Fuck man, I wanna hang out with you with my friends and when you go use the bathroom we'll just talk mad shit about you and probably leave you with the bill at the end of the night.
Sounds fun, you in?
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How many sexual partners for girls is too many?
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Sounds fun, you in?
readLeader
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And the amount of practice required is inversely proportionate to the number of practice partners?
serotonina
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As long as she choose him what's the problem?
Liu Kang Baking A Pie
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It's not insulting their preference but rather the explanations and reasoning and bullshit that's behind their preference.
Devolution
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Uhuh. So 20 versus the 0-3 some people obviously prefer.
hey_monkey
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I laughed.
The Librarian
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It is compared to most women. The girl in the OP is an extreme outlier.
Massive Duck. C.M.
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Sex is obviously going to be better with experience, and I'm sorry if you felt I was addressing you and only you, but there are people insulting those who say they'd prefer a partner with a less extensive history, without shaming those who feel otherwise.
Devolution
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No but problem solving sure is unless you think everyone is built the same, will have the same preferences and limitations.
Not crazy high, but doesn't leave much room for any long-term relationships which is what would bother me. I'd be all "why hasn't this person ever been in a serious relationship and why would it be different with me?". Also coming from a small town it would be a sure thing that the list of partners would include friends and co-workers and that would suck to know.
I'd get over it though if things were great otherwise. Some people do screw around a lot when they're younger. Doesn't mean they don't eventually settle down and commit to one person.
Just taking precautions, man. She could've been clean as a whistle but you can never be too sure.
This post is just as ridiculous as the ones you're mocking.
So you have to sleep around to be happy with your sex life? I guess people must only try one thing with each person and move on... weird. Quality over quantity.
War Peaceman
You're a big guy.
The most important factors in this regard are loyalty and sexual health. Numerical values (beyond absurdity) have no factor in this. A girl could have sex with a couple of people but not use protection while a 'promiscuous' girl could take the correct precautions Similarly, having sex with many partners does not mean you are prone to disloyalty.
Devolution
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No you don't. I think you're missing the point there.
boiled goose
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30+ by 24 is quite a bit.
nothing unachievable if you have a bunch of one night stands and hookups. As someone said before though, it does mean she probably hasnt had too many 2 year, 1 year, 6 month long relationships or been comfortably single for long periods.
I guess to me it is not about the number, but about the person. I personally don't place much value in just the physical pleasure of sex, but like meaningful connections, even if not serious.
In the end I would prefer someone similar to my experience and personality.
If I like the girl, she is clean, and she likes me, then of course it doesn't matter.
nothing unachievable if you have a bunch of one night stands and hookups. As someone said before though, it does mean she probably hasnt had too many 2 year, 1 year, 6 month long relationships or been comfortably single for long periods.
I guess to me it is not about the number, but about the person. I personally don't place much value in just the physical pleasure of sex, but like meaningful connections, even if not serious.
In the end I would prefer someone similar to my experience and personality.
If I like the girl, she is clean, and she likes me, then of course it doesn't matter.
readLeader
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Huh? I don't follow.
I think you should try to make your point clearer, then, because that is exactly how I understand your posts as well.
I don't think I am. You made the point that people with less partners are going to have to "enjoy the awful sex". Please spell out what I'm missing...
So you're ok with pedophilia?
The One and Done
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I would never knowingly have sex with a girl that's slept with 30 people. Aside from the increased potential for an STD, it's extremely whorish and disgusting IMO. Maybe I'm crazy but I having sex with 30 people seems excessive.
frankie_baby
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more the better
Few or no previous sexual partners is okay. A lot of previous sexual partners is also okay, assuming no STDs.
This is something that people put way too much emphasis on and I just can't wrap my head around it. The number is a lot less important than being comfortable with all the other aspects of your partner's sexuality, attitudes, and behavior.
This is something that people put way too much emphasis on and I just can't wrap my head around it. The number is a lot less important than being comfortable with all the other aspects of your partner's sexuality, attitudes, and behavior.
I mean, when someone's sexual history includes 200+ people you should probably question their judgement as well as recommend an STD test or two. But besides that? Who cares?
I personally don't care how many sexual partners a girl has had. Only breaking factors for me would be an STD, or if any previous partners are friends of mine.
Don't attempt to hide your own insecurities by blaming it on someone else's sexual history.
I personally don't care how many sexual partners a girl has had. Only breaking factors for me would be an STD, or if any previous partners are friends of mine.
Don't attempt to hide your own insecurities by blaming it on someone else's sexual history.
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That's a little creepy.
exactly, so why risk being with someone who has slept with a ton of people?
Troubled Bat
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Whats with this logic of, having sex with so many people makes the sex better. Instead of just having a shit load of sex with the same person. 
Kano on the Phone
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You're not crazy, just extremely sex negative (I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt that you would hold men to the same standard). X always seems like a lot until you've had X.
Someone can have unsafe sex with one person and another can have safe sex with a hundred people.
boiled goose
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take it down a notch. 30 by 24 is only 5 a year if u started at 18.
High, but disgusting and whorish are not quite fair.
Vetted? :lol
Liu Kang Baking A Pie
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Because if I'm going to sleep with them, I already trust them not to fuck with our sexual health.
No one is insulting anyone for wanting to be with someone who has less partners. What being mocked is the idea that someone who has a sexual past that extends beyond the current partner is somehow less worthy to be with depending on the number of sexual encounters have been formed in that past.
Like Marriage worthy = little to no sexual past?
Really, that's pretty fucking insulting.
Also, believe it or not but there is a huge double standard when it comes to men and women who are sexually promiscuity. Its day to day reality and its one of the most ingrained pieces of old world logic that is still pervasive today in a lot of media and what not.
Look at teenage pregnancies for example, its almost always exclusively a teen girl problem, the guy is rarely if ever shamed in the same way.
Sorry I'm ranting. I know thats not what you meant but I felt it needed to be said.
Vermillion
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Wait, those who are worried about the number... what do you think of a guy having the same amount of sexual partners?
And secondly, aren't women more likely to get STIs from intercourse than men are? Or specific ones, I forget which...
And secondly, aren't women more likely to get STIs from intercourse than men are? Or specific ones, I forget which...
That would imply that they were not practicing safe sex or getting regular check ups.
Massive Duck. C.M.
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Whats with this logic of, having sex with so many people makes the sex better. Instead of just having a shit load of sex with the same person.
I would think it comes from the idea of being able to cater to many different needs, and not just one person's needs exceptionally well.
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Spiffy_1st
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I don't know what I think, this kind of thing is way more relative than some of you make out. I get why you shouldn't judge someone completely based on one part of their life, but I can understand why someone would be uncomfortable with their partner having sex with tons of different people.
Some people just feel differently about this, I think that's all that it comes down to. There isn't anything wrong with either side. There's no political anti feminist agender behind it or whatever.
Some people just feel differently about this, I think that's all that it comes down to. There isn't anything wrong with either side. There's no political anti feminist agender behind it or whatever.
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So you're never going to sleep with more than 30 people, right? What happens when you reach like 29, do you go, 'Oh shit, better make this one good!' for the last one?
DragonSworne
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To get 30 plus by 24 means that she had a lot of one night stands.
If we say one night stand a month, that means she couldn't have been in a long term relationship during college.
If she had at least one long term relationship in college, she had 2 one night stands a month. Add more long term relationships you start getting into the cheating territory.
Depending on how many real boyfriends she had, it sounds like bad news.
If we say one night stand a month, that means she couldn't have been in a long term relationship during college.
If she had at least one long term relationship in college, she had 2 one night stands a month. Add more long term relationships you start getting into the cheating territory.
Depending on how many real boyfriends she had, it sounds like bad news.
I'm not sure what whorish is even supposed to mean in this context.
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