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That literally does nothing for me. Am I a racist now?
That literally does nothing for me. Am I a racist now?
The article talks about “women of colour”. There are many white guys who have yellow fever. Aren't Asian women “women of colour”?
The article talks about “women of colour”. There are many white guys who have yellow fever. Aren't Asian women “women of colour”?
You know, it used to be the goddamn evangelicals that were always trying to boss you. These wackos make them seem tame by comparison.My first girlfriend was black. Of course, mentioning this is actually gaslighting, to prevent you from seeing my true cis-white racism beneath the surface.
But now if I don't mention my first girlfriend was black, I'm also racist. What's a white man to do?
lol the answer is who gives a shit? These cultists are complete losers, so they have to finger-wag what everyone else does. At least we could contain the churchmarms in a building. These new religious zealots seem to be constantly proselytizing, whether it's on twitter, in academic papers, and even on videogame forums.
Modern lefties lack the self awareness to see the obvious. I'm a religious man myself and you could say I was inoculated against that churchmarm attitude during my upbringing. Watching pompous secular pundits fall into the same trap is hilarious, if only they could see the irony. I don't condemn anyone for it, though. It's a human nature thing. Collectivism is a dark seed in everyone's heart.You know, it used to be the goddamn evangelicals that were always trying to boss you. These wackos make them seem tame by comparison.
She is so desperate for white dong... it's hilarious"To the white men who told me that they “prefer” white women
Tuesday, February 13, 2018 - 4:54pm
ALLISON BROWN
MiC Columnist
*This piece has been expanded to include an addendum, Click here.*
I am sorry, but exclusively dating white women is not “just a preference.”
At the root of your exclusion of women of color from your dating pool lies a deep-seated allegiance to whiteness so that you and your kin can continue to benefit from white privilege. Further, straying from white women as your partners of choice could have dastardly consequences that result in the dilution of your family and your own perceived whiteness.
So, let’s make it clear: No one is the passive victim of their own internalized biases. It is not a coincidence that the girl that you had relations with last week looks like your sister, mom, aunt or the random Gap ad you found yourself staring at for a little too long.
You have had choices this cuffing season and every other cuffing season. And to think that you don’t, or that your romantic attraction is out of your control, you’re kidding both yourself and everyone around you.
You exclusively date white women because trying to understand someone else’s world is too difficult — and white privilege is as valuable as gold in a country overflowing with Trump apologists and white resentment.
Not to mention, there is a worldwide cultural obsession with looking, acting and appealing to whiteness in romance. Many women of color are encouraged from a young age to use skin-lightening creams, use apps to make their eyes wider and conform to white societal standards of beauty. The entire world is tied into this white privilege.
And you, Mr. “I-only-date-white-girls” reinforce the intrinsic value of whiteness in this nation.
Saying that you “prefer” white women is racist. Well, maybe not racist to you, except it’s hard for me to find another word to refer to someone making negative assessments of large groups of individuals that they’ve never met, based solely on the color of their skin. It’s ultimately a bigoted and harmful way to think about potential partners.
Saying that you prefer certain women to others not only reinforces stereotypes about women of color, but white women too. Arguing that you prefer white women based on the presuppositions that white women are inherently more beautiful, passive, kind or financially-stable is — you guessed it — racist!
And not only is it racist, but it’s insincere.
You know that a white woman will let you ignore your privilege a lot more than a woman of color will. Shoot, a majority of white women voted for Trump. For the most part, women of color aren’t going to put up with that. Unless her name is Omarosa.
Let me be clear: I don’t expect you to reject your white privilege.
But don’t act like you don’t have it, like you’re not protecting it or that it doesn’t exist."
https://www.michigandaily.com/section/mic/white-men-who-told-me-they-“prefer”-white-women
And on the other side of this, if a White guy prefers Black women, he is accused of "fetishising" Black women.
There are white guys who like black chick's. Find one of them. Then you will be happy.
This sounds like she's saying all white people look alike. But that's the one group where the comment is 100% inaccurate.It is not a coincidence that the girl that you had relations with last week looks like your sister, mom, aunt or the random Gap ad you found yourself staring at for a little too long.
Monogamy, which helped build modern civilization, excludes all other women except one.I kind of agree there's often a degree of implicit racism in these sorts of stated racial "preferences" in dating. I won't say across the board you're racist if you haven't dated a black woman, but I also don't buy the argument that attraction isn't influenced by social conditioning, or that not liking black women is just a "born this way" thing.
If course, in practice of course your dating pool is a matter of circumstance and sometimes who likes you, and who you are around. I have always gotten on with black women, you know white boy from the hood who actually has his shit together, l always did pretty well with them. And while I have dated a few Asian women, I've had a lot less success with them as group. None of which is about finding one more "attractive" than the other.
Right, well that's why I say in practice there's a lot of circumstance, but you definitely do see people just hide behind "attraction" and "preference" to distance themselves from exclusionary dating as well, and I think there's a degree of culturual bias an implicit racism to that.Monogamy, which helped build modern civilization, excludes all other women except one.
Trying to imply someone might possibly be racist (30% chance? +5 Bonus to Racism? What are the metrics you're using?) because of who they did or didn't date is all kinds of messed up, but it's something that modern ideologues like yourself love doing.
Seriously, these are borderline incel comments.
Hitler drank water, too.Right, well that's why I say in practice there's a lot of circumstance, but you definitely do see people just hide behind "attraction" and "preference" to distance themselves from exclusionary dating as well, and I think there's a degree of culturual bias an implicit racism to that.
I kind of agree there's often a degree of implicit racism in these sorts of stated racial "preferences" in dating. I won't say across the board you're racist if you haven't dated a black woman, but I also don't buy the argument that attraction isn't influenced by social conditioning, or that not liking black women is just a "born this way" thing.
If course, in practice of course your dating pool is a matter of circumstance and sometimes who likes you, and who you are around. I have always gotten on with black women, you know white boy from the hood who actually has his shit together, l always did pretty well with them. And while I have dated a few Asian women, I've had a lot less success with them as group. None of which is about finding one more "attractive" than the other.
So if a black woman won't blow me does that make her racist and sexist? If not why not? Personally I'm not the best person but I do feel a need to ask these questions for their benefit. I can help undo racism and sexism by telling black women if they don't blow me they are racist and sexist, and homophobic. It's just a cock, why not suck it bigot?
7 billion people in the world. Let people date whoever they want. Not your problem. lolRight, well that's why I say in practice there's a lot of circumstance, but you definitely do see people just hide behind "attraction" and "preference" to distance themselves from exclusionary dating as well, and I think there's a degree of culturual bias an implicit racism to that.
I'm not saying biology doesn't influence attraction, just that I don't buy the "I'm not racist but my dick is" argument in particular.If sexual preference/orientation/identity (whatever the hell the “correct” term is now) isn’t a choice, why is it hard to believe that inborn sexual preferences extend to physical/racial areas?
Go to the dollar store and get a hole puncher. Maybe there's a nifty prize if you reach a certain percentage.What if I start exclusively dating black women. Is that racism? Hope they won't call me a colonialist? I'll have to start dating each race in rotation. Maybe they can roll out a racial sex-passport. She checks off her race once the deed is done, and later you can get some racial equivalent of frequent-fucker miles.
Hey now, if you allow people free will over who they have relationships with then how can you guarantee your racial eugenic goals will be met?7 billion people in the world. Let people date whoever they want. Not your problem. lol
How does this apply to mixed people?I kind of agree there's often a degree of implicit racism in these sorts of stated racial "preferences" in dating. I won't say across the board you're racist if you haven't dated a black woman, but I also don't buy the argument that attraction isn't influenced by social conditioning, or that not liking black women is just a "born this way" thing.
If course, in practice of course your dating pool is a matter of circumstance and sometimes who likes you, and who you are around. I have always gotten on with black women, you know white boy from the hood who actually has his shit together, l always did pretty well with them. And while I have dated a few Asian women, I've had a lot less success with them as group. None of which is about finding one more "attractive" than the other.
If sexual preference/orientation/identity (whatever the hell the “correct” term is now) isn’t a choice, why is it hard to believe that inborn sexual preferences extend to physical/racial areas?
I like the way you think but unfortunately for us they changed the definition of “racism” last year so only white people are racist.
I identify as a woman and anyone who refuses to suck my delicate volotpous lady penis is either sexist or homophobic.
No one wants to say it but I will, this has more to do with dick size stereotypes/expectations then most women care to admit out loud.However, are they busting down the doors to date say, Indian or Asian men? No, because everyone isn't attracted to everything.
This sounds like she's saying all white people look alike. But that's the one group where the comment is 100% inaccurate.
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Genuine question, and slightly stereotyping
But why do black dudes, generally like ugly white women?
Ah, racial stereotyping (but you're only doing it because the rest of us are too cowardly to do it ourselves).No one wants to say it but I will, this has more to do with dick size stereotypes/expectations then most women care to admit out loud.
But also cultural stereotypes about masculinity that align with those stereotypes.
Genuine question, and slightly stereotyping
But why do black dudes, generally like fat white women?
No one wants to say it but I will, this has more to do with dick size stereotypes/expectations then most women care to admit out loud.
But also cultural stereotypes about masculinity that align with those stereotypes.
Yeah. What's up with that?Genuine question, and slightly stereotyping
But why do black dudes, generally like fat white women?
I'm happy for them to take the fat ones off our hands.Genuine question, and slightly stereotyping
But why do black dudes, generally like fat white women?
So am I a white racist because I, as a white man, prefer Latina and Asian and not
Black people in terms of dating?
So black women think Asian and Indian men have small penises and are feminine. Seems like you are confirming my hypothesis, they are bigots.
respect the hustleYeah. What's up with that?
Oh 100% this goes both ways, of fucking course it goes both ways.So black women think Asian and Indian men have small penises and are feminine. Seems like you are confirming my hypothesis, they are bigots.
I am not generalizing any one group, I am saying these sorts of cultural biases influence women just as much as men.SF Kosmo needs to explain how he isn't racist, and how black women aren't racist. Apparently he is saying that black women have negative stereotypes about Indian and Asian Men. How does he know this? Is he a black woman? What gives him the authority to speak on behalf of black women? You are stealing the voices of black women.
There is someone for everyone.Yes.
Anybody who wouldn't fuck an abo woman is a RACIST.
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