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JB1981 · (08-20-2012, 02:28 PM)

Went to a bachelor party in AC. Met this girl at a club and we hit it off extremely well. Danced all night, hit a few different clubs, even up smashing. It was just an amazing night all around.

She is a few years older than I am but we had unbelievable chemistry from the get-go. So into each other, making out all over the place. Even the sex was like we knew each other for years. She sent me a follow up text the next morning, asking me how I was. I told her I would love to see her again and she said I would love to see you again as well. This was Sunday and I can't stop thinking about her. My question to the GAF folk is, when do you think I should contact her again? How long should I wait? A few days? I was thinking of calling her Tuesday night after work to see how she was and see if maybe she wanted to set something up for the weekend or the weekend after. I don't want to wait so long where she already has plans but I also don't want to come across too forceful. Give me your thoughts?

DoctorWho · (08-20-2012, 02:29 PM)

subversus · (08-20-2012, 02:29 PM)

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=459177

fanboi · (08-20-2012, 02:29 PM)

Send her a text when a where.

You have this sexuall tension building with the texts, keep at it.

Ragus · (08-20-2012, 02:29 PM)

dat brag

Kyoufu · (08-20-2012, 02:30 PM)

Don't listen to GAF.

Listen to your heart.

bjork · (08-20-2012, 02:30 PM)

Originally Posted by JB1981:

Went to a bachelor party in AC.

Air Conditioning?
Slater?

Harry Potter · (08-20-2012, 02:30 PM)

Wait till we find out he's the soon to be groom.

JB1981 · (08-20-2012, 02:30 PM)

Originally Posted by DoctorWho:

Thanks, buddy!

Log4Girlz · (08-20-2012, 02:30 PM)

I had an orgy with the Queen of Europe. What should I do GAF?

DoctorWho · (08-20-2012, 02:31 PM)

Originally Posted by Log4Girlz:

I had an orgy with the Queen of Europe. What should I do GAF?

Get checked for STDs.

JB1981 · (08-20-2012, 02:32 PM)

Originally Posted by bjork:

Air Conditioning?
Slater?

Atlantic City

(._.) · (08-20-2012, 02:33 PM)

congrats on losing your virginity

Willkiller · (08-20-2012, 02:33 PM)

Text her tomorrow, she already text you the next morning so I doubt you can come across as forceful unless you go psycho on her.

Grats on the sex of course.

Rhomega Beta · (08-20-2012, 02:33 PM)

Originally Posted by Log4Girlz:

I had an orgy with the Queen of Europe. What should I do GAF?

Wait until she gets pregnant. Have fun with the huge responsibility of being a consort.

bjork · (08-20-2012, 02:34 PM)

Originally Posted by JB1981:

Atlantic City

That's less interesting than my two possibilities. Oh well.

Log4Girlz · (08-20-2012, 02:34 PM)

Originally Posted by Rhomega Beta:

Wait until she gets pregnant. Have fun with the huge responsibility of being a consort.

I think I gave her a splinter, do you think she'll leave me?

gutshot · (08-20-2012, 02:34 PM)

Just wait until the OP reveals.... it was his bachelor party.

brianjones · (08-20-2012, 02:35 PM)

douchiest new thread 8.7

JB1981 · (08-20-2012, 02:35 PM)

Originally Posted by brianjones:

douchiest new thread 8.7

why is it douchey?

BGBW · (08-20-2012, 02:35 PM)

Have you tried playing one of the other routes in this VN?

Half and half · (08-20-2012, 02:36 PM)

Shit, op, you're the one getting action. You're way beyond GaF advice.

Johnny Cage In The Shower · (08-20-2012, 02:37 PM)

"Let's chat about this girl I met this weekend"

So what's her bra size? Shaven or a little trail?

subversus · (08-20-2012, 02:39 PM)

Originally Posted by Johnny Cage In The Shower:

"Let's chat about this girl I met this weekend"

Shaven or a little trail?

or full bush?

Busty · (08-20-2012, 02:39 PM)

Hey guys I was wondering if any of you had seen my wife?

I haven't heard from her.

She went to Atlantic City for the weekend and she's a couple of years older then me and...

--- oh no.

OriginofHysteria · (08-20-2012, 02:40 PM)

Oh Atlantic City. That place never fails.

Sneds · (08-20-2012, 02:40 PM)

Smashing is the least appealing description of sex ever.

Anyway, this sounds good to me:

Originally Posted by JB1981:

I was thinking of calling her Tuesday night after work to see how she was and see if maybe she wanted to set something up for the weekend or the weekend after. I don't want to wait so long where she already has plans but I also don't want to come across too forceful. Give me your thoughts?

User33 · (08-20-2012, 02:41 PM)

The "when to call" dilemma is so overblown by pickup forums or whatever they're called now. It's overthinking. Call her again when you want to see her again. Easy.

DoctorWho · (08-20-2012, 02:41 PM)

Originally Posted by OriginofHysteria:

Oh Atlantic City. That place never fails.

Atlantic City?

Isn't that where old ladies go to gamble?

JB1981 · (08-20-2012, 02:41 PM)

Originally Posted by OriginofHysteria:

Oh Atlantic City. That place never fails.

The City of Dreams.

It really is a dump but it is also a lot of fun.

Emily Chu · (08-20-2012, 02:41 PM)

as a wise person once said at a GAF meetup

"there are no rules to this shit" (everything you hear is bullshit)

what may be right for one person is entirely wrong for another

and results may vary anyway

eh if it was meant to happen it'll happen anyway if not, simply try again

just do what feels right to you

gutshot · (08-20-2012, 02:42 PM)

Originally Posted by DoctorWho:

Atlantic City?

Isn't that were old ladies go to gamble?

Nah man, AC is cool again. They got the Borgata and Revel. Keep up!

Willkiller · (08-20-2012, 02:42 PM)

Originally Posted by Johnny Cage In The Shower:

"Let's chat about this girl I met this weekend"

So what's her bra size? Shaven or a little trail?

Rate her OP. Rate her out of 10.

Style Fox · (08-20-2012, 02:42 PM)

Well, at least it's better than threads where the OP asks for advice then does nothing.

JB1981 · (08-20-2012, 02:43 PM)

Originally Posted by User33:

The "when to call" dilemma is so overblown by pickup forums or whatever they're called now. It's overthinking. Call her again when you want to see her again. Easy.

well if i had my way i'd see her again immediately. maybe i'll give her a call tonight, just to see how she is doing?

cwmartin · (08-20-2012, 02:43 PM)

What was her first name OP? I may have to fight you for my honor.

Johnny Cage In The Shower · (08-20-2012, 02:43 PM)

Originally Posted by DoctorWho:

Atlantic City?

Isn't that where old ladies go to gamble?

Oh hell no!

McLovin · (08-20-2012, 02:44 PM)

Originally Posted by bjork:

Air Conditioning?
Slater?

Accounting Convention duhh!

OriginofHysteria · (08-20-2012, 02:45 PM)

Originally Posted by JB1981:

The City of Dreams.

It really is a dump but it is also a lot of fun.

Did you go to Revel? Borgata?

Originally Posted by DoctorWho:

Atlantic City?

Isn't that where old ladies go to gamble?

Depends on the casino really.

GotEmRunnin · (08-20-2012, 02:45 PM)

Originally Posted by Busty:

Hey guys I was wondering if any of you had seen my wife?

I haven't heard from her.

She went to Atlantic City for the weekend and she's a couple of years older then me and...

--- oh no.

Excellent!!!!!

Before you make any brash decisions OP; let playa-GAF give her a test drive first.

JB1981 · (08-20-2012, 02:46 PM)

Originally Posted by OriginofHysteria:

Did you go to Revel? Borgata?

Depends on the casino really.

Neither actually, ended up partying at Trop. Haven't been to Revel yet but have heard great things.

bytesized · (08-20-2012, 02:46 PM)

I'd just advise you to not get too excited and procede with caution until you are super super super sure that she is not a crazy bitch full of issues.

Kentpaul · (08-20-2012, 02:46 PM)

congrats on a normal night out.

shagg_187 · (08-20-2012, 02:47 PM)

Ask her to marry you in 3 days.

alterno69 · (08-20-2012, 02:47 PM)

If you want to see her why not call her ASAP, i always found those rules like waiting a couple of days to call silly. She texted you the next day, probably wanted to see you but didn't want to seem desperate, why be an ass and make her wait when it's clear you want to see her too?

Ask her out today and cut the crap.

MmmSkyscraper · (08-20-2012, 02:48 PM)

Originally Posted by JB1981:

My question to the GAF folk is, when do you think I should contact her again? How long should I wait? A few days?

What no Swingers?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2aN4w2AfkEY

WoodenLung · (08-20-2012, 02:48 PM)

Break into her house and sniff her clothes when she isn't home.

shagg_187 · (08-20-2012, 02:49 PM)

Originally Posted by alterno69:

If you want to see her why not call her ASAP, i always found those rules like waiting a couple of days to call silly. She texted you the next day, probably wanted to see you but didn't want to seem desperate, why be an ass and make her wait when it's clear you want to see her too?

Ask her out today and cut the crap.

No. No. Don't. Do it only if you want her to avoid you.

Hollywood Duo · (08-20-2012, 02:49 PM)

Just go with your gut man. I think your original plan is perfectly reasonable.

JB1981 · (08-20-2012, 02:49 PM)

Originally Posted by alterno69:

If you want to see her why not call her ASAP, i always found those rules like waiting a couple of days to call silly. She texted you the next day, probably wanted to see you but didn't want to seem desperate, why be an ass and make her wait when it's clear you want to see her too?

Ask her out today and cut the crap.

call or text?