A friend is mad at me because I jokingly called her the c word.

[StickSoldier]

Ummmm, man I just want to apologize to all the women out there and even men out there who had to put up with my stupidity on this matter. I've been thinking about this shit since I posted it last year and I've felt guilty about being so insensitive to others that I had the audacity to even try to justify using the c-word. I don't know shit about what it feels like to be called the c-word because I'm a man, not a woman, so I had no right to be upset at the girl for getting mad at me. I'm glad you guys were bashing me for my own ignorance, because I deserved the lashing I got. Now I feel like I just want to get this off my chest and be forgiven. Women, I'm sorry you have to put up with guys like me. I hope that to whomever I upset over this matter, if anyone even remembers, that they can forgive me, because I can't forgive myself until I say it first. I've grown up a lot since last year and I know that what I said was wrong. If I could go back, I'd never have made this thread or said the things I did in the first place. But I can't, and I won't move on until I apologize to everyone out there. I know that I said a lot of stupid shit in this thread about something I can't even begin to imagine, so please, if I offended anyone other than myself with this thread, accept my sincerest apology on this matter. I'll try to never hurt someones feelings again, because I just want everyone to get along. That's all I care about

Sorry for bringing up such an old thread... I just couldn't get it off my mind. I feel like I'm living My Name is Earl, and I just want to apologize to everyone that I did wrong. So if you feel like you want to bash me or whatever, then go for it, but just understand that I was super foolish just a few months ago, weeks ago, days ago, whatever. I'm trying to learn as a person, and now I realize that all I want is everyone to feel the happiness of life, I don't want to degrade anyone.

I'm sorry

 

[diamount]

Cunt is not banned anymore.

 

[oatmeal]

Tell her you meant she was seaward. Off to the sea!

 

[Vermillion]

Words. Some mean more to others, some mean less.

Meant more to her. Don't push it, apologize, never say it in her presence again. World spins.

 

[Kinky John]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ONxDYf2u9Mw

 

[Tornado Condor]

Why did you call them cunts in the first place? It's easy to shrug something off as a joke but it still hurts.

 

[Ignis Fatuus]

Words. Some mean more to others, some mean less.

Meant more to her. Don't push it, apologize, never say it in her presence again. World spins.

Yup.

 

[jb1234]

I told them that I can't be friends with someone who gets so upset at stupid shit like this, so I'm not sure whats going to happen.

Oh, come on. If it upsets her, just apologize. Be an adult.

 

[kick51]

She was just looking for an excuse to get rid of you

I told them that I can't be friends with someone who gets so upset at stupid shit like this, so I'm not sure whats going to happen.

what happens is that they're now talking about how weird/assholish you are

 

[StickSoldier]

Why did you call her cunts in the first place?

zyzz style man, I was just playin around. I'm like the nicest guy ever, if I say something that offends someone it usually isn't on purpose.

 

[Sykotik]

What a cunt.

 

[StickSoldier]

Oh, come on. If it upsets her, just apologize. Be an adult.

I actually apologized a lot. She didn't want to accept it.

 

[Iadien]

She doesn't mean very much to you if you're welling to throw her friendship away over not being able to say something offensive in her presence. So, who cares?

 

[Boom Boom Pow]

zyzz style man, I was just playin around. I'm like the nicest guy ever, if I say something that offends someone it usually isn't on purpose.

i dont think in my history of knowing girls, to ever call them a cunt. shit i don't even call them a bitch.

some words just have bad connotation. those two are it.

jokingly or otherwise.

 

[LordCanti]

Are you British? Calling someone a cunt (especially a woman) in the US is kind of like the nuclear option.

 

[ivysaur12]

Words. Some mean more to others, some mean less.

Meant more to her. Don't push it, apologize, never say it in her presence again. World spins.

Exactly.

 

[spiderman123]

Some women don't like the word. Same goes for other expressions such as

"vajayjay
vag
twat
slit
snatch
cooch
coochie
cooter
cooze
coozie
gash
hole
muff
flange
minge
box
quim
poon
poontang
fud
pussy."

My girlfriend would kill me for using any of these.

 

[Menelaus]

This is why you shouldn't be friends with girls.

 

[freenudemacusers]

doing something 'zyzz style' probably means you are a cunt.

 

[BadTaste]

who is this chach?

 

[Lactose_Intolerant]

Lol at not able to be friends with someone that gets upset. How about them not being friends with people that call them a cunt. That is much more normal than the other way around.

 

[Ignis Fatuus]

I actually apologized a lot. She didn't want to accept it.

It sounds like you were trying to pass it off as a joke and she's probably not going to be receptive to that because it's not acknowledging the impact it had on her. Tell her seriously that you're sorry for hurting her feelings and that you won't use the word around her again. If that doesn't work then you can give up with a clear conscience.

 

[Maddocks]

you apologized and she still wants you gone. Time to call it a life and avoid her or give her a present.

 

[StalkerUKCG]

Keeping words taboo gives them more power.

 

[Skab]

Grow up.

 

[daviyoung]

did you ask her why it upset her?

 

[StickSoldier]

doing something 'zyzz style' probably means you are a cunt.

LOL that was a joke, I wasn't doing it zyzz style. They told me that they don't care if I call them bitches, slut, or anything, but not cunts. I have a lot of friends that are girls and we all get along great. This girl is the exception now.

 

[Kurtofan]

This is why you shouldn't use Neogaf as a reference on how to talk to people in real life.

Keeping words taboo gives them more power.

This isn't Harry Potter.

 

[teruterubozu]

Time to step away from GAF.

 

[kick51]

for anyone else wondering wtf "zyzz" is:

https://www.google.com/search?q=zyz...urce=og&sa=N&tab=wi&ei=CF-qUdfhCYmoyAHBkIGYAw



lol

 

[StickSoldier]

Lol at not able to be friends with someone that gets upset. How about them not being friends with people that call them a cunt. That is much more normal than the other way around.

What? I didn't say that I can't be friends with someone who gets upset. Where did I say that?

 

[freenudemacusers]

you apologized and she still wants you gone. Time to call it a life and avoid her or give her a present.

I originally read that as 'get her pregnant'.

which come to think of it, might be the best solution out there.

 

[Makki]

Some women don't like the word. Same goes for other expressions such as

"vajayjay
vag
twat
slit
snatch
cooch
coochie
cooter
cooze
coozie
gash
hole
muff
flange
minge
box
quim
poon
poontang
fud
pussy."

My girlfriend would kill me for using any of these.

How about hatchet wound? And no pussy? really? What do you say when you have sex, your vagina feels so good?

 

[Sadsic]

Some women don't like the word. Same goes for other expressions such as

"vajayjay
vag
twat
slit
snatch
cooch
coochie
cooter
cooze
coozie
gash
hole
muff
flange
minge
box
quim
poon
poontang
fud
pussy."

My girlfriend would kill me for using any of these.

what are you allowed to call it (and it better not be the anatomically correct name either)

 

[red731]

I am nice too and calling girl cunt even in "joking manner" did not cross my mind ever.
If she, as you said, didn't took the pardon from you, then forget about it and move on, not saying that to any girl ever to be safe....I guess.

Also, if it's unbanned here doesn't mean it is okay in IRL :lol

 

[Plywood]

zyzz style man, I was just playin around. I'm like the nicest guy ever, if I say something that offends someone it usually isn't on purpose.

YOU ARE NOT FUCKIN', ZYZZ, BRO

 

[RawkHawk2010]

Don't be friends with the thin-skinned.

 

[StalkerUKCG]

This isn't Harry Potter.

Its true. Fuck, Cunt and other similar words are only so effective because people try to keep them out of the public.

 

[freenudemacusers]

what are you allowed to call it (and it better not be the anatomically correct name either)

ladyparts is the preferred nomenclature.

 

[Kade]

Owned.

 

[Vyrance]

That's probably the one word you never want to call a woman, lol

 

[StickSoldier]

Some women don't like the word. Same goes for other expressions such as

"vajayjay
vag
twat
slit
snatch
cooch
coochie
cooter
cooze
coozie
gash
hole
muff
flange
minge
box
quim
poon
poontang
fud
pussy."

My girlfriend would kill me for using any of these.

LOL that's great. They actually told me that pussy is fine, but not cunt. They really said that any word other than cunt is fine. I'm just so confused why it's such a bad word.

 

[DBT85]

Some women don't like the word. Same goes for other expressions such as

"vajayjay
vag
twat
slit
snatch
cooch
coochie
cooter
cooze
coozie
gash
hole
muff
flange
minge
box
quim
poon
poontang
fud
pussy."

My girlfriend would kill me for using any of these.

I pity you.

Has she seen The Inbetweeners? I think they got through most of that list.

 

[Log4Girlz]

Oh god op. Break things off. How can anyone in this day and age be offended by any particular word? Its just vibrations of air. There's is a perfect litmus test of course. Call every girl you meet a cunt. If she gets upset with you, she wasn't worth your time.

 

[Sweet Aunt Nancys Panties]

I actually apologized a lot. She didn't want to accept it.

Sounds like a shitty person to be friends with then. It's a word. If it's offensive to her, fine. If she can't get over it after you offer an honest and sincere apology, you might need new friends. Life's too short to waste it on people like that.

 

[spiderman123]

what are you allowed to call it (and it better not be the anatomically correct name either)

I call it an "inter dimension portal to pleasure" like every other nerd

 

[fallagin]

Sorry dog, you don't call girls cunts.

 

[Erasus]

zyzz style man, I was just playin around. I'm like the nicest guy ever, if I say something that offends someone it usually isn't on purpose.

Is this a thing? Please tell me its not a thing.

 

[StickSoldier]

Oh god op. Break things off. How can anyone in this day and age be offended by any particular word? Its just vibrations of air. There's is a perfect litmus test of course. Call every girl you meet a cunt. If she gets upset with you, she wasn't worth your time.

It wasn't even the fact that she got mad, it's at how she was reacting. It was as if I killed her cats/dogs. I tried apologizing and everything.

Is this a thing? Please tell me its not a thing.

I think it is, but I don't do it. I was only joking, i didn't do it as zyzz style.

 

[Skeyser]

zyzz style