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Is she playing with me?

008

Banned
Why are we ruling out the possibility that OP just wants to get laid by a Hot Sexy Catalonian Mamacita? I know I would if I wasn't living under the accountability of the Abrahmic God
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I think she's married

OP is a loser
 

008

Banned
So, a year ago I entered this job and one of my co-workers was this beautiful dark haired milf (she's 46). Months passed by and we barely knew each other, we talked from time to time but nothing out of the extraordinary, just the typical chit chat that goes nowhere. But then one day she came to me and she told me: I dreamt of you last night; you were so romantic, you invited me to dinner and then we went to a hotel.

For being honest, the first months I didn't paid much attention to her, I noticed that she was cute but that's about it, I didn't even thought of her in a sexual or romantical way (she's older than me and I have always been attracted to far more younger girls, she wasn't in my radar at all). But after she told me about her dream, she started to talk more with me and I started to develop more interest for her. Not only is she beautiful, but she has this funny and cheerful personality, she is really fun to be around but at the same time has this concealed vulnerability and inestability.

Oh, I almost forgot it to say it: she's married. She's been married for 13 years with an old, fat & bald dude that doesn't suit her at all (it's not me saying this, other co-workers said the same). She told me the story of his life and how when she was young, the love of his life break up with her, but not only that, he also leaved her with a lot of debts to pay. So as she literally told me: I had to live, so I went with this man that helped me to pay the debts.

She also told me that her family was pretty cruel to her when she was little. Her father told the family that she wasn't her daughter because she had lighter hair when she was little. She also told me how her mother sent her to the neighbour's house and how the old man there forced her, and how her mother keep sending her there despite the fact that she told her what happened.

That day, when we were alone, I hugged her.

I'm very smart, but at the same time, I'm very naive and innocent. Still, I know that some women like to invent storties just to appear more vulnerable and in need of protection, it's their way to atract the male, I guess. But anyway, at first I just believed everything she shaid, she was a person opening her heart to me, why should I doubt her story? But of course, other (female) co-workers had her own opinions on her and they weren't good, and those persons knew her since years and years ago.

They planted the doubts in my head and I started to notice some behaviour I don't like. Her, being the energetic and cheerful person she is, it's kind of a flirty woman who loves to test his charms. We are both from Catalonia, we share the mediterranean culture, we are pretty open people and we like to laugh and all that, but still, I just don't like how flirty she is.

One day, another female co-worker who is much younger (19) and is also super cute and THICC with this enourmous tits, asked me to go with her and spent the evening together. We obviously have a work whatsapp group and we shared the photos together on it. And while I was with this super hot young girl, my brain was constantly thinking of my dark haired milf. The young THICC redhead, by the end of our ¿date?, was visibly dissapointed in my lack of interest on her. At one moment, she asked me: what do you see in her?

Next day, when I entered the work, I was in the men's locker room all alone and I heard someone knocking on the door. I opened and the dark haired milf was there, smiling. She came in moving her body like a black cat, closed the door behind her and gave me our first kiss. I was in heaven and I kissed her back, and after a little while I went out of the locker room and then the young THICC girl noticed that I had lipstick on my mouth.

Also, seems like somebody saw the dark haired milf entering the men's locker room and they knew It was only me there. So the scandal and the gossip begun and she wasn't happy about it; she's married, after all. So she told me that we shouldn't do any kind of love demonstrations while we are at work. To protect us.

And again, she is very open, very fun and very flirty; and I'm seeing how other men approach her and ask her out like literally every day, and I can't do nothing about it. First, because she is married to someone else, but also because we are at work and I can't make a scene about how much I love her.

And at this point I'm questioning myself: why does she has to be so flirty? An hour ago she showed me a whatsapp conversation she had with another dude that made her angry. That dude, at the end of the conversation, told her: that's why you're so hot, damn.

And I was like: why is she showing me this? To make me jealous on purpose? Why does she has to have so many suitors? It has to be because she is so flirty, she craves that type of attention (Yes, I'm very jealous).

So she told me that when she was young, she would fuck with dudes and then she would sneak out in the middle of the night before they woke up. She's like a fucking Chad.

So here I am, questioning myself If I can trust her, questioning myself if she is only using me. Questioning myself if the love I have for her is going to bring me something good or I'm just destined to suffer.

By the way, I have a date with her this next Monday.

Hey loser

Give us an update on time spent chatting with a married woman.
 

DESTROYA

Member
is there really more to tell, did you not do the reasonably wise thing and break it off immediately

bruhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
If he’s still thinking about it .......no chance.
Thinking about it for more than a minute or two is all you need to know.
 

John Day

Member
Don’t take this “relationship” seriously because it isn’t. Get laid and enjoy it if you incline yourself to do so, cause that’s what she seems to be aiming at. Because she’s married and all that.

So don’t fall in love dummy.

Also, she went straight to you after you went out with the redhead cause she probably saw those pica in the work chat and she thought “woah i may lose my toyboy”.

That is all. If i were you, i’d gone for the redhead instead, less drama and all that. But you be you.
 
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SLoWMoTIoN

Unconfirmed Member
Don’t take this “relationship” seriously because it isn’t. Get laid and enjoy it if you incline yourself to do so, cause that’s what she seems to be aiming at. Because she’s married and all that.

So don’t fall in love dummy.

Also, she went straight to you after you went out with the redhead cause she probably saw those pica in the work chat and she thought “woah i may lose my toyboy”.

That is all. If i were you, i’d gone for the redhead instead, less drama and all that. But you be you.
No redheads are also evil and they eat the forbidden vegetable cilantro.
 

Thurible

Member
This is one of the most disgusting threads I have ever had the displeasure of reading. Dating married women, using descriptors like "MILF" "thicc" and speaking about her "t*ts", some commenters encouraging promiscuity and "free sex", etc. I don't even know how someone gets into the headspace where they can rationalize this sort of depravity. This is just sick.
 
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SLoWMoTIoN

Unconfirmed Member
This is one of the most disgusting threads I have ever had the displeasure of reading. Dating married women, using descriptors like "MILF" "thicc" and speaking about her "t*ts", some commenters encouraging promiscuity and "free sex", etc. I don't even know how someone gets into the headspace where they can rationalize this sort of depravity. This is just sick.
They are probably men that aren't married. Free men.
 

Northeastmonk

Gold Member
This is one of the most disgusting threads I have ever had the displeasure of reading. Dating married women, using descriptors like "MILF" "thicc" and speaking about her "t*ts", some commenters encouraging promiscuity and "free sex", etc. I don't even know how someone gets into the headspace where they can rationalize this sort of depravity. This is just sick.

That’s obvious if you ask me, but the world we live in fascinates about naked teenagers, screwing family members, and having orgies. Ive met a few swingers. People are sexual beings and making the right decision is up to them. I hate to lose hope, but at the end of the day you’re only responsible for yourself.
 

Punished Miku

Gold Member
This is one of the most disgusting threads I have ever had the displeasure of reading. Dating married women, using descriptors like "MILF" "thicc" and speaking about her "t*ts", some commenters encouraging promiscuity and "free sex", etc. I don't even know how someone gets into the headspace where they can rationalize this sort of depravity. This is just sick.
Pearl clutching bullshit honestly. This is the conservative version of a snowflake.

If two people decide to get married, those two people make a solemn vow. If those two people make that vow to each other and decide to break it or not, that's something. You know who didn't make a solemn vow to those two people? Everyone else on planet Earth. No one else gives a fuck about your marriage. If your wife is so unsatisfied that she is looking to cheat on you, then take it up with her, the one who swore to promise herself to you.

Instead, you want all of society to tip toe around your marriage and ignore an opportunity to have consensual sex because you can't keep your own wife happy. It's honestly kind of ridiculous. This OP is about to get laid, with a woman who wants it.

This board is funny sometimes. It's a proudly amoral free speech zone until you tread on one of the conservative snowflake issues, and then you see outrage come up from the woodwork and it's honestly hilarious. Fix your own damn marriage. No one else owes you shit.

Only thing OP should worry about is repercussions at work. A married woman is not someone's property. If she's fucking someone else she is not that into you.
 
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That’s obvious if you ask me, but the world we live in fascinates about naked teenagers, screwing family members, and having orgies. Ive met a few swingers. People are sexual beings and making the right decision is up to them. I hate to lose hope, but at the end of the day you’re only responsible for yourself.
I feel like cheating has run rampant in western society. I have read articles empowering women who cheat on their husbands/boyfriends disgusting stuff
 
Pearl clutching bullshit honestly. This is the conservative version of a snowflake.

If two people decide to get married, those two people make a solemn vow. If those two people make that vow to each other and decide to break it or not, that's something. You know who didn't make a solemn vow to those two people? Everyone else on planet Earth. No one else gives a fuck about your marriage. If your wife is so unsatisfied that she is looking to cheat on you, then take it up with her, the one who swore to promise herself to you.

Instead, you want all of society to tip toe around your marriage and ignore an opportunity to have consensual sex because you can't keep your own wife happy. It's honestly kind of ridiculous. This OP is about to get laid, with a woman who wants it.

This board is funny sometimes. It's a proudly amoral free speech zone until you tread on one of the conservative snowflake issues, and then you see outrage come up from the woodwork and it's honestly hilarious. Fix your own damn marriage. No one else owes you shit.

Only thing OP should worry about is repercussions at work. A married woman is not someone's property. If she's fucking someone else she is not that into you.
Right because it’s always the mans fault that she in unhappy. What is the point of even being in a committed relationship if it’s perceived that it’s ok to betray someone’s trust and fuck whomever you want simply because you are “bored” or unhappy? Guess what that, is what ending the relationship is for. You want to fuck random people fine. But you better let your partner know you ain’t down for a monogamous relationship. Getting involved in another person’s relationship says a lot about you and how little you value honesty and respect of the other human being.
 
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Punished Miku

Gold Member
Right because it’s always the mans fault that she in unhappy. What is the point of even being in a committed relationship if it’s perceived that it’s ok to betray someone’s trust and fuck whomever you want simply because you are “bored” or unhappy? Guess what that, is what ending the relationship is for. You want to fuck random people fine. But you better let your partner know you ain’t down for a monogamous relationship.
I don't cheat. I'm just saying, who makes the vow? Two specific people. You know who didn't make any vow at all? The OP.

Everyone expects all of planet earth to follow your marriage vows. It's a fairy tale.

If your partner breaks their vows, then sure, hold your partner accountable.
 
I don't cheat. I'm just saying, who makes the vow? Two specific people. You know who didn't make any vow at all? The OP.

Everyone expects all of planet earth to follow your marriage vows. It's a fairy tale.

If your partner breaks their vows, then sure, hold your partner accountable.
I think if you get involved with other people’s relationship especially when they are married and have kids it says a lot about your lack of respect for that human being and the kids involved.
 

Punished Miku

Gold Member
Op shouldn’t even be involved in this because she has already shown she manipulates other men. This is a toxic woman that you want to stay far away from.
I agree with that. No idea why he doesn't go after that redhead!

I'm just saying, this thread is devolving into a conservative snowflake wankfest. Calling the thread "disgusting" is funny to me. It's the kind of moral posturing I'd see on REEE. I think it's silly to expect complete strangers to uphold the values of your marriage more than your own wife does. Hold your own partner accountable, the one who actually made a vow. Taking all your anger out on a complete stranger is funny to me, and seems like a holdover of some ancient "women as property" mindset, instead of just addressing your cheating partner directly.
 

Northeastmonk

Gold Member
I feel like cheating has run rampant in western society. I have read articles empowering women who cheat on their husbands/boyfriends disgusting stuff
Yeah. I know a married couple who hired a prostitute to sleep with the husband on his birthday. He got an STD and gave it to his wife. She use to hang out in the living room while he screwed someone in the back room.
 

nush

Member
This is one of the most disgusting threads I have ever had the displeasure of reading. Dating married women, using descriptors like "MILF" "thicc" and speaking about her "t*ts", some commenters encouraging promiscuity and "free sex", etc. I don't even know how someone gets into the headspace where they can rationalize this sort of depravity. This is just sick.

Do you cry with shame and ask Jebus for forgiveness every time after you've jerked off?
 

Thurible

Member
Pearl clutching bullshit honestly. This is the conservative version of a snowflake.

If two people decide to get married, those two people make a solemn vow. If those two people make that vow to each other and decide to break it or not, that's something. You know who didn't make a solemn vow to those two people? Everyone else on planet Earth. No one else gives a fuck about your marriage. If your wife is so unsatisfied that she is looking to cheat on you, then take it up with her, the one who swore to promise herself to you.

Instead, you want all of society to tip toe around your marriage and ignore an opportunity to have consensual sex because you can't keep your own wife happy. It's honestly kind of ridiculous. This OP is about to get laid, with a woman who wants it.

This board is funny sometimes. It's a proudly amoral free speech zone until you tread on one of the conservative snowflake issues, and then you see outrage come up from the woodwork and it's honestly hilarious. Fix your own damn marriage. No one else owes you shit.

Only thing OP should worry about is repercussions at work. A married woman is not someone's property. If she's fucking someone else she is not that into you.
It's not "pearl clutching" to be disgusted with someone who commits adultery. OP wants to break up a marriage for f%#&'s sake. There are multiple parties involved namely the husband and children (he did call her a "milf"). Would you like it if your wife decided to abandon you for another? Vows should be taken seriously and just because someone is having a bad time right now in their marriage doesn't give them the right to have relations with whomever they please.

Do you cry with shame and ask Jebus for forgiveness every time after you've jerked off?
What the heck is this supposed to mean? Who says I "jerk off" and what does this have to do with adultery?
 

Tesseract

Banned
Pearl clutching bullshit honestly. This is the conservative version of a snowflake.

If two people decide to get married, those two people make a solemn vow. If those two people make that vow to each other and decide to break it or not, that's something. You know who didn't make a solemn vow to those two people? Everyone else on planet Earth. No one else gives a fuck about your marriage. If your wife is so unsatisfied that she is looking to cheat on you, then take it up with her, the one who swore to promise herself to you.

Instead, you want all of society to tip toe around your marriage and ignore an opportunity to have consensual sex because you can't keep your own wife happy. It's honestly kind of ridiculous. This OP is about to get laid, with a woman who wants it.

This board is funny sometimes. It's a proudly amoral free speech zone until you tread on one of the conservative snowflake issues, and then you see outrage come up from the woodwork and it's honestly hilarious. Fix your own damn marriage. No one else owes you shit.

Only thing OP should worry about is repercussions at work. A married woman is not someone's property. If she's fucking someone else she is not that into you.

not sure i understand what yer saying here, it's clear he's making a shit play with all the information at his fingertips

good men don't fuck married women, it's not that complicated
 
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Weilthain

Banned
If your woman is sleeping around then you are living a lie anyway so protecting a guy from his whore wife doesn’t really make sense to me.

not that I would ever get involved but the husband would be better of finding out. Would save him a life of misery.
 

nush

Member
Raise the signal to noise ratio and not personally attack other users in this juvenile manner.
What the heck is this supposed to mean? Who says I "jerk off" and what does this have to do with adultery?

Hey guys we've found that one guy on GAF who never ever touches his pee pee for fun.
 
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