[BlueTsunami]

I like to fantasize about my woman just on the verge of cumming, and then the phone rings, and she answers it and tries to hold on a conversation while I'm pleasuring her down below.

There's actually a particular amateur vid with this scenario and yeah its pretty awesome

[Copernicus]

I've had more women interested in being choked than I have guys mention the same.

Maybe I just hang out with crazies, but I think women tend to be more deprived solely for the fact of being repressed for centuries, as a sort of coping mechanism.

p.s. that timedog post makes me think I'm timedog.

[JokerOfSpades]

Found this in the related articles. Found it more surprising. Men want cuddles but women prefer sex, survey finds I've always been told the opposite is true. Never been in a relationship to find out myself.

Another weird thing I found out is that guys are usually the first to drop the l-bomb.

erm... you first guys.

Damn, thought that would work
not really

[midonnay]

How bout Yaoi manga and all the boy raping? >_>

[Fiction]

Then you are not as liberal as you think you are. Alternatively, your upbringing could be liberal but you yourself ended up not being one. Upbringing is only part of your sexual development. The people you surround yourself with aka your friends, also affects this. Also, I did also mention societal expectation, which you probably adhered a lot to.

Actually, as a woman, I find that pretty ewww as well. We all have different likes/kinks and "squicks" as they are called in fandom. One persons squick is another persons kink.

[Emitan]

How bout Yaoi manga and all the boy raping? >_>

It's not rape, it's boys love!

[BocoDragon]

Then you are not as liberal as you think you are. Alternatively, your upbringing could be liberal but you yourself ended up not being one. Upbringing is only part of your mental development. The people you surround yourself with aka your friends, also affects this thing. Also, I did also mention societal expectation, which you probably adhered a lot to.

Naw I can see some straight dudes being naturally uninterested in gay sex. Kinsey scale. Some just don't want dick at all. Some do.

But there's a lot of "just don't hit on me, bro!" type of over-reactive defense, and a lot of shame/hiding from those who are interested in gay fantasies (bi, etc), and that's all society.....

[Kitsunebaby]

Oh, yeah? What are your fantasies, then?

Hon, you don't even wanna know. For me, the weirder and more messed up it is, the easier to get off.

[BlueTsunami]

How bout Yaoi manga and all the boy raping? >_>

Cloud and Red XII dp'ing Sephiroth

[ReiGun]

Cloud and Red XII dp'ing Sephiroth

While Barret watches.

[ivysaur12]

Now this shit's getting good.

[Replicant]

Actually, as a woman, I find that pretty ewww as well. We all have different likes/kinks and "squicks" as they are called in fandom. One persons squick is another persons kink.

I think the only thing that squick me is if it goes into hardcore S&M territory, or some of the things that I saw in Japanese porn store. My friend and I went to visit a Japanese video store and our curiosity got the better of us and we went to the adult section. Wrong mistake.

Naw I can see some straight dudes being naturally uninterested in gay sex. Kinsey scale. Some just don't want dick at all. Some do. But there's a lot of "just don't hit on me, bro!" type of over-reactive defense, and a lot of shame/hiding from those who are interested in gay fantasies (bi, etc), and that's all society.....

Yeah, I find that most people who are not interested usually just not interested. Those who are volatile about it is the one who look like they are over-compensating for something.

[Fiction]

I think the only thing that squick me is if it goes into hardcore S&M territory, or some of the things that I saw in Japanese porn store. My friend and I went to visit a Japanese video store and our curiosity got the better of us and we went to the adult section. Wrong mistake.

My squicks are pretty varied, as are my kinks. You don't spend 13 years heavily in fandom without learning just what does and doesn't turn you on, hee. The good thing about fandom is that they are very careful to warn for triggers or squicks, so people can avoid stuff that makes them uncomfortable.

[Gustav]

Then you are not as liberal as you think you are. Alternatively, your upbringing could be liberal but you yourself ended up not being one. Upbringing is only part of your sexual development. The people you surround yourself with aka your friends, also affects this. Also, I did also mention societal expectation, which you probably adhered a lot to. The fact that our societies still condemn people who are attracted to their own sex speaks itself.

I don't think you know my situation enough to judge on my upbringing or social surroundings. I will tell you that in my direct circle of friends, none of them even made a homophobic remark. And regarding social expectation. I did not even finish school properly. I probably lived the most non conformist life of all my friends and classmates.

I just find the thought of having a penis in my face not so pleasant. Some find the idea of licking an asshole disgusting. My kryptonite is a dick to the face. Sorry, man. You got to deal with it. It's no big conspiracy.

[CorvoSol]

I find this hard to believe. I cite any fandoms anon kink meme fan fiction threads as proof.

I would love to see Scientists studying that.

[Daydream Sequence]

Im pretty sure I read an article awhile ago that said 'rape fantasy' was number 1 or 2 in womens sexual fantasies.

I'd call those domination fantasies. No woman I've ever met fantasizes about being brutally raped. They do fantasize about being forced to do things they wouldn't normally want to do...but not violently forced.

[JokerOfSpades]

I don't think you know my situation enough to judge on my upbringing or social surroundings. I will tell you that in my direct circle of friends, none of them even made a homophobic remark. And regarding social expectation. I did not even finish school properly. I probably lived the most non conformist life of all my friends and classmates. I just find the thought of having a penis in my face not so pleasant. Some find the idea of licking an asshole disgusting. My kryptonite is a dick to the face. Sorry, man. You got to deal with it. It's no big conspiracy.

So a dick to the face makes you weak in the knees? Can't move or resist?

:P

[Gustav]

So a dick to the face makes you weak in the knees? Can't move or resist? :P

Hahaha. Yeah. It makes me lose all my super powers.

[Fiction]

I'd call those domination fantasies. No woman I've ever met fantasizes about being brutally raped. They do fantasize about being forced to do things they wouldn't normally want to do...but not violently forced.

That is what I was going to say. Most of the rape fantasies women have where they are the victiim would be termed 'dub-con' in fan fiction (dubious consent), and are more of the bodice ripper variety than the brutal variety.

[Mudkips]

I have to agree with this, guys. We are the driving force behind porn, and I'm trying to imagine a woman fantasizing about puking in a bucket when her gag reflex is violated by one man while two more DP her corn-hole.

I know of no man who fantasizes about such things.
The driving force behind that shit in porn is the simple fact that porn has to do more and more bizarre shit to get attention. An old porn video doesn't get you off any less than a new one, so there has be be something different about the new one to get people to look at it, and buy it.

[Replicant]

I don't think you know my situation enough to judge on my upbringing or social surroundings. I will tell you that in my direct circle of friends, none of them even made a homophobic remark. And regarding social expectation. I did not even finish school properly. I probably lived the most non conformist life of all my friends and classmates. I just find the thought of having a penis in my face not so pleasant. Some find the idea of licking an asshole disgusting. My kryptonite is a dick to the face. Sorry, man. You got to deal with it. It's no big conspiracy.

Like you said, I don't know enough about you. All I can do is to draw from my experience. But in my experience, those who are volatile about it usually have background where they are expected to confirm to society's standard/friends/family. I'm also used to people saying something awful ("Last night this guy tried to hit on me, I feel like vomiting/punching him") then followed it up with "No offense to gays, I have gay friends", which was completely eye-rolling experience.

[Daydream Sequence]

Women are sick little puppies. But I bet it was a dude that came up with the Filthy Sanchez.

[UrbanRats]

If an orgy is depraved, they have low (or high?) standards.

[jorma]

I like to fantasize about my woman just on the verge of cumming, and then the phone rings, and she answers it and tries to hold on a conversation while I'm pleasuring her down below.

In your fantasy, is it Kano on the phone?

[Fiction]

I think most men would be shocked to know that in fandoms with popular slash pairings, male pregnancy (mpreg) is usually one of the top kinks.

[Femmeworth]

If an orgy is depraved, they have low (or high?) standards.

It's hard to tell, but it seems like the study was using the participant's perception of whether the fantasy is positive or negative.

I think most men would be shocked to know that in fandoms with popular slash pairings, male pregnancy (mpreg) is usually one of the top kinks.

Oh my.

[JokerOfSpades]

I think most men would be shocked to know that in fandoms with popular slash pairings, male pregnancy (mpreg) is usually one of the top kinks.

Shocked or disturbed? I pick option number 2. But without the baby....

[Replicant]

I think most men would be shocked to know that in fandoms with popular slash pairings, male pregnancy (mpreg) is usually one of the top kinks.

Okay, this I never understand. Not only biologically it's not possible, I also don't understand why women think men will be happy to become pregnant. Is it some kind of wish-fulfillment for women to see men pregnant?

[Kyoufu]

Okay, this I never understand. Not only biologically it's not possible, I also don't understand why women think men will be happy to become pregnant. Is it some kind of wish-fulfillment for women to see men pregnant?

Blame Arnold.

[Hanmik]

a woman is called a nymphomaniac (Hypersexuality) if she wants sex all the time.. a man is called a man..

[Femmeworth]

Okay, this I never understand. Not only biologically it's not possible, I also don't understand why women think men will be happy to become pregnant. Is it some kind of wish-fulfillment for women to see men pregnant?

For trans men it is.

[Daydream Sequence]

a woman is called a nymphomaniac (Hypersexuality) if she wants sex all the time.. a man is called a man..

Ever hear a man complain about that? Probably not. The label was most likely created by a woman.

edit: Before anyone gets upset, it's a joke. I know that a male doctor coined the term, but it wasn't in regard to women who love sex. It was for women that couldn't control the urge to have sex.

[Fiction]

Okay, this I never understand. Not only biologically it's not possible, I also don't understand why women think men will be happy to become pregnant. Is it some kind of wish-fulfillment for women to see men pregnant?

They have come up with entire alternate universes to make it possible. I don't really understand it either. Baby fic and fic where a pairing has kids is also pretty popular but not my thing. This is likely because I have kids, and therefore, it's not sexy to me. But mpreg, I would assume, stems from a desire to see those characters in a more caregiving role, more tender, ect.

[Replicant]

For trans men it is.

Interesting. I thought their reproductive ability would cease once they made the transition into men.

Having said that, Mpregs fics normally just planted a baby in what is obviously a cis man. Usually via magic. LOL

[shidoshi]

I believe most of mine would violate the TOS if I were to post them.

I'm not sure mine would violate the TOS, but... yeah. I wonder about myself sometimes. *hides*

[Fiction]

Interesting. I thought their reproductive ability would cease once they made the transition into men. Having said that, Mpregs fics normally just planted a baby in what is obviously a cis man. Usually via magic. LOL

There is this new popular AU that is all about it being natural, likely to hit a fandom near you soon. It's popped up in Supernatual (apparently where it was born, snerk) and is in Sherlock fic now as well. It's called omegaverse, and it's apparently based on wolf behavior? I am not sure. But yeah, everything there is self lubricating and heats and natural pregnancy and birth.

[bangai-o]

Californacation tv show sais women have all sorts of wierd fantasies.

[Haly]

Using Japan as my completely objective sample set, I can empirically confirm this.

[Femmeworth]

Interesting. I thought their reproductive ability would cease once they made the transition into men.

Apparently hormone therapy doesn't sterilize them, unlike with MTF transsexuals.

Having said that, Mpregs fics normally just planted a baby in what is obviously a cis man. Usually via magic. LOL

Sounds like futanari hentai.

[NaughtyCalibur]

Personally, I blame hentai for my depraved fantasies.

Tentacle rape does absolutely nothing for me, but strangely certain things like mystical witch spells forcing women to orgasm (e.g., some of the Bible Black stuff) sets me off. I can't trace it back with 100% certainty, but I'm going to go out on a limb and say that when a classmate brought in some crazy Sailor Moon/DBZ hentai comic back in 6th grade for me to check out it changed me.

On the other hand, an "unpleasant fantasy" to me would involve anything dealing with assholes, shit, piss, etc. Dated a few girls who insisted in anal. Tried it once, wasn't for me and just have no interest in it at all. It actually bums me out that so much potentially good porn online is ruined by extensive anal scenes haha.

Oh, and I think this research is bullshit. I have heard some sick ass shit come from a lot of women regarding their fantasies, and have dated a few of them. I was seriously not prepared for some of the stuff I heard.

[Riposte]

I don't get why men would fantasizing about being swinger. The mere mention of the word swinger makes me imagine fat and old people.

[Uncle]

People viewing their fantasies as a negative experience confuses the hell out of me. Maybe I misunderstood the article. Does it mean the fantasy itself or the actual act of said fantasy?

[Uchip]

I also blame Japan

[JokerOfSpades]

I was seriously not prepared for some of the stuff I heard.

Such as...?

[Plywood]

Eh, I'm not into BDSM myself.

[Devolution]

I just made timedoggy a sandwich.

[Typhoon_Ex]

Is it a trend nowadays of reserchers spending their time researching common knowlege?

[Plywood]

I like to fantasize about my woman just on the verge of cumming, and then the phone rings, and she answers it and tries to hold on a conversation while I'm pleasuring her down below.

And it's her mother.

Kasia

[jorma]

Such as...?

[computers putin']

How depraved we talking? When it comes to sex I'm pretty much a prude so my fantasies are usually pretty basic.