WHAT THE FUCK IS AN ASEXUAL LAP DANCE!?What. The. Fuck.
okay yeah this lady is full of shit. She gave him “asexual” lap dances and let him scratch her back and play with her hair and is making these excuses like these are all just normal non-sexual things that make/female platonic friends do.
bullshit. Sounds more like she was benefitting from their relationship so she allowed the creepy stuff to continue, then only decided to speak up once she was no longer benefitting from it. There’s no way in hell that she didn’t know what was going on.
I’d feel a lot more sorry for her if this were just some creepy guy making unwanted advances. Sounds more like she was leading this guy on in order to get what she wants from him.
obviously the guy is also a total creep who is also guilty, and was using his clout to try to get in her pants. But I am having a hard time seeing her as an innocent victim