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Anyone else prefer masturbation over sex?
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Nealand Liquor
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To be fair not too many women really know how to service cock. That's why when you find a dirty little slut you hold that diamond tight.
Elcid
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You weren’t supposed to tell him
nush
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captainraincoat
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Op sorta has a point..... sometimes you get tired of fucking the same hole if your married and due to corona travelling to Thailand to play gender roulette on the local hookers is probably off the cards
so +1 for the hands brigade
so +1 for the hands brigade
Richard Packer
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A paper bag is not really a mask.
Rock And Roll
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Side note but I had a tinder date last night and it was terrible. 10 minutes in she asks me "what are your opinions on feminism?" I heavily weighed using the washroom and leaving her with the bill. Dating scene is getting rough out here, those with wives/gf's be thankful you have your shit in order.
Tesseract
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should have told her yer an ardent supporter of lipstick feminism
Keihart
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Sadly, there is no oxitocin when chocking the bird so it's no replacement for sex...regardless of how convenient it is.
Also, how about you teach your partner to jack you off, you can do each other the favor if you feel awkward doing other stuff.
OP's name it's very fitting, maybe too much L LisaMariaMartin (thread about jacking off by OP called hand....)
Also, how about you teach your partner to jack you off, you can do each other the favor if you feel awkward doing other stuff.
OP's name it's very fitting, maybe too much L LisaMariaMartin (thread about jacking off by OP called hand....)
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Halo is Back
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I feel sad for people who have bad sex
AlteredForms
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Feel as though OP has been handblasting for so long that he's forgotten actual intimacy with a woman.
Romulus
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I kinda see what the OP is saying. I've been at both ends of this convo over the years. Just dealing with women and the time consumption made me turn down lots of them during my spell working at bars. I went through phases were I had no interest at all.
Over time, I sometimes felt even great sex was overated when it came to dealing with bullshit and searching through the masses for a good lay/minimal bullshit. I just found myself so consumed with the whole thing that it turned me off after a while. I would spend a week or two with a chick then find out shes delicate or "doesn't do this or that." Wasted time over and over, and when I did find a decent one at sex, she was fucking insane. I will say I found several good arguments for sex and absolutely worth the time. But fuck, the work to find them.
Over time, I sometimes felt even great sex was overated when it came to dealing with bullshit and searching through the masses for a good lay/minimal bullshit. I just found myself so consumed with the whole thing that it turned me off after a while. I would spend a week or two with a chick then find out shes delicate or "doesn't do this or that." Wasted time over and over, and when I did find a decent one at sex, she was fucking insane. I will say I found several good arguments for sex and absolutely worth the time. But fuck, the work to find them.
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Rock And Roll
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I don't know what that is and won't google it, but I will say it so next time there will be 2 people who parrot stuff off the internet and have no idea what the hell they are talking about. It's always good to find things you have in common with tinder thots
Tesseract
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The Pleasure
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Nah. I'm all about that wet ass p word.
Stilton Disco
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Stop jerking off to porn and get in a proper relationship.
The instant gratification, overwhelming variety and unrealistic depictions in porn, as well over use of force when wanking, steadily warp your brain and sensations until actual sex feels weird and hard to climax to.
There's a reason people in long term relationships actually report having much more satisfying sex lives both physically and emotionally on average.
To use the classic food analogy, you're currently binging so heavily on junk food that your taste buds are numbed, then going to cheap take aways and wondering why everything tastes bland and unsatisfying.
Go on a cleanse, source some fine, fresh local produce and learn how to cook healthy, delicious meals at home.
The instant gratification, overwhelming variety and unrealistic depictions in porn, as well over use of force when wanking, steadily warp your brain and sensations until actual sex feels weird and hard to climax to.
There's a reason people in long term relationships actually report having much more satisfying sex lives both physically and emotionally on average.
To use the classic food analogy, you're currently binging so heavily on junk food that your taste buds are numbed, then going to cheap take aways and wondering why everything tastes bland and unsatisfying.
Go on a cleanse, source some fine, fresh local produce and learn how to cook healthy, delicious meals at home.
llien
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thief183
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You know what?... I totally agree and probably many other but they have no balls to admit it.
AutisticWonton
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Dude this is literally the side effects of a porn addiction, cut it out completely and you'll soon return normal feeling. Read the book your brain on porn, it should be an eye opener...
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GermanZepp
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I Like your avatar.
GermanZepp
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Masturbation can be more pleasant of course cause is your body and you know what you like. The trick is to get a woman and share sex and intimacy to the point in that she can do the same stuff that you like and feel equal or better.
Classicrockfan
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Goro Majima
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I’m an overweight middle aged man so I don’t always get to finish with my wife.
Even in those situations, it’s still better than jerking off because I love the intimacy and the touch and feel of my wife’s body. I don’t know how people see their wife walk around in her underwear and a tshirt and think “yeah I’d rather jerk off”. Like what?
Even in those situations, it’s still better than jerking off because I love the intimacy and the touch and feel of my wife’s body. I don’t know how people see their wife walk around in her underwear and a tshirt and think “yeah I’d rather jerk off”. Like what?
greenteaforme
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Sounds like you hate sleeping around and casual sex, not actually having sex. All the experiences you mentioned are what happens when you sleep around and don't care about who you're doing it with.
greenteaforme
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Also as a female who only had orgasms by herself for a long time, the answer is probably your own mental state. I spent a lot of time wondering why I could orgasm on my own in less than a minute, but even when a guy was doing all the right stuff I couldn't - I was getting in my own head too much and it made it hard to enjoy the experience. And when you're already expecting to not enjoy yourself or you're having anxiety about how it's all going to go, it makes it even worse. My advice would be 1) live in the moment and fully give yourself to the experience 2) don't take it too fast, give yourself and her some time to acclimate and figure out what you both like and 3) consider that you may need to actually emotionally commit to someone before you have sex. For some people that's the only way they can actually enjoy it. I know I can't help as much as the men in this thread but just some food for thought.
greenteaforme
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Seconded.
TyphoonStruggle
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I've done it a few times. Some girls put absolutely no effort into it. It's supposed to be fun and they suck all the fun out of it.
Kagey K
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I’d love to see the other half of this post on the wine club forums.
I know people will get in here in droves to tell me I am normal but I don't care.
After another disappointing night with an OKCupid date, I realized I liked masturbation (with erotica books) far more than sex. 9 times out of 10, Men don't know what they are doing. He kept shaking my clit like it’s a turntable and he doesn’t know how to DJ. I don't feel shit when someone does that. I like it when they rub the tip while they circle it, otherwise they can continue till the sun comes up, nothing will happen.
And so on.
Chittagong
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Are you circumcised OP? Sounds like your dick may be desensitised so you need very specific action, which you only master yourself.
Banging with a condom doesn’t feel any different to me. In fact, I use those last longer ones to fuck longer, only in threesomes where there is a new person in the mix.
To your question, there are some things masturbation can never offer.
The raw scream of you managing to get an orgasm so loud out of your partner that you worry that someone will alert the hotel reception of possible ongoing murder.
The sound and sight of hanging onto butt cheeks and going to town.
Or a recent discovery, a girl on her back leaning backwards on a low sofa and you on your knees fucking her grabbing her by the calves - a porn tier visual position for both to admire the action.
I’d say re-sensitize your dick and then find a girl who is fun to fuck
Banging with a condom doesn’t feel any different to me. In fact, I use those last longer ones to fuck longer, only in threesomes where there is a new person in the mix.
To your question, there are some things masturbation can never offer.
The raw scream of you managing to get an orgasm so loud out of your partner that you worry that someone will alert the hotel reception of possible ongoing murder.
The sound and sight of hanging onto butt cheeks and going to town.
Or a recent discovery, a girl on her back leaning backwards on a low sofa and you on your knees fucking her grabbing her by the calves - a porn tier visual position for both to admire the action.
I’d say re-sensitize your dick and then find a girl who is fun to fuck
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Kagey K
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If he keeps fucking her in the same positions he sees in porn it’s no wonder she is never pleased.
That is for the camera to get the best shot, not for pleasure. The things you see on screen aren’t the things that work well for people.
If you are fucking them like a performer would on screen, you might as well be humping a pillow, as you will get the same reaction out of both.
She probably enjoyed it less then you did as well, but you probably haven’t stopped to consider that.
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Chittagong
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This particular position actually is rare because it seems to work equally well for both parties. She had a huge one and has demanded the same again. I think the dick ends up rubbing the upper wall of the vagina more which works out well for her. Plus the visual style is a turn on for both.
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ForAcademicPurposes
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JSoup
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Could try working with your partner more.
With mine, we've been together long enough that if one of us isn't really in the mood for full on sex, then mutual masturbation is a thing, as someone else noted.
There can be more to sex than just out and out sex. If you're with someone you're truly in tune with, everything is fun.
With mine, we've been together long enough that if one of us isn't really in the mood for full on sex, then mutual masturbation is a thing, as someone else noted.
There can be more to sex than just out and out sex. If you're with someone you're truly in tune with, everything is fun.
and 3 others
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OP's trained in the ways of hand to gland combat!
#Phonepunk#
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nope
Kev Kev
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