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I need help.. um.... lasting longer in bed

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Zeyphersan

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Alright, so since the first page is going to be nothing but jokes I'm hoping for some realness to hit on the second. It hasn't always been this bad, but let's say that recently my sexual stamina has been underwhelming. Both during sex and masturbating. I don't really care about the latter, but the former can be embarrassing for sure. I don't need to be some porn star fucking for hours on end, but I do need to step it up.

So what are some things I can do?
 

Anung

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Try edging. Get yourself to that point then stop. Rinse and repeat. Be careful though if you become a real edgemaster you'll have the opposite problem.
 

marrec

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Try edging. Get yourself to that point then stop. Rinse and repeat. Be careful though if you become a real edgemaster you'll have the opposite problem.

If I do this twice I end up in some apocalyptic wasteland of endless event horizons without a singularity in the middle.
 

Ferrio

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Weed works wonders for me in this aspect. Never been a fast finisher, and weed seems to even take it farther (sometimes can't even climax, but the journey is good enough lol).

You could try wearing a condom, hell I heard some people will put numbing shit on their dick.

jack off a few minutes b4 game time

oh and that's an easy way too.
 

pharmx

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Since you say it hasn't always been like this, did something change recently either physically or emotionally? Or do you mean it's gotten worse as you got older?
 

Clockwork5

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Hold your breath. Starve your giddy brain of oxygen. It worked
(still works)
for me.
 

WickedLaharl

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Troy Baker's dumpster
 

CrocMother

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Alright, so since the first page is going to be nothing but jokes I'm hoping for some realness to hit on the second. It hasn't always been this bad, but let's say that recently my sexual stamina has been underwhelming. Both during sex and masturbating. I don't really care about the latter, but the former can be embarrassing for sure. I don't need to be some porn star fucking for hours on end, but I do need to step it up.

So what are some things I can do?

Male kegels. I'm serious.
 

LookAtMeGo

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Weed works wonders for me in this aspect. Never been a fast finisher, and weed seems to even take it farther (sometimes can't even climax, but the journey is good enough lol).

You could try wearing a condom, hell I heard some people will put numbing shit on their dick.
I find it hard to get hard when I'm baked. If I have a bit of alchy in me though, I can go for a good hour.
 

Unicorn

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Reverse kegels. I tried for a year or so and kegels didn't help. Reverse kegels did improve my stamina.

Also, communication and switching positions. Being on top usually leads to me not lasting as long.

Kegels = stopping stream mid piss
Reverse kegels = pushing more piss out

That's the muscle you should be flexing whenever.
 

...Scatter...

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Think about some shit that's neutral or repelling. Think baseball. Babe Ruth. Clay. Earth. Suddenly you're not at the verge of busting a nut. Don't think about her moaning or how tight it is. You'll bust for sure. Pregame helps. Rub one out before sex.
 

Novocaine

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Ask your doctor for some Viagra, it's really fun and makes it harder to blow.

Try not to be self concious of the problem because usually that makes it worse.
 

Snuggles

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Alcohol and/or drugs are what you need. I can go forever with the right dosage in me. I'd recommend a generous amount of vodka and a few vicodin, at least to start out.
 

juicyfruitas

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What's your physical condition like?

For me at least when I'm in tip top shape i'm sexgod but when I hit those long bouts of lazy couch potatodom the sexmagic fades
 

Clockwork5

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yea edge mastering is a good way to go. If you are getting to the edge take a few valuable seconds to change positions or slap an ass.
 

Rentahamster

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Exercise, and make sure your circulatory system is in good shape.

Kegels help somewhat.

Have sex more often. The more often you come, the more it takes to come the next time.

When you feel like you're about to come, pull out and do something else. When you regain you composure, put your dick back in.
 

subrock

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focus on breathing. In through the nose, out through the mouth. Pace yourself too. Don't worry about constantly having your foot on the gas. Switch it up if you feel close.
 

Xe4

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What everyone else said + thicker condoms. It's less of a sensation for both parties but it's better than lasting two minutes or whatever.
 

Stinkles

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Alright, so since the first page is going to be nothing but jokes I'm hoping for some realness to hit on the second. It hasn't always been this bad, but let's say that recently my sexual stamina has been underwhelming. Both during sex and masturbating. I don't really care about the latter, but the former can be embarrassing for sure. I don't need to be some porn star fucking for hours on end, but I do need to step it up.

So what are some things I can do?

Think about your wife.
 

Mattdaddy

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jack off a few minutes b4 game time

Yessir, I second this. A few minutes might be too close though for me personally cause my dick would be all tired and I probably couldn't throw down at full power. BUT the logic is sound. 2-3 hours before is my sweet spot.
 

0ptimusPayne

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You gotta workout more bruh. Also every AM piss do a Kegel exercise. You'll stroke like a god soon enough...
 

crimzonflame

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Its all mental. Some guys get excited easier and can not hold it in or last long at all once they reach a certain level of 'excitement'. You need to learn to relax, and take long slow breaths during sex and change your mentality. Also when you masturbate make sure you dont ejaculate for at least 20 minutes. This is will take weeks or even months.

- It's all mental
- Learn to relax during sex
- kegals
- breathing exercises/meditation
- use your back not your legs
 

Horseticuffs

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Honestly, losing weight did it for me.When I was damn near 400 pounds I lasted minutes. Now generally I last anywhere from the average to the point where I can tell my girlfriend wants me to hurry the fuck up. I don't know anything about your situation but stamina was a wonderful side effect of a healthier lifestyle. Something I didn't even consider when I first started.


EDIT: Also, try putting nails into your perineum. Worked for Albert Fish.
 

LookAtMeGo

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Honestly, losing weight did it for me.When I was damn near 400 pounds I lasted minutes. Now generally I last anywhere from the average to the point where I can tell my girlfriend wants me to hurry the fuck up. I don't know anything about your situation but stamina was a wonderful side effect of a healthier lifestyle. Something I didn't even consider when I first started.
:/
 
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