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Heavy
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(09-21-2012, 12:02 AM)
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In my microbiology class there's a really attractive girl that sits on the other side of the room that I've caught looking my way on a number of occasions. This is the lab room (M/W/F lecture, thursday is lab) so we don't sit in rows. Anyway, she doesn't smile or anything but I've caught her looking a bunch of times, today's lab probably 4-5 times. Quick looks then look away or i'll look away fast cause I don't want her to think i'm looking at her too. Now if we were sitting closer and she was looking then I wouldn't have made this thread (prob shouldn't have regardless) but this is the lab, with her in the top left (pink) and me bottom right (blue), the lines indicate the eye sight angle.




I'm in my late 20s she's probably like 20 or 21 but I have a young face and look in my mid 20s (people are always surprised when i tell them how old i am). I'm tall and fat, not obese but i could lose like 20 lbs for sure. My face looks fat and i have a belly. You can kind of tell that my face would approach decent looking if i lost some weight, i also wear pretty nice clothes even to lab. Nothing super expensive, just well kept clothes that are pressed, clean, bright, and im groomed and try not to look like a bum when im outside the house.

Never had a girlfriend or anything so im a bit surprised that this is happening, assuming if it's anything at all. She's really pretty, like a legit 'hot girl'. Does this kind of eye locking mean anything? If we were sitting across from each other that's one thing but across the room like that? It seems odd. I haven't talked to her yet the semester just started on August 27 and won't be finished till the middle of December. So is this anything or what? any other tips.

Yea i know say "hi" i'll do that eventually and try to make a joke, most people laugh at my jokes in real life, tend to be sarcastic but not over-the-top sarcasm or self-deprecating. I'm always either on time exactly or late to class so i haven't had a chance to say hi before class but after class i guess it could work, probably after a lecture since we all leave at different times for the lab. I don't want to force it like make it obvious that i'm trying hard to talk to her after class, like walking fast up to her if she's ahead of me or something, I want it to look cool and natural. I can carry a conversation pretty good after that. Looked her up on facebook and she's not listed, probably has it on unsearchable.

She also wears a t-shirt jersey (just a t-shirt with a number on the back) pretty often and really short black shorts, my point is that I have a theory that girls who wear this kind of dressed down attire tend to have a boyfriends much more often than girls who wear something stylish, have make-up, jewelry, etc. So she might have a bf, or maybe not, who knows.
peterb0y
(09-21-2012, 12:03 AM)
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Wow
AkuMifune
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(09-21-2012, 12:04 AM)
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Aside from the 9 other people in that line of sight she could be looking at...but go for it anyway!
Grakl
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(09-21-2012, 12:04 AM)
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Uh, you said it yourself. Just talk to her. Doesn't really matter if this look or whatever means anything it doesn't, just go for it.

This is like that bending over thread.
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lethial
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(09-21-2012, 12:04 AM)
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Virgin alert.
onlyindreams
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(09-21-2012, 12:04 AM)
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did u srsly make a diagram wow
leng jai
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(09-21-2012, 12:04 AM)
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Is that you in your avatar?
shagg_187
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(09-21-2012, 12:04 AM)
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Oh boy...
Malvolio
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(09-21-2012, 12:05 AM)
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If you had put as much effort into talking to her as you did this post...
Satyamdas
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(09-21-2012, 12:05 AM)
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She totally wants your junk, dude. Go for it!
Alucrid
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(09-21-2012, 12:05 AM)
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You should probably focus on your lab work bro. Also in my lab we had to wear long pants so I say this is a lie.
John Rabbit
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(09-21-2012, 12:05 AM)
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Originally Posted by Heavy

I'm in my late 20s

just felt like quoting this.
Cagey
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(09-21-2012, 12:05 AM)
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Originally Posted by Malvolio

If you had put as much effort into talking to her as you did this post...

...he'd be right back here posting "so I talked to this girl who was looking at me in class"
Pastry
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(09-21-2012, 12:05 AM)
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Show her the diagram.
TheChewyWaffles
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(09-21-2012, 12:05 AM)
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She's looking at the clock behind you.
strafer
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(09-21-2012, 12:06 AM)
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She wants you.
Skeyser
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(09-21-2012, 12:06 AM)
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grow some balls and talk to her
Clydefrog
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(09-21-2012, 12:06 AM)
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You can do it, OP.
Scullibundo
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(09-21-2012, 12:06 AM)
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Walk over to her lab desk and say 'I couldn't help but notice you were staring in my direction. Can I buy you a drink?'
Stridone
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(09-21-2012, 12:06 AM)
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Show her this thread.
Lionel Mandrake
(09-21-2012, 12:06 AM)
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Originally Posted by Heavy

She also wears a t-shirt jersey (just a t-shirt with a number on the back) pretty often and really short black shorts, my point is that I have a theory that girls who wear this kind of dressed down attire tend to have a boyfriends much more often than girls who wear something stylish, have make-up, jewelry, etc. So she might have a bf, or maybe not, who knows.

Ah yes. The Heavy Dressdown Boyfriend equation.
CheesecakeRecipe
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(09-21-2012, 12:06 AM)
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Get off the GAF, and on the girl!
The Anti-Monitor
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(09-21-2012, 12:06 AM)

Originally Posted by Heavy

Does this kind of eye locking mean anything?



If I were you, I'd give her the head of a cat.
Alebrije
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(09-21-2012, 12:07 AM)
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After seen your draw , there is just one question :

Do you own her money???
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sp3000
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(09-21-2012, 12:07 AM)

Originally Posted by Heavy


She also wears a t-shirt jersey (just a t-shirt with a number on the back) pretty often and really short black shorts, my point is that I have a theory that girls who wear this kind of dressed down attire tend to have a boyfriends much more often than girls who wear something stylish, have make-up, jewelry, etc. So she might have a bf, or maybe not, who knows.

Brilliant theory
Heavy
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(09-21-2012, 12:07 AM)
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Originally Posted by AkuMifune

Aside from the 9 other people in that line of sight she could be looking at...but go for it anyway!

Figured someone would ask this, no it's 100% definitely me. There is no one behind me and my lab partner who sits to the left of me is a girl and the two in front are also girls.
jon bones
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(09-21-2012, 12:07 AM)
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too many threads created in the 'gaming forum' for this to be an elaborate ruse.

gonna save you a lot of trouble: go talk to her.

if it doesn't work out, keep being awesome at life until another girl gives you an indication that she'd like you to talk to her. repeat.
Czigga
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(09-21-2012, 12:07 AM)
I appreciate the Paint drawing. I was having a hard time picturing 'girl looking at me' in my head.
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Az987
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(09-21-2012, 12:07 AM)
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What does she look like?

Can you draw us a picture?
mre
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(09-21-2012, 12:07 AM)
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Oh, man. I don't know. If she wasn't looking at you and you go up and talk to her anyway you might accidentally make a friend. I'm not sure I'd risk that.
Sora_N
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(09-21-2012, 12:08 AM)
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Doesn't hurt to say hi, maybe?
Konosuke
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(09-21-2012, 12:08 AM)
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Dooo ittttttt! I love how the blue lines converge at the center of her. you are looking at her boobies, right?
cheststrongwell
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(09-21-2012, 12:08 AM)
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Stalk her. I hear girls like that.
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(09-21-2012, 12:08 AM)
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Originally Posted by Scullibundo

Walk over to her lab desk and say 'I couldn't help but notice you were staring in my direction. Can I buy you a drink?'

I really hope for his sake that he didn't post this thread during the class in question... mostly because of the image.
Nori Chan
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(09-21-2012, 12:08 AM)
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Wink at her heavy.

And then she'll wink back.

Then talk to her after class saying you had something in your eye and it wasn't a wink. Then she would be like oh......and then you made her sad and you'll lose your chance with her. Then you'll make a new thread on gaf saying you fucked up by listening to me.
Anteater
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(09-21-2012, 12:08 AM)
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Maybe she heard some rumors about you

Not sure what it is
Aurongel
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(09-21-2012, 12:09 AM)
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That diagram, that diagram...
evil solrac v3.0
(09-21-2012, 12:09 AM)
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Originally Posted by Scullibundo

Walk over to her lab desk and say 'I couldn't help but notice you were staring in my direction. Can I buy you a drink?'

not gonna happen.
TangMeng
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(09-21-2012, 12:09 AM)
Next time you catch her staring just stare back. If she doesn't freak out she totally wants your D dude!
panda21
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(09-21-2012, 12:09 AM)
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Is your teacher giant or what?
Skeyser
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(09-21-2012, 12:09 AM)
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Originally Posted by Az987

What does she look like?

Can you draw us a picture?



C'mon it was in the OP.
default two
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(09-21-2012, 12:09 AM)
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I stopped reading a few sentences after the picture, I'm sorry. Ask her out or not, but this story is boring.
Devolution
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(09-21-2012, 12:10 AM)

hmmm
GQman2121
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(09-21-2012, 12:10 AM)
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"Hello, my name is _______. Would you like to get a drink after class?"

And then you shut up and let her tell you what it's going to take to fuck her.
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(09-21-2012, 12:10 AM)
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Write a note that says you like her, then turn it into a paper airplane and throw it at her
Wes
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(09-21-2012, 12:10 AM)
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Never trust a girl with lasers coming from her head.

Originally Posted by Devolution

hmmm

That is inspired.
GrayFoxPL
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(09-21-2012, 12:10 AM)
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I'll be observing this thread with utmost interest.

Shadybiz
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(09-21-2012, 12:10 AM)
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Good lord, it's college. One day when you don't have anything to do after class, strike up some small talk, and if it goes well, then next time, ask her if she wants to get a cup of coffee (I am assuming there is some type of shop on campus). Both you know and she knows that "coffee" isn't exactly what you're looking for, but that's okay.

It's like my old therapist said when I was young and didn't talk to many girls: "You throw enough shit against the wall, and eventually, something's gonna stick." Not elegant, I know, but the man had a point.
Alucrid
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(09-21-2012, 12:10 AM)
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Originally Posted by panda21

Is your teacher giant or what?

why are they on top of the lab tables?

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