The much talked about "Obsidian writing" felt so overwrought and preachy in this game it started to become a joke to me. I would intentionally take the opposing side of every character just to see how much holier-than-thou dialog I could get them to shout about.
Me - "Yeah, I went to war and felt good about it, so what Jedi lady?"
Jedi Lady - "NOOOO! War is BAD and we are good and you are bad, blah blah blah"
Me - "Yeah, I gave that pan-handler 5 credits, so what?"
Old lady (totally not going to end up being the villain) companion - "NOOOO! Giving handouts is BAD because he will get mugged and nothing good ever happens to anyone ever because life is bad, blah blah blah.
who the fuck is 'jedi lady'
atris? she's supposed to be a holier-than-thou hypocrite that's literally the entire point of her character from the moment she opens her mouth. and kreia is straight up supposed to be the same, except she realizes that she's a hypocrite in her beliefs and actions. there was a point where atris and kreia actually had exchangeable roles in terms of the finale. there isn't a single character in the game who really has a 'right' point of view and that's the whole theme of the game, that the whole light/dark side schtick is stupid.
there's really no 'preaching' going on in the game besides characters stating their viewpoints, of which you're completely free to disagree with. you can actually get to the full trust points disagreeing with all the characters' philosophies 'cuz they'll respect and examine your character's beliefs as long as you aren't just being a petty moron. the exception to this is kreia because she is stone set in her ways. she wants to be sucked up to because she is trying to manipulate you for her own uses.
i can't give fault to folks for their tastes but please at least understand what you're criticizing before doing so
this next part isn't aimed at you i just really enjoy kotor 2's overall concept. though the execution was questionable due to whatever reasons
kreia is really blatantly supposed to be the villain. like it's straight up telegraphed in the tutorial and if you've been talking to her she straight up tells you that she's going to be the final boss like midway through the game. the whole point of her being in your party from the start is so that you can understand her philosophy of how the force existing at all is mad fucked 'cuz having an unknown and ambiguous 'force' manipulating everyone is really not cool, especially given that it's been at the center of not one, but two separate giant galaxy-wrecking wars that she lived through. but it is 100% in your self interest, regardless of 'light or dark' to stop her because her plan will kill you. and an infinitely large unknown number of others at a minimum if you care about them (and you don't have to, at all!)
also i love, love, love the final talk between your char and kreia where you can ask if there's some big plot twist or some shit and she's just like 'of course not, what were you expecting? i told you what i was gonna do and now i'm doing it. you're you and i'm me, now let's throw down'
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also TOR is wrooooong as a continuation of KOTOR 2, which is fine i guess since it's more of a continuation of the original KOTOR's deal supposedly
but in KOTOR 2 most of the journey is kreia using you to wipe out every single faction that defines the force in terms of 'light or dark', effectively eliminating that 'balance of the force' concept as a whole.
ughhh kotor 2 is so dang good