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Women's sexual fantasies less depraved than men's

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Switters

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Twisted? How is someone being with a blind or deaf twisted?

I don't suppose it is.

Probably twisted if the person is only interested in people with these features for purely sexual purposes. As a fetish.

Not even that, really. It's not a power thing. I guess if I would have to define it, it would be about being with someone with a completely alien perspective of the world from mine. I find that extremely attractive for some reason.

I also fantasize that I'm Alfred Pennyworth and I take care of Batman. Not in a sexual way, but that I care so very much about him.
 

Switters

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This is also a pretty common kink among fanfic writers, known as hurt/comfort (or care). So you don't feel like you are the only one :)

Huh, whattya know.

Why are you using fanfiction as the metric to know fantasies.

I believe you mean known fantasies. Which would make more sense as fanfic is hardly the go to source when explaining absolutely anything. Though I'm sure the more prolific fanfic writers concoct wholly unique fantasies on a regular basis. So maybe there is a metric there after all.
Who would have thought an inflated Sonic in a shitty diaper would get someone aroused?
 

gurudyne

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Who would have thought an inflated Sonic in a shitty diaper would get someone aroused?

Big-Beautiful-Furry infantilist fecaphilia? Yup yup. You want to get really weird, throw him in an argyle sweater on a golf course. It's always the mundane things that surprise me more than the "straight up" fetishes, and they seem just as prevalent. "Gotta have glasses on." Things like that, but taken to more of an extreme.
 
I'm amused when men are shocked women can be as horny as men. They just generally hide it better.

Men aren't disgusted when someone makes an innuendo, and women don't fall under A Man Is Not A Virgin trope.

I want a woman to dominate me. Maybe not in a "whips and chains" way, but I want her to do me any way she wants, and I want to meet her needs. That's also why I like toned/buff women. Mostly because I'm afraid if I take control, sex will get boring quickly, but I don't have any real fantasies otherwise.
 

Raistlin

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This. Again, guys, google any popular fandom name plus kink meme and get schooled. I suggest Supernatural for maximum effect.

I finally started watching Supernatural on Netflix (I'm in the middle of Season 2 now).

Awesome show ... and I really do not want to know what you're talking about lol
 
Ever felt a blade against your skin? A non-serrated one. Feels like one long strip of the thinnest piece of ice tracing a line across your body. The deft balance somewhere between too much pressure and not enough. The sensual touch from the razor could just as easily turn to pain.

that's a, uh...accurate description. i understand every kink not resonating for everyone, i don't understand describing the things you fantasize about as depraved. Obviously a product of the way homosexuality is viewed (male on male)
 
It's just a different way to experience the type of pain that gives them pleasure, it's not a self-flaggelation thing or a expression of a need for attention, it's for pleasure.

That doesn't qualify as a mental disorder to me, the fact that they recognize what gives them what they want seems pretty healthy.
I know it's not always for attention, it's just that pleasure does not always justify the means. I'm open to arguments that it can be healthy, but then I'm inclined to think that the standards for what is considered "healthy" are too low.
 

eastmen

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My sexual fantasy now consists of having a hot chick who lets me take a nap and doesn't complain about my snoring .
 
If something causes permanent harm or is ridiculously unsafe, then yes.

You're talking about Safe, sane, consensual, that's like, the foundation of BDSM, you have to have all three or you're doing it wrong. And yes, sometimes you can get scars, but if it's done in a safe way, with consent, and sanity then it's okay.

My sexual fantasy now consists of having a hot chick who lets me take a nap and doesn't complain about my snoring .

how depraved!
 

Clott

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Wow, calling bullshit.

Every single woman I have ever done loves for me to take control. I wouldn't say each and everyone is submissive but the majority of them want to be told what to do.

Here is a bonus, the more crazy I get they wilder the scream out in pleasure as well.
 

BadAss2961

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I just want a girl that doesn't mind her gag reflex (or lack of one) being tested vigorously. So far my partners have either been unwilling or unable to satisfy this fetish.
 

MThanded

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I haven't been involved in this thread but the news article did a terrible job condensing the research paper. The key terms were not defined. I'll have to read the paper to understand more.
 

Emitan

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I've always fantasied about dating a cute blind or deaf girl.
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Wow, calling bullshit.

Every single woman I have ever done loves for me to take control. I wouldn't say each and everyone is submissive but the majority of them want to be told what to do.

Here is a bonus, the more crazy I get they wilder the scream out in pleasure as well.

Being dominated and doing the dominating are both fun for me.
 

AKingNamedPaul

I am Homie
My personal experiences is that women on many occasions have dirtier fantasies than me. I'm into things like sex in a room with people who don't know we are having sex, or having the girl try to carry on a conversation while I pleasure her and generally sex in inappropriate places.

Some of you women scare me, but I still welcome all challengers.
 

Ledsen

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Holy fuck these people are lying through their teeth about the frequency. "couple of times in their lives". LOL
 
Most of my fantasies involve having a large harem of women. They are usually themed too, like I'm the captain of a space ship and my crew is all very hot women. I'm guessing this is rather tame compared to some of you.
Meh, would be be nice having a group of women like me but I don't like harem fantasies because even in them not everyone is going to end up happy.
 
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