anyone would prefer that. I mean fuck. Even if it didn't hurt or bleed too much, you still had no idea what you were doing.

It's just the obsession with being the first one, the only one who could made it that far with such a pure being and being the one to ruin it to everyone else. It's something she's never going to forget after all.

[Devolution]

I've been trying to grow some of my eyebrows back in and man it's taking FOREVER.

[XiaNaphryz]

I heard the word "tightness" being used for this too ... but not sure if it was a joke or not

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rgqiO4sd848

[Femmeworth]

All this virgin sex talk just makes me think of hentai. :\ Fuck Japan.

[shanshan310]

I've been trying to grow some of my eyebrows back in and man it's taking FOREVER.

Ruh roh. What'd you do to them? I don't know if eyebrows are guaranteed to grow back..

[Devolution]

Ruh roh. What'd you do to them? I don't know if eyebrows are guaranteed to grow back..

Nothing. I just want them a bit more full. It's coming back in but at a slow rate.

[Lucian Cat]

Oh they grow back. With a vengeance :/

[cloudwalking]

Nothing. I just want them a bit more full. It's coming back in but at a slow rate.

hang in there! growing back eyebrows is very slow going. a few years back i had mine pencil-thin (overplucked back in high school) and i decided come hell or high water i was going to grow them back in. i kinda did it in stages, letting a only bit grow back at a time so it wouldn't look messy. it worked but took several months. the wait is very much worth it, trust me!