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Ashley Madison infidelity site's customer data stolen
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Sites are being taken down because they are providing access to stolen material, so you post more sites that access the same material?
Ppl were asking. Fox has a website for this story - http://fox2now.com/2015/08/19/ashley-madison-cheaters-list-now-searchable-online/, and Wired does as well -
http://www.wired.com/2015/08/check-loved-one-exposed-ashley-madison-hack/
Since you quoted my earlier statement, you're now doing the same thing. Welcome to the dark side.
Ahhh, it was all worth it. Hahaha
http://gawker.com/family-values-activist-josh-duggar-had-a-paid-ashley-ma-1725132091
http://gawker.com/family-values-activist-josh-duggar-had-a-paid-ashley-ma-1725132091
This is the view of a sociopath. You have no sense of morals nor do you have empathy for people. One of the grossest posts I've read on here in a long time.
ElectricBlanketFire
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shadowsdarknes
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Hahaha that's so much win.
I just can't muster even the slightest bit of pity for people like this. It's wrong to steal other people's data but these "victims" are hardly that.
Serial molester and creepy cheating fuck. Two paid accounts too! Fucking golden. The definition of family values huckster.
shadowsdarknes
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Yeah I am not an advocate of websites actually combing through illegally posted data and doing this..
But is it all that surprising to see Family values conservatives continue to be hypocritical pieces of shit?
Huckabee, want to fall on this grenade, too?
But is it all that surprising to see Family values conservatives continue to be hypocritical pieces of shit?
Huckabee, want to fall on this grenade, too?
People should be financially responsible if they want to stop having sex with you? Well then.
I mean, if the relationship is not working, end it by all means. Don't fucking punish a person just because they stopped wanting to have sex with you, holy shit.
ReturnOfTheRAT
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Saw it. Simply amazing.
*golf clap*
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Deleted member 13876
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Let's hope.
As someone who is married, don't ever get married. There is no room for that kind of selfishness there
Mercury Fred
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I agree with you, but I think you shouldn't say that. Some marriages work according to his statements. Mine does not, and I think most marriages cannot, but we shouldn't try to define all marriages by our marriages.
KazenY2J
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I hope you never get married or have kids.
Whatever he is talking about or anything like it is not a marriage. It's something else
ElectricBlanketFire
Member
He literally said you should divorce someone if they medically cannot have sex.
Cheating is wrong, but not deserving of a lifetime of harassment from people on the internet, plus potentially ruining careers, and other things.
ROFL, this guy
Warm Machine
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stufte
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If I was that site I would have then added your email to the database
Well that would be horrific.
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Deleted member 13876
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Now that the precedent has been set, these things are definitely going to happen.
Cybrwzrd
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No time to reply to all the hate, but why isn't it normal to expect your spouse to be there for your needs - physically and emotionally? Sex is the glue that holds a marriage together. If it goes away all you have is a business contract and liabilities.
But I do wonder how many of you so strongly damning cheating spouses have actually been married.
But I do wonder how many of you so strongly damning cheating spouses have actually been married.
What in the fuck am I reading? That's such an awful, callous point of view.
This is the most disgusting post that I have ever read on neogaf, even as a lurker. On behalf of all the angry lurkers reading your post and myself, burn in hell.
ElectricBlanketFire
Member
Ew.
Cybrwzrd
Banned
Lovin it - how about you refute the point instead of just dismissing it since you don't like it. Tell me then, if it is so callous, what holds a marriage together? Love? Kids? Money? Sex comes from intimacy. If there is no intimacy no relationship will last.
Oh, and this too - yes, even a person unable to have sex medically or who has lost their sex drive should be considerate of their partners needs and still be intimate with them. Hands, mouth, toys - whatever it takes.
dark_chris
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Holy fuck! This post is too disgusting. My brain is trying to comprehend the amount of fuck.
What is wrong with you man?
NullPointer
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Internet assholes are the scum of the earth and I won't justify harassment, but I can't imagine how someone could sign up for a site like this without considering the very real and obvious risks implicit in doing so. Its a giant online database of cheaters and nobody who signed up worried that their information might get out there somehow? That maybe, just maybe, somebody along that long chain of people with access to their information might not be true to their word or commitments? And that's besides any simple hacker foul play.
Police might as well set up a criminals.com site and market it as the #1 tool for criminal conspiracies.*
Its just that stupid.
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But hey, that's what the deep web is for
Forced intimacy from someone with depressed sex drive = sad handjob.
That shit ain't gonna be gluing together marriages any time soon. You quite literally have no position of authority from which to speak on doing "whatever it takes".
Absolutely disgusting.
On one hand, Gawker.
On the other hand... Holy shit, he's the hypocrite that keeps on giving.
With all of this coming out of the family, I think I will be okay if none of them come out of the closet.
Cybrwzrd
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So it is perfectly acceptable then for the partner to have to suffer? That's even more disgusting.
What holds a marriage together is whatever is important to you, I guess. However, that does not justify cheating, not even close. You're free to divorce if you aren't happy with your marriage.
This is selfish and disgusting. Your spouse is not your slave. I sincerely hope that you aren't married.
Vicetrailia
Member
As hard and as unfortunate as it would be, you gotta end that shit.
You can't punish them.
You can't force them after they try to fix it and fail.
I get what you're saying, but it really doesn't work like that.
Have you ever considered the possibility that a married person who is wheelchair-bound is already suffering? Would you seriously cheat on this person?
Cybrwzrd
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I certainly hope you get into a marriage where your spouse denies intimacy.
Answer the question.
I already said, if I were in a marriage that I didn't like, I would divorce. It's not that hard.
Cybrwzrd
Banned
Wheelchair bound people don't need intimacy?
Al-ibn Kermit
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Were you in a relationship like that? Did you ever consider that it might have to do with your partner no longer finding you attractive but being afraid to tell it to you like that? Consider if there was any weight gain, hair loss, personality change or whatever and focus on that.
You just don't sound like a guy who's ever been in love.
You make some fair points but man are you wording them way too strongly.
I agree that sex is important within a marriage and when that stops it can make things very strained. Sex lets you know the emotional temperature of your relationship so when it stops that can be alarm bells.
Cybrwzrd
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Have you gone through a divorce before? Much easier said than done.
shadowsdarknes
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You don't cheat. You get a divorce.
In which case they need to pay you?
It's one thing to say: "If my partner and I stopped having sex, I would divorce them." And another to say, "If my partner and I stopped having sex, they would be completely financially responsible for the divorce, and it would be completely justified for me to cheat on them during the relationship."
It's too easy to just shrug your shoulders, let people say whatever and have the argument be a non-starter. People feel passionately about it, they're gonna argue. This is a forum after all.
Let's take a look at why this is complete horse shit.
The first two paragraphs in the cultural variation section, which constitutes the majority of that section, has no citation.
The survey that the article centers itself upon was conducted by Ashley Madison. Just from that, the conclusions drawn are already given reason to be suspect. If the sample size only includes those who are users of the service, the results will be skewed, and invariably, it appears this is the case with the statistics cited by the article. It's therefore not a reliable metric for the prevalence of infidelity within Indian culture.
States a desolate 20% male and 10% female affair rate. Let's compare to the good old USA:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/07/02/cheating-wives_n_3536412.html
Not quite so different after all, at least considering reported rates of infidelity. In addition, the Japan article is mainly about Ashley Madison launching in Japan, not a statement on the prevalence of infidelity. The article also carries no references to verify its claims of the culture promoting infidelity. There are valid reasons for the rise of infidelity in Japanese society, but they aren't listed here, nor is infidelity considered the dominant practice. Indeed, the younger generations are opting out of marriage and relationships entirely, rather than cheating.
Focuses on a subset of women that are physically attractive enough to have sugar daddies. Describes the socio-economic, historic, and political conditions that have shaped the materialistic and trophy culture present in middle-class China. The author of this article rides the narrative that women across this giant country are wholesale buying into hookup and sugar daddy culture. Says nothing about whether infidelity is the norm in Chinese culture. In fact, it has little to do with infidelity at all. Mistress culture is, from what this article has described, an open/casual relationship structure, not monogamous.
Answers nothing about why cheating is considered okay, or why it would be okay in Asia/alternate cultures. It merely gives information on Ashley Madison's registered users in the region (which, by the way, isn't much. 80k in Hong Kong, 500k in Japan, and 320k+ from China at the time this article was published). Using Ashley Madison as a metric for the amount of infidelity going on in any country is tenuous at best.
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