Seriously, man if I actually had a girl to ask ME out I would be super happy. OP do you know how rare it is for a girl to ask you out? Shit, even if you're good looking 95% of girls expect you to make the move and ask her out. Just go on the date and let her know you are into her before it is too late.Dude, just ask her out point blank. She either can say no, in which case you move on, or she says yes, in which case your coomer days are about to end. Who gives a flying fuck if you buy a PS5 or not? If she actually meant her comment about that seriously, you dodged a bullet. But my guess is that she meant that sarcastically or tried to drop another hint to ask her out already.
This man gets it. This broad desperately wants to get married. Get the hell away from those kinds of chicks.
So a co-worker of mine developed a crush on me. I'm not the smartest person in the world but I picked up on that. Things like asking personal questions (like do you wanna have kids or get married), light touches while asking how was my day, laughing at my jokes (sexual ones too), and she talks to her mom about me. Her mom works there too so she approves of me.
Not gonna lie I started to like her too.
I know we're not supposed to shit where you eat but fuck dude, I've rarely had this happen to me. I was kinda settled into being forever alone kind-a-guy. Family members would ask when are you getting a girlfriend and I'll just give them a non-answer.
So one day, she hits me with the "So when are you gonna take me out?" Oh shit. My dumbass told her that I needed to get my shit together as in, I didn't have a car nor a driver's license to take her somewhere...However, She did say could pick me and so no worries.
Weeks later I was chatting around my co-workers about how I was getting a PS5. lol She kinda roasted me. "How are you gonna get your shit together then turn around and get a PS5". I knew I screw up at that point. She still flirts with me and even suggested that we hang out. But I think any romantic feelings she had for me are gone. Sucks because I thought my coomer days were ending.
What do you think, GAF?
He could always ask the mom out.Invite her over to play with your PS5, look not all relationships have to lead to marriage just go on a date and see where it goes. Do you really want to be kicking yourself in the balls a couple of years from now thinking this was your only chance?
Do you want to be some sort of incel your whole life ?
"Her mom works there too so she approves of me. "
This girls mom knows she's also probably a no hoper as well and is being her wingman.
I WANT GRANDKIDS, just go after this low hanging fruit in the office.
Give her flowers (leave on her desk/workplace if you're too shy).
Pretty cheap way (even one flower will do) to make it look like you're apologizing, while not actually doing it. And marking your interest.
Fuck sake, it's for the OP to feel better.
He thinks he fucked up.
Until he stops thinking like that things won't improve.
Just constantly telling him "be an alpha male!" is pretty idiotic...
He thinks he's fucked up, but he hasn't done anything to harm her, or that warrant giving apologies flowers for
It's a big trap to think like that