Yeah, I think it's sad that many transwomen who identify as transwomen get mistaken for or treated like crossdressers who identify as men. Or genderqueer people are also sometimes treated as a gender they're not.
I want to look like a tropical princess, too. That flower in their hair is so pretty!
I still get hostility from trans women, and I resist mentioning my status around trans women because they often seem pretty angry towards crossdressers.I'll be honest, I used to have a problem with TVs and CDs when I was first starting out, but that was because I was coming from a position of ignorance, and I felt resentment at possibly being 'lumped' in with folks who had/have no intention of changing their gender. It was only through greater experience socialising with different types of people that I came to realise I was being unfair. One of the greatest strengths of exploring or confounding gender norms is the huge diversity it brings up, and I feel I grew a lot in the early stages if transition from it.
Honestly as a 6'3" crossdresser I feel pretty much like the world would prefer I didn't exist. I'm glad that I've had some support from friends recently, but I'd never go public with it.
I'm a 5'10" cis woman so I know what a nuisance it can be finding clothes and shoes that fit well. I've got a good list of reliable stores though - some of which cater to women considerably taller than me.
Would that be helpful to anyone?
YES.
(6'2" transwoman here)
Cool, shall do it when I get home from work this evening!
I'll be honest, I used to have a problem with TVs and CDs when I was first starting out, but that was because I was coming from a position of ignorance, and I felt resentment at possibly being 'lumped' in with folks who had/have no intention of changing their gender. It was only through greater experience socialising with different types of people that I came to realise I was being unfair. One of the greatest strengths of exploring or confounding gender norms is the huge diversity it brings up, and I feel I grew a lot in the early stages if transition from it.
It still bothers me that I do get misgendered by ignorant folk who sometimes think I'm crossdressing or genderfluid, but then I just have to remind myself that some people aren't coming at it from a malicious angle. They're just ignorant in the way that I once was. The people who treat it like a spiteful game and that they've 'found you out' can jump off a bridge though.
I'm a 6'4" Transwoman. lol
And I totally have no problems with CD's.
Luckily I can still buy all my clothes and shoes in normal stores.
I .... don't know how that metric system works =P
Anyone have a calculator ?
The US always behind!
6'4" is really tall, 5'10" is taller than normal but not too tall. Anything above 6 is definitely very tall people.
My reference is my own height 5'11" = 1.80m more or less.
Cillian Murphy in "Breakfast on Pluto"-lots of links-
Phew! Now I've got to go and do other important things, like make dinner and sleep.[/quote]
Thank you for all the long and very resourceful post! :D (Even though I'm the smallest person probably in here but I appreciate the gesture towards all the other people who can use these links and recommendations.)[/QUOTE]
[quote="Abe Bly, post: 130622300"]Felt cute this morning, but I have to change and go to work soon.[/QUOTE]
Cute skirt, Abe Bly! :3
Oh, and because I just found a list of male and female actors playing the opposite gender I saw Cillian Murphy and Johnny Depp mentioned. After that I just had to search for 15 minutes around the internet and came up with some very cute photos of scenes or photos of the actors in the costume (not on set)
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Johnny Depp in "Before Night Falls".
Johnny Depp in "21 Jump Street"
I'm 5'6, too. I kind of wish I was shorter, but I feel lucky. Because I could be much taller.I'm 5'6,8" (1,73m). On par in size with most girls here. 😺
What size are your feet?I'm 5'6, too. I kind of wish I was shorter, but I feel lucky. Because I could be much taller.
If only my feet were smaller.
I wear a 10 in men's. It's terrible. ;_;What size are your feet?
Very interesting, thank you for sharing!Thought this thread might enjoy the following article:
I wear a 10 in men's. It's terrible. ;_;
My feet are big for my height. And I always have to get the biggest women's shoes. I didn't want to say how big my feet are because I'm embarrassed about it and it makes me feel uncute.
As soon as someone invents a safe surgery to get smaller feet, I'm getting one.
That was a really nice article. I didn't know before that children camps like this exist.Thought this thread might enjoy the following article:
http://www.slate.com/blogs/behold/20...ys_photos.html
Thought this thread might enjoy the following article:
http://www.slate.com/blogs/behold/2...ender_nonconforming_camp_for_boys_photos.html
Although it is unknown if the kids at the camp will eventually identify as gay or transgenderor even if the way gender and sexuality are defined throughout society will evolvethe camp allows the kids to look at themselves in a completely different way.
I find it quirky that this style of garment is referred to as a "boy short panty" considering as a "boy" I cannot purchase an analagous item designed for my equipment. I have also never known a couple who would have such a physical imbalance that would cause that appearance if they switched undergarments, but alas. Chalk it up to another glitch in the system. So I make do with these slinky things layered over an appropriately designed thong of matching color. Also a good combo under a tutu. I just got my new black one today! It's so beautiful ;_;
Abe Bly's pic reminds me of why people should accept crossdressing more, guys often have great bodies for it so why waste it.
Like, not in a bragging way, but I'd get comments on my legs from women who seemed surprise skinny men could have good legs too.
Cute skirt, Abe Bly! :3
Thought this thread might enjoy the following article:
http://www.slate.com/blogs/behold/2...ender_nonconforming_camp_for_boys_photos.html
I wear a 10 in men's. It's terrible. ;_;
My feet are big for my height. And I always have to get the biggest women's shoes. I didn't want to say how big my feet are because I'm embarrassed about it and it makes me feel uncute.
As soon as someone invents a safe surgery to get smaller feet, I'm getting one.
SUBBED the fuck outta this bitch.
Raja is Qween, and I honestly think Willam is one of the best entertainers that show biz overall has.
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On the shoes thing, I'm on the size 8 so about the edge of available ones, but unless you're outside much, I go for there's better things to spend the money on than shoes... not practical things, but still. Just me, though.
Thank you.Awww, that's not good. But surgery? Well, I guess if you have the money and a surgeon that you think you can trust, go for it. If you don't feel good as you are now, maybe drastic changes are what you need to give you some selfesteem, some confidence.
You are really limited in your clothing choices if you are going by the standards of what the general society thinks is acceptable. I say, do what you want as long as you feel good and it doesn't harm anyone.Thanks, both!
It's true, I wish cross dressing were more accepted. Or maybe I just wish that male clothing could be more expressive. About the most I can do and still be accepted is wear a graphic tee or some bright pants.
Health should always be a thought on the forefront. Don't rush things.Thank you.
Unfortunately, right now, from what I know, it seems like the technology isn't quite there yet. But hopefully it will be someday.
I'm going to have to do a lot of research and I've decided to take my time. The problem with those is that you'd have to mess with your bones n' stuff. And that's harder than a lot of other things. And is kind of risky. And you'd have to find really good doctors who know what they're doing, and would be willing to do it. It's like normal cosmetic surgery, but even riskier and you have to find the right doctors or cosmetic people.
And it would be very very expensive. So I've decided that I should take things step by step and study what to do. As much as I want to be more feminine so much, the most important thing to me is to be healthy.
I'm always trying to transform my body into a healthier one. And the healthiest body it can be.
My health is of course the most important thing to me. I love living and every second is very special to me. So the last thing I would do is anything that would be risky.
So if there's any surgery that would make me feel more feminine, as much as I'd like to be more feminine, if it's too risky I can wait.
I'm UK size 12, which is even bigger in US sizes. Sucks for mens shoes, let alone lady shoes. My 3" heels take me past 6'6" (!) Being 2m tall limits my acceptability.I wear a 10 in men's. It's terrible. ;_;
Feel free to do just that. It's not my size but someone else might be interested.I've outgrown a lot of my girl stuff due to getting a bit tubby. I might list a bunch of stuff on eBay soon if anyone is interested (in the UK). It'll be stuff around the size 14/16 mark.
As what character are you planning to go the as?Thanks for the best wishes! Looking back at my test photos I'm starting to worry about my figure, but I'm sure that worry will disappear once I have my make-up on. A few of my friends might be coming along to that! :3
I've also decided to do crossplay one day of an upcoming comic/anime event.
As what character are you planning to go the as?
Aren't those the kind of uniforms you'd see worn by school girls in Manga and Anime? They are indeed cute, the clothes I mean. Hope you have luck in finding a skirt your size.
I'm thinking 'sukeban' style, which is like a female Bancho, tough girl in sailor suit with long skirt!
I just need to find somewhere on eBay that will make something in my size. The long skirt is proving the hard part.