Imagine youre a mostly average guy who needs to buy some jeans. So you go into the store of a company thats known to make high-quality jeans, because you want to spend your money on quality things.
You go in and look for jeans in your size, but they dont seem to have any. You think of yourself as average  most guys you know are about your height and build  but according to this store, youre not. They dont seem to have anything on the shelf that fits you. You look around the store and suddenly you notice all the posters of young shirtless men wearing the companys jeans, their zippers open to reveal just a hint of junk with no underwear. This is not what you look like, and you suddenly feel a little self-conscious.
So you ask the sales clerk about it. She barely gives you any acknowledgement and dismisses your question. We dont carry that size because it doesnt sell, she says. But that cant be right, you think. Most of the guys you know are built like you. Surely theres a lot of guys out there whod love to buy these well-made jeans? The salesclerk looks you up and down, then looks at the posters on the wall with a lascivious smile. Sorry, dude, she says, but thats what the ladies want to see. Cant help it if you dont look like that.
You walk out of the store feeling a little annoyed, maybe even angry. These are well-made jeans, and you want to spend your money on quality goods. You have money to spend, and you know a lot of other guys who do, too, and would gladly buy some jeans from this company. And you cant really believe the blatantly derogatory response you got from the salesclerk.
You look online at other options and theres really not much to choose from at all. So you go online and vent a little. Why doesnt this company make jeans in my size? Why do I have to look like the guys on the posters there to own quality pants? You write.
Within minutes, you get some responses.
Um, why dont you go fucking make your own jeans?
Shut up and make jeans.
No ones stopping you from making the jeans you want. And if people like them, theyll sell, problem solved.
Well, thats kind of a weird response, you think. I mean, sure you could go out and buy a sewing machine and learn to use it, and buy a bunch of fabric and a bunch of books on how to sew and eventually  years from now, because you already have a job  make your own, and some people would surely choose to do that. But thats not the point, is it? The point is that youre a potential customer of this company and they dont seem interested in your business for some reason. They make well-made jeans, and you want to buy jeans. If you could just show them that you have money
So every company is supposed to cater to your whims now? I guess theyre supposed to stop making the jeans I like and only make jeans YOU like now?
You and your social justice friends just want to censor the jeans Im buying.
Wait, what? How does that even make sense? You think. Why cant the company just make jeans for lots of different types of people? I mean, censorship? Really? They wouldnt stop making the jeans theyre already making, theyd just make MORE kinds
Sorry, buddy, but thats just business. Thats what sells. Guess it sucks that youre a fat loser.
Whoa, why is this suddenly getting personal? Youre instantly reminded of how it felt when the salesclerk looked you up and down like meat and decided that you werent attractive enough for their product.
Fuck you and your jeans agenda. I hope you get raped and your throat slashed.
I hope your wife and kids get murdered while you watch.
WHAT?! I just want to buy some GOOD QUALITY FUCKING JEANS, you reply. What is the fucking problem with this? Why is it SO HARD to understand this concept?! Why is this so personal? Its JUST JEANS. I want MORE KINDS of jeans, NOT LESS. JESUS CHRIST, WHAT IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE?!
And then: You know, if you werent so angry, maybe people would listen to you.
You pick up your computer and smash it against the wall and swear off wearing jeans ever again.
Sounds ridiculous? This is what people of color, women, and those who are LGBTQ who enjoy games go through all the time when they dare to say one word of commentary about what they want to spend their money on.
https://medium.com/@hellchick/a-story-not-about-jeans-59255db8cb5e