Ultima_5
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#101

Originally Posted by Devolution: View Post
He has in Post Your Pic, OP is handsome and I assume he be trollin' since looks aren't everything in a relationship.
inside jokes are... and eventually acceptance of what you've settled with
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#102

Originally Posted by OJdaKiller: View Post
Guess I find this one easier to understand.

It's just about security/perceived trust. Do you want the woman that every guy in the bar is hitting on, or the one that doesn't draw as much attention? Figure, the amount of attention she receives that you witness is probably only 25% of what's going on in daily life.
I don't even know why guys think like this. Personally I'd never date a girl who couldn't generate her own options. I learned that lesson the hard way.
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#103

I see gorgeous girls with mediocre/below average/above average guys all the damned time. So I dunno whether it's money/personality/dick, what, but it happens.
Raxus
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#104

Originally Posted by Devolution: View Post
Why do you act like you're hideous when a bunch of us have seen your pics by now?

Good sex.
Secure.
Mental health.
Low maintenance.

Or you know god forbid personality.
What is this perso...nality you speak of?

Is it some sort of currency they have a lot of?

If you can make a girl laugh then you are halfway to striking up a relationship
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#105

Originally Posted by NotTheGuyYouKill: View Post
I see gorgeous girls with mediocre/below average/above average guys all the damned time. So I dunno whether it's money/personality/dick, what, but it happens.
Social standing always plays a role. Maybe those guys are respected by the people they know or are leaders.
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#106

Although rare, there exist both girls and boys who aren't shallow.

Soak that in folks.
Schweini
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#107

There are also a lot of celebrities that have an uglier partner; and they don't need any of their money.

Looks aren't everything; deal with it. But there are a lot of people that only care about looks, which sucks.
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#108

Whenever I see shit like that I think, respect to that man. He had the balls to and spit game to that woman even though any other person would tell him she's out of his league and not only did he not give a fuck about that bullshit opinion, he was able to succeed. A person who does that, deserves respect.
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#109

Originally Posted by Puddles: View Post
There's a swing class offered at my college. I might take that and salsa. Those seem like good life skills to have.
If there's one stereotype that I will admit to believing; girls like a guy who knows how to dance.
squidyj
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#110

Originally Posted by Devolution: View Post
He has in Post Your Pic, OP is handsome and I assume he be trollin' since looks aren't everything in a relationship.
duh, everyone on GAF is attractive.

except me, lol

Also this guy probably smells amazing. I don't think that's been mentioned yet.


Originally Posted by Ezalc: View Post
Whenever I see shit like that I think, respect to that man. He had the balls to and spit game to that woman even though any other person would tell him she's out of his league and not only did he not give a fuck about that bullshit opinion, he was able to succeed. A person who does that, deserves respect.
So you're saying that you rate dudes on their ability to bag hotties?
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#111

Originally Posted by MiDNiGHTS: View Post
Social standing always plays a role. Maybe those guys are respected by the people they know or are leaders.
So then it is partially a confidence thing. How many unconfident leaders do you know?

I wonder what girls think about guys who lead, but not really by choice but because there are no other valid options, so it's really leading by circumstance and basically scraping along by the skin of your teeth.

I wonder this for reasons.
SoulPlaya
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#112

It's cause he has money.
Devolution
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#113

Originally Posted by NotTheGuyYouKill: View Post
I see gorgeous girls with mediocre/below average/above average guys all the damned time. So I dunno whether it's money/personality/dick, what, but it happens.
Would you even know what a very handsome man looks like? I mean it seems every time this discussion happens men are more critical of other men's looks. The irony is quite funny.
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#114

Originally Posted by SoulPlaya: View Post
It's cause he has money.
If he ran out of money, would she leave him or stick around?
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I kinda see this a bit with Asian couples at times (I live near a high-end university, lots of Asians here). See the totally dorky Asian guy with a smoking hot Asian lady. I assume there might be some cultural thing going on there, or some pressure from the parents. Or maybe he's just a great dude, I dunno. I feel better about myself if I think it's cultural though!
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#116

Originally Posted by Devolution: View Post
Would you even know what a very handsome man looks like? I mean it seems every time this discussion happens men are more critical of other men's looks. The irony is quite funny.
I know what a handsome man looks like. I'm not afraid to admit when a dude's good looking and when he's not. Shit, all my friends are way better looking than I am, I fully admit that to them.

I like to think I'm aware enough that I don't need to be insecure.

I know when a dude's handsome and I know when it looks like a dude just got hit in the face with a shovel as a child. Motherfucker has still got serious game with the ladies though, so respect. If a dude isn't a great looker has a got a beautiful girl, good on him.
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#117

Originally Posted by squidyj: View Post
duh, everyone on GAF is attractive.
It's true. I'm quite the stunner myself.
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#118

Originally Posted by Izick: View Post
Remember Gaf, anything is possible as long as you have confidence! You can be fat or have a big nose, but as long as your confident then everything is A-okay!

Give me a break. The reason you don't see this shit often is because looks do matter, no matter what people try to tell you. I mean, if looks don't matter, then why would people be pursuing the "hot" chick anyway?

It's better to just accept it and understand that certain people of the opposite sex aren't going to find you attractive because of the way you look. It just is how it is. There's no sense of lying to yourself and feeling like shit later on, because that gets you nowhere; fuck it'll make you feel worse in the long run of everything.



I don't post in there anymore because of this shit. If you think looks matter then you might as well not even post at all.
Reality. Thank you.

People in the dating thread, except for one poster, i forget his name, don't believe this. I think one of the main reasons im still single since forever is because of my looks. Im not a monster by any means but i can tell hardly any girls find any sexual attraction towards me. Hard to gain "confidence" with that.

No, i don't think it's impossible for me to get a girl, but it is more difficult because of my looks.
Raxus
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#119

Originally Posted by NotTheGuyYouKill: View Post
If he ran out of money, would she leave him or stick around?
If anyone runs into financial troubles they are going to likely split. It doesn't matter how good looking they are. It puts a huge strain on the relationship. Stability is attractive.
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#120

Originally Posted by Archer: View Post
or a huge wallet
Nah. Money can always be made/earned. Big dicks are a special trait that only the best of the best super elite mega awesome best guys have.
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#121

Originally Posted by Kung Fu Grip: View Post
Reality. Thank you.

People in the dating thread, except for one poster, i forget his name, don't believe this. I think one of the main reasons im still single since forever is because of my looks. Im not a monster by any means but i can tell hardly any girls find any sexual attraction towards me. Hard to gain "confidence" with that.

No, i don't think it's impossible for me to get a girl, but it is more difficult because of my looks.
I don't think women find defeatism particularly attractive either.

Originally Posted by RatskyWatsky: View Post
Nah. Money can always be made/earned. Big dicks are a special trait that only the best of the best super elite mega awesome best guys have.
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#122

Originally Posted by Kung Fu Grip: View Post
Reality. Thank you.

People in the dating thread, except for one poster, i forget his name, don't believe this. I think one of the main reasons im still single since forever is because of my looks. Im not a monster by any means but i can tell hardly any girls find any sexual attraction towards me. Hard to gain "confidence" with that.

No, i don't think it's impossible for me to get a girl, but it is more difficult because of my looks.
It's more difficult because you're down on yourself. That's the kind of trait that will turn women off.
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#123

Originally Posted by Kung Fu Grip: View Post
Reality. Thank you.

People in the dating thread, except for one poster, i forget his name, don't believe this. I think one of the main reasons im still single since forever is because of my looks. Im not a monster by any means but i can tell hardly any girls find any sexual attraction towards me. Hard to gain "confidence" with that.

No, i don't think it's impossible for me to get a girl, but it is more difficult because of my looks.
Your reality fucking sucks.

My condolences.
Devolution
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#124

Originally Posted by Kung Fu Grip: View Post
Reality. Thank you.

People in the dating thread, except for one poster, i forget his name, don't believe this. I think one of the main reasons im still single since forever is because of my looks. Im not a monster by any means but i can tell hardly any girls find any sexual attraction towards me. Hard to gain "confidence" with that.

No, i don't think it's impossible for me to get a girl, but it is more difficult because of my looks.
Your problem is you generalize all women as shallow and awful then expect them to want to date you. You and Izick are drains on dating-age with your lines of woe is me bullshit.
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#125

Originally Posted by NotTheGuyYouKill: View Post
I know what a handsome man looks like. I'm not afraid to admit when a dude's good looking and when he's not. Shit, all my friends are way better looking than I am, I fully admit that to them.

I like to think I'm aware enough that I don't need to be insecure.

I know when a dude's handsome and I know when it looks like a dude just got hit in the face with a shovel as a child. Motherfucker has still got serious game with the ladies though, so respect. If a dude isn't a great looker has a got a beautiful girl, good on him.
What do you think when you see a gorgeous guy and on his shoulder is a girl that isn't up to your standards? What goes through your head?
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#126

One secret I learned long ago - SOME chicks like drugs. I knew a fat ugly guy in college who always had cute girlfriends. They didn't really like him. They liked that he had steady access to cocaine.
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#127

The big dick talk is nonsense. A girl will only know you have it once you get to bed with her. That can take a couple of steps, and won't help you start dating her.

Fry has a small dick hurhurhurhur
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#128

Originally Posted by Fry8: View Post
The big dick talk is nonsense. A girl will only know you have it once you get to bed with her. That can take a couple of steps, and won't help you start dating her.

Fry has a small dick hurhurhurhur
Not unless he whipped it out right when he first met her.

It's okay if you have a small dick girls won't care it's your personality that matters be more confident in yourself
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#129

Originally Posted by Devolution: View Post
He has in Post Your Pic, OP is handsome and I assume he be trollin' since looks aren't everything in a relationship.
Yeah, that makes the most sense. Shallow people and all.
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#130

And clearly if you say that you think you're not attractive (or post it on an anonymous video game message board) then that means you say, or convey that aloud or in a visible way to others in life.

Come on now. Isn't that a bit silly? Do people know you like a graphic card more then another one, or you like some obscure anime or TV show a lot? Just because you post something doesn't mean that you ever say or convey it in real life. Oh, and don't tell me everybody can pick up on it, because everyone isn't some master poker player, and you have no idea how others act in actuality, you're just assuming based on some posts they've made.

Originally Posted by Devolution: View Post
Your problem is you generalize all women as shallow and awful then expect them to want to date you. You and Izick are drains on dating-age with your lines of woe is me bullshit.
But I don't post on there.
squidyj
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#131

Originally Posted by Fry8: View Post
The big dick talk is nonsense. A girl will only know you have it once you get to bed with her. That can take a couple of steps, and won't help you start dating her.

Fry has a small dick hurhurhurhur
If it's big enough, it's pretty obvious.

Joke post, as if it wasn't obvious (like my big dick)

Originally Posted by Izick: View Post
And clearly if you say that you think you're not attractive (or post it on an anonymous video game message board) then that means you say, or convey that aloud or in a visible way to others in life.

Come on now. Isn't that a bit silly? Do people know you like a graphic card more then another one, or you like some obscure anime or TV show a lot? Just because you post something doesn't mean that you ever say or convey it in real life. Oh, and don't tell me everybody can pick up on it, because everyone isn't some master poker player, and you have no idea how others act in actuality, you're just assuming based on some posts they've made.



But I don't post on there.
I need to stop wearing EVGA and Planetes t-shirts :(
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#132

Originally Posted by RiccochetJ: View Post
What do you think when you see a gorgeous guy and on his shoulder is a girl that isn't up to your standards? What goes through your head?
He's cheating on her and she puts up with it.

lol
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#133

It's silly to suggest that if a man is attractive, it's an instant guarantee that he'll get an attractive woman as a girlfriend. While there are unattractive men who have self-esteem issues, there are also attractive men who have self-esteem issues as well.
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Originally Posted by RiccochetJ: View Post
What do you think when you see a gorgeous guy and on his shoulder is a girl that isn't up to your standards? What goes through your head?
I don't really have standards when it comes to women. Most women where I live are pretty attractive, so I dunno. Never really thought about it.

I guess I have a type of girl that I find super-attractive, but beyond that, I hadn't really considered "average" girls with above average guys. Then again, I find most girls in my area at least somewhat attractive. Maybe I'm hypocritical in that regard?

Besides, I'm probably comparing myself to dudes, why would I compare myself to a woman?
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#135



The guy is a formula 1 manager.

>_>
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Originally Posted by Izick: View Post
And clearly if you say that you think you're not attractive (or post it on an anonymous video game message board) then that means you say, or convey that aloud or in a visible way to others in life.

Come on now. Isn't that a bit silly? Do people know you like a graphic card more then another one, or you like some obscure anime or TV show a lot? Just because you post something doesn't mean that you ever say or convey it in real life. Oh, and don't tell me everybody can pick up on it, because everyone isn't some master poker player, and you have no idea how others act in actuality, you're just assuming based on some posts they've made.



But I don't post on there.
Anymore. But what a surprise, same crap here.
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#137

Originally Posted by george_us: View Post
He's cheating on her and she puts up with it.

lol
open relationships lol.
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#138

Originally Posted by ezekial45: View Post


The guy is a formula 1 manager.

>_>
She's definitely into him for his personality.
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#139

Originally Posted by Devolution: View Post
Anymore. But what a surprise, same crap here.
Because someone brought it up, yeah no shit.
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#140

Originally Posted by ezekial45: View Post


The guy is a formula 1 manager.

>_>
He just oozes confidence. And by confidence I mean he sweats while he eats.
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#141

I know a couple "unattractive" dudes who are with hot girls. Personality ftw.

That being said, on a similar note, I don't know any ugly gay guys with hot boyfriends. Hmm..
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#142

It's definitely annoying because I'm young and selfish.
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#143

I'm honestly curious. At what point does having a gigantic dick help in wooing said girl? You can't really whip it out prior can you? If you've gotten to the point where you're taking off your clothes with her and she is doing the same, she already wants to be with you.
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#144

better than hot girl with douche bag, so i'm ok with this
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He's funny, or really smart and she's never bored with him. He challenges her mentally.
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Originally Posted by RiccochetJ: View Post
I'm honestly curious. At what point does having a gigantic dick help in wooing said girl? You can't really whip it out prior can you? If you've gotten to the point where you're taking off your clothes with her and she is doing the same, she already wants to be with you.
It's not necessarily helpful in wooing women but in retension of a woman during a relationship. That, and also, post breakup in hopes of getting with her friends. Ladies like to talk....and are curious.
RatskyWatsky
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#147

That pic of the woman and old man is setting my virus protection off every time I enter this thread. Can you remove it?
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Originally Posted by RiccochetJ: View Post
I'm honestly curious. At what point does having a gigantic dick help in wooing said girl? You can't really whip it out prior can you? If you've gotten to the point where you're taking off your clothes with her and she is doing the same, she already wants to be with you.
It doesn't. You just get lucky I guess if the dude you're into has one and it matters that much.

But even then it can be too big. Or both people can be interested in different things. Libidos can be quite different. Basically sexual compatibility is more complicated than some make it out to be.
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#149

You can't make a thread like this and have no pictures.
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Ha!! You're one of those. Don't hate, appreciate. Try to get a hot girl like that yourself. It's actually easier than you think.