She'd ideally be younger than myself, sweet, kind, just a little shy but not terribly so, has enough of a darkside to catch up with me, a sense of humor, genuinely fun to be with, similar interests in where it counts the most to me not everything has to be the same, enough of her own interests so that we may enjoy something new in each other, trustworthy and reliable, not a cheater, can more or less read me in what I say and not say to her, not stubborn, a good debater and open to new ideas even if she doesn't always agree with them, has morals/values similar to my own. clever and ineresting, loves music especially guitar, more than likely a brunette or black hair, she has to be very cute, very cute face, lovely eyes, lovely smile, beautiful shiny soft silky hair, generally on the thinner side, shorter than me, soft to the touch, beautiful hands, good hygiene but not super super obsessed with looks, smells nice, very feminin but not sickenly so, is reasonably technologically literate, enjoys fiction, enjoys being practical at the sametime, know when to give distance and receive distance for the sake of relationship.
God that's a laundry list of things for the perfect girl. So yeah, will never ever be with a girl like that if one xists that isn't taken.
Hmmm I can't say. The girl I was going to marry was everything I ever wanted, but sometimes that's not as good as you may think. Sometimes you realize that everything that you've ever wanted isn't really what you wanted, but only what you thought you did or were told.
The girl I'm going to marry someday will be a good mix of everything I can't stand, but also have stuff I absolutely love about her and I'll know it's right when there is no question about the person standing by my side is the one I really love.
i want a girl who's mature(doesn't play stupid dating games, just honest), has a job, brunette, light skin(tan-ish),down to earth, able to take my sarcasm, a sense of humor(i like to laugh) a healthy sexual appetite and faithful
a french girl who owns a bakery doesn't sound so bad
Brunette, kind, somewhat childish like myself, but able to be mature when necessary, doesnt need to share my interests but at least respects them, nice ass, can put up with me, takes pleasure in my oddities.
:lol @ people who say they want a smart, sincere, simple, loyal, witty wife and then post a pic of celebrity. :lol You guys are the equivalent of women who want a rich, powerful, and handsome husband who will also snuggle, do housework, and not cheat on them.
You basically claim to want a nice, sincere, real woman then you post the fakest and most superficial portrayal of beauty as your ideal :lol The OP asked the differences between your girlfriend and your wife material. You guys mention all these noble virtues and then [insert pic of hot chick]. Clearly you guys missed the point of the OP...
Anyway, I want my daughter (I actually have one) to be smart, respectable and witty, and a nun when it comes to her sex life.
As for wife material, I'm already married but I will say having a checkbox of qualities is pretty pointless. When you find the right one, she may only match 3/10 items on your little checklist but she could still be the perfect girl for you. Sometimes it's the differences that makes life interesting. For example, having a wife with a high IQ might sound good on paper, but she may end up being overly critical of your every move or just not know how to turn off her brain sometimes and enjoy life for a bit.
But a general good test for wife material is:
- Can you take her home to mother?
- Will she not sleep with your brother?
- Would she make a good mother?
- Can she be around your friends or at least accept them?
- Does she satisfy you physically?
- If she loses her looks, would you still enjoy being around her?
- Do you trust her with your life?
It doesn't matter if she's smart, dumb, sincere, fake, shy, outgoing, or whatever. The list above is the basic qualities she needs to have to be considered wife material.
Yes, but for the most part the ones posted aren't the ones who have sculpted themselves to perfection via botox injections, breast implants, plastic surgeries, and all of that nonsense. It's not like every dude has come in here posting Megan Fox (though a few have mentioned her).
Maybe thats because their pictures are far more easy to find?
Besides I know that I'll never ever pull a girl that looks anywhere as good as the ones I posted, so don't worry I'm not delusional or think that all regular girl should/have to look as good as them, I'm just bored at work..