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Girl-age - Not pathetic for once, or thrice! (backfire imminent)

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Made an agreement with another GAF member, refused to honor it because he was broke, but then had no problem continuing to buy video games.
So, here's the situation.

I'm dating 3 girls at the same time.

1) Infant school teacher, sweet girl but very complicated

2) Med student, very smart, maybe too smart she gets on my nerves sometime

3) Anthropologist , is nice and the easiest :)


I made out with 2 of them , Med student is missing (but I'm working on it).

Of course I make sure none of them knows each other, that's why I picked them of totally different social circles.



I'm going to have drinks with number 3 and her friend, hopefully there would be a number 4 .

About feelings well.. I think I have stronger feelings for number 2 but that's because I havent touch her or kiss her, I'm almost sure that when I do that feelings will go down a bit.

Any GAFadvices? Cause the dating is going kinda expensive , and no I don't think they will ever run into each other.

I want some cheap ass activities to do with girls, cause 1 is ok, 2 is ok but 3? goddamn sometimes it's too much money.
 
why the fuck are you dating 3 women at once? that's a formula for not dating ANY women if ONE finds out. shit man, show some damned commitment...
 
In before "oh noes, help me GAF, I am swimming in too much pussy".

Before GAF can help, yuou must first answer the following:
Are you paying for all the dates? Are you splitting the bill?

Edit: I see the backfire has started already. I'd just like to point out he hasn't said he's been committed to any of them, and his lack of action (making out with 2/3) implies he just went out a couple of times with each.
Now, if he's going on date 4 or 5 with them, or is hiding the fact that he's seeing others, then let the backfire commence!
 
doomed1 said:
why the fuck are you dating 3 women at once? that's a formula for not dating ANY women if ONE finds out. shit man, show some damned commitment...
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If you don't go on dates with various women, how do you figure out who you'd eventually want to commit to?
 
doomed1 said:
why the fuck are you dating 3 women at once? that's a formula for not dating ANY women if ONE finds out. shit man, show some damned commitment...
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Your dating is not the same as his dating.
 
They will usually find out about at least one of the "others". And then you will have no potential girlfriends instead of having a solid start with ONE girlfriend
 
I vote for the anthropologist... she's certainly not all about money.
 
Why are you being so shitty to those girls by cheating on them and guranteeing emotional upset (more than a usual relationship anyway)? You obviously don't care about any of them.
 
Keep it at coffees, beaches and six packs. If you are making out with them, they won't really notice.

3 is really the limit though, any more and scheduling issues start to arise.

Not enough time to be a PIMP in this crisis
 
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Zenith said:
Why are you being so shitty to those girls by cheating on them and guranteeing emotional upset (more than a usual relationship anyway)? You obviously don't care about any of them.
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I always tell girls that I am not ready to be on a exclusive relationship. Some bail out, but others don't care.

So they are warned
 
Your setting yourself up for pain. I personally have no problem with dating around while you try to find someone who you really want to be in a serious relationship with. But those ladies are most likely not going to take it well if they ever find out. You run the risk of losing all three potential GF's. Of course one or more could also be very understanding or even doing the same. I'm just saying i've seen situations like these blow up before. So I would try to start zeroing in on who you feel the strongest towards.

As for cheap things to do. One woman is expensive enough, three must be driving you into bankruptcy! Its hard to give you suggestions without knowing what they like. For instance if one is a nature lover, there are plenty of free or very cheap national parks or hiking areas. Think about what passions they have in their lives and hop online to look for activities related to those passions.

Oh and good luck, I hope you dont lose a testicle or two.
 
no its still pathetic OP. Want the cost of dating to go down? Drop two of them if you want all three quit bitching and fork over the cash.
 
Is this a kind of thread where the OP desperately wants to ask a question on the internetz just so he can tell the internetz that he's dating a gazillion women?
 
hectorse said:
I always tell girls that I am not ready to be on a exclusive relationship. Some bail out, but others don't care.

So they are warned
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So what you're telling her is she's not interesting enough to be worthy of your whole romantic focus, and so unspecial that you can replace her with any of the other girls you're going out with at the time?
 
My advice is to ignore that voice in your heard telling you to hit the "post new topic" button in the future.
 
Schedule dates with all three (on different occasions, of course), and asked them to pay. Drop the ones who take issue with the idea of paying.

Solved.

Schattenjagger said:
OP, we demand you show pics of each girl so we can give you the right advice
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This too.
 
Zenith said:
So what you're telling her is she's not interesting enough to be worthy of your whole romantic focus, and so unspecial that you can replace her with any of the other girls you're going out with at the time?
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No, I am telling her that I really don't have time in my life right now to care for a long-term relationship.

I have told that to girls even when I am dating the huge number of 0 people on the side.

It's not about how many of them, but how much I can commit to anyone right now!
 
stories like these make me think of vanilla sky, hopping in the car with cameron diaz and then her driving off the bridge. its things like that which make me think 'you know what, messing around with more than one woman at a time can really mess things up!'
 
Schattenjagger said:
i have the feeling none of these girls look good - well maybe the teacher


i have never met a hot anthropologist
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Teacher and anthropologist looks really good.

Medstudent has a GREAT personality

Schattenjagger said:
He still hasn't answered weather he has banged any of these girls.
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only number 3
 
hectorse said:
No, I am telling her that I really don't have time in my life right now to care for a long-term relationship.

I have told that to girls even when I am dating the huge number of 0 people on the side.

It's not about how many of them, but how much I can commit to anyone right now!
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" I'm not ready for an exclusive relationship" means something completely different than "I'm not sure I'm ready for a long term relationship."

One states that you need to work on your commitment, which isn't as big a deal as implying that you can't keep it in your pants.

I'm not saying that that's how you are; I believe you. You should probably just phrase it differently, IMO.
 
Am I not in on a joke or something? The purpose of dating is to see multiple people and deciding whomever before committing or not. However, this thread is completely useless without pics or at the very least more details on the girls.
 
Keep on dating 'til you get the chance to fuck them. Sex can tell alot about the person. And stop going on expensive dates. Just go to your place, talk and drink wine. Or put on an anime movie or whatever so the Gaffers stop hating you.
 
I'm starting to get tired of these stupid (probably fake) brag-age threads. My advice: if you can't handle 3 women at once, then don't date 3 women at once. Find the one you care about the most and let the others go. It's not worth it.

Also no pics = fail
 
So you're "dating" three girls and have only made out with two and haven't even thrown it in them? Weak. Fucking. Sauce.
 
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