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Cops make surprising gesture when couple refuses to sit near them

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Forerunner

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Just an interesting article I saw. A link to the full story.

It was Friday night at an Eat'n Park restaurant in Homestead, just outside Pittsburgh. Four police officers were sitting down at a table for dinner. Employees said the officers are regulars at the restaurant. The officers had placed their order and were waiting.

"I heard talk, and I happened to glance over, and there was a couple that was coming into the restaurant, and they decided that they didn't want to sit with us, and they made it very adamant," said Homestead Police Sgt. John Kaschauer. "They looked over, and they said, 'We don't want to sit here,'" said Louann Davis, a waitress. "You could tell that they were looking at the police, and so they moved them to another section."

While comfortable with their local residents, these officers are feeling the recent tensions on the street. "I do feel it from people that might be on a traffic stop or passing through the area, just little things they say," Kaschauer said.

They sent the check to the table with a message reading, "Sir, your check was paid for by the police officers that you didn't want to sit next to. Thank you for your support." They left a $10 tip, too.

"They want to make it known that in our community they are here to be our friends and take care of us and not our enemies that are out to get you," Davis said.




A picture of the note:

but did you see the note?



Don’t sit next to me if old.
 

SolidChamp

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"That you didn't want to sit next to" seems a little passive-aggressive, no?

In any case, the cops there seem like stand-up guys.
 

FlowersisBritish

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Like that's nice but saying "they left a ten dollar tip too" is kinda shit because there are four of them so really they each left $2.50 each, which is kinda a shitty tip to be proud of(coming from a shitty tipper himself)
 

Onemic

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How is their department when it comes to racial profiling, brutality, and civilian complaints? If it's bad then I'd consider it to be an empty gesture.
 

Sky Chief

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Like that's nice but saying "they left a ten dollar tip too" is kinda shit because there are four of them so really they each left $2.50 each, which is kinda a shitty tip to be proud of(coming from a shitty tipper himself)

That's just for the couple though, right?
 

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Like that's nice but saying "they left a ten dollar tip too" is kinda shit because there are four of them so really they each left $2.50 each, which is kinda a shitty tip to be proud of(coming from a shitty tipper himself)
You dont tip per person.
 

Mammoth Jones

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My anger at the policing situation in the US is really directed to the leadership and the police unions. Not the average beat cop. Most of em just doing the right thing trying to pay the mortgage.

I wouldn't have a problem sitting next to em. But I wouldn't make sudden movement either lmao.
 

Watch Da Birdie

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It seems kind of patronizing...

Even disregarding the background of the situation someone buying me a meal out of nowhere like that would bug me. Then again I've spotted people money at my job before, but only when they were out of money and clearly distressed. Doing it for someone who hasn't shown any signs of needing it is a bit weird.
 

ColdPizza

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It seems kind of patronizing...

Even disregarding the background of the situation someone buying me a meal out of nowhere like that would bug me. Then again I've spotted people money at my job before, but only when they were out of money and clearly distressed. Doing it for someone who hasn't shown any signs of needing it is a bit weird.

I think they were trying to make the couple more comfortable. But yeah, I guess the note could have been worded a little less in your face.
 

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This photo brought to mind a good topic of discussion: If fitness standards in law enforcement were increased, do you think they would be less trigger-happy?
 

ColdPizza

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This photo brought to mind a good topic of discussion: If fitness standards in law enforcement were increased, do you think they would be less trigger-happy?

I'm going to go out on a limb and say no. Racial injustice in policing has always been a thing, even when cops were on average skinnier.
 

Risible

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"That you didn't want to sit next to" seems a little passive-aggressive, no?

BIG time. The "that you didn't want to sit next to" and "Thank you for your support" lines make it seem sarcastic and yes, passive-aggressive.

Also, I'm calling bullshit on the whole story. Smells like Reagan/Bush-level "Joe Sixpack" wish fufillment style story
 

Arkeband

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I'd think this was an interesting story if it was the restaurant patrons who came to the media with the story.

But since they didn't, it's just the cops patting themselves on the back with a meaningless gesture.

"I'll give you 50 bucks to take away my guilt" - Tim Minchin, "Fuck the Poor"
 

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Cop thread, tip thread, and now some poster wants to make it a fat thread too.

 

Watch Da Birdie

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I think they were trying to make the couple more comfortable. But yeah, I guess the note could have been worded a little less in your face.

I personally think what they did would make me more uncomfortable and on edge. I would definitely feel guilty about offending them and feeling the need to pay them back, and this isn't even taking into account worrying about them shooting me.

But I don't feel like the cops meant any harm by it, and I've probably acted that way before myself by pushing a kind act on someone who might've not wanted it to begin with.
 

Forerunner

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This photo brought to mind a good topic of discussion: If fitness standards in law enforcement were increased, do you think they would be less trigger-happy?

I'm fairly certain that's body armor underneath that is making them look so fat. Either way fitness standards do need to be enforced more when it comes to law enforcement in my view.
 
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It seems incidents where a cop does something good and is reported is akin to seeing a deer in your yard. Sure it can happen once in a while, but most of the time they're out of sight. People should feel safer when near a cop, instead now we are always afraid when one is by us on the road, or just sitting in a restaurant. Fear we will get a ticket, or fear of something worse. The media is partly to blame of course.
 

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"Oh you paid for my meal? Well I guess that makes up for you murdering my friends and oppressing my community."
Yeah cause every cop is guilty of murdering and oppressing, just like everyone wearing a hoodie is in a gang right...
 

ColdPizza

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If they want to prove that they are good people, paying for a meal at a restaurant isn't the way.

Actually supporting peaceful protests would get them a little respect, but this just screams "We think we can buy your respect".

Maybe it wasn't even that? Can it be just a friendly gesture without us projecting our doubts and agendas on them? Isn't this a small part of the larger problem?
 

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dont blame them, if i see cops walk into a resturant im in, I get up and leave. you never can be too careful. dont know what kind of power trip those assholes are on.
 

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i feel like this tweet can't be re-posted enough

If I was the kids I rather learn an important life lesson that not all cops are asshole. They did more good for those kids than just another March would do imo

dont blame them, if i see cops walk into a resturant im in, I get up and leave. you never can be too careful. dont know what kind of power trip those assholes are on.
Can't be real? Everyone got to eat bro
 

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How is their department when it comes to racial profiling, brutality, and civilian complaints? If it's bad then I'd consider it to be an empty gesture.
Where I'm at. I mean who cares. Until this cops breaks the blue wall of silence and blows the whistle on the bullshit that may be happening at their department then i will Iook at this cop as "one of the good ones".
 

Arkeband

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Paying for someone's meal is considered rude?

Making it a photo op and sending it to the media to call attention to your "kind act" is about as disingenuous as it can be.

And on top of that, they made sure the receipt basically called out the patrons for being ungrateful.

Fuck that.
 
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