Sorry if this comes across a little like a rant. Really just looking for some thoughts and wisdom from fellow gaffers.
So I just got back from seeing Baby Driver. It was great. Just great. I got home and told a friend how good it was when she responded that she didn't think it was very good because there weren't enough female characters. In other words, the movie was 'non-inclusive' or 'sexist'. Her argument was that the movie had the opportunity to have more female characters, and didn't. She also complained the movie didn't have any LGBTQ characters.
Is Baby Driver a sexist movie for not having more representation from female characters? Is Baby Driver a homophobic movie for having no LGBTQ representation? Is any movie starring a white male racist because it's not starring a black or Asian male?
It kind of spurred us into the debate of inclusiveness in movies. Her point was that every movie should have equal representation of genders/racers, where my point was that there should be no rules or limits to storytelling (and, often due to setting or time period, it is impossible for every movie to have such a level of equal inclusiveness).
I brought up the movie 'Buried'. A movie about a single actor suck in a box. I asked how that movie could have possibly represented all genders/races, or movies like it. She then responded with 'well of course they cast a white man, it could have easily been a coloured female'. And okay, I guess they could have - but it's the writer/filmmakers/storytellers decision and at what point is it unfair to place these social metrics of wrong-right on storytellers who are telling fictional stories?!
The conversation ended with her literally calling me an 'exceptionalized, entitled white male' and that she was done with the argument. I was okay to end the argument (it was all generally healthy and respectful after all), but I was not okay with her bringing my skin colour into it. I was actually quite offended by it (but am I allowed to feel this way? Does that make me....insensitive? Should I be okay with a remark like this?)
So, what am I supposed to think about all of this?
So I just got back from seeing Baby Driver. It was great. Just great. I got home and told a friend how good it was when she responded that she didn't think it was very good because there weren't enough female characters. In other words, the movie was 'non-inclusive' or 'sexist'. Her argument was that the movie had the opportunity to have more female characters, and didn't. She also complained the movie didn't have any LGBTQ characters.
Is Baby Driver a sexist movie for not having more representation from female characters? Is Baby Driver a homophobic movie for having no LGBTQ representation? Is any movie starring a white male racist because it's not starring a black or Asian male?
It kind of spurred us into the debate of inclusiveness in movies. Her point was that every movie should have equal representation of genders/racers, where my point was that there should be no rules or limits to storytelling (and, often due to setting or time period, it is impossible for every movie to have such a level of equal inclusiveness).
I brought up the movie 'Buried'. A movie about a single actor suck in a box. I asked how that movie could have possibly represented all genders/races, or movies like it. She then responded with 'well of course they cast a white man, it could have easily been a coloured female'. And okay, I guess they could have - but it's the writer/filmmakers/storytellers decision and at what point is it unfair to place these social metrics of wrong-right on storytellers who are telling fictional stories?!
The conversation ended with her literally calling me an 'exceptionalized, entitled white male' and that she was done with the argument. I was okay to end the argument (it was all generally healthy and respectful after all), but I was not okay with her bringing my skin colour into it. I was actually quite offended by it (but am I allowed to feel this way? Does that make me....insensitive? Should I be okay with a remark like this?)
So, what am I supposed to think about all of this?