Women's sexual fantasies less depraved than men's

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#55
Actually, as a woman, I find that pretty ewww as well. We all have different likes/kinks and "squicks" as they are called in fandom. One persons squick is another persons kink.
I think the only thing that squick me is if it goes into hardcore S&M territory, or some of the things that I saw in Japanese porn store. My friend and I went to visit a Japanese video store and our curiosity got the better of us and we went to the adult section. Wrong mistake.

Naw I can see some straight dudes being naturally uninterested in gay sex. Kinsey scale. Some just don't want dick at all. Some do.

But there's a lot of "just don't hit on me, bro!" type of over-reactive defense, and a lot of shame/hiding from those who are interested in gay fantasies (bi, etc), and that's all society.....
Yeah, I find that most people who are not interested usually just not interested. Those who are volatile about it is the one who look like they are over-compensating for something.
 
#56
Then you are not as liberal as you think you are. Alternatively, your upbringing could be liberal but you yourself ended up not being one. Upbringing is only part of your sexual development. The people you surround yourself with aka your friends, also affects this. Also, I did also mention societal expectation, which you probably adhered a lot to. The fact that our societies still condemn people who are attracted to their own sex speaks itself.
I don't think you know my situation enough to judge on my upbringing or social surroundings. I will tell you that in my direct circle of friends, none of them even made a homophobic remark. And regarding social expectation. I did not even finish school properly. I probably lived the most non conformist life of all my friends and classmates.

I just find the thought of having a penis in my face not so pleasant. Some find the idea of licking an asshole disgusting. My kryptonite is a dick to the face. Sorry, man. You got to deal with it. It's no big conspiracy.
 
#58
Im pretty sure I read an article awhile ago that said 'rape fantasy' was number 1 or 2 in womens sexual fantasies.
I'd call those domination fantasies. No woman I've ever met fantasizes about being brutally raped. They do fantasize about being forced to do things they wouldn't normally want to do...but not violently forced.
 
#59
I don't think you know my situation enough to judge on my upbringing or social surroundings. I will tell you that in my direct circle of friends, none of them even made a homophobic remark. And regarding social expectation. I did not even finish school properly. I probably lived the most non conformist life of all my friends and classmates.

I just find the thought of having a penis in my face not so pleasant. Some find the idea of licking an asshole disgusting. My kryptonite is a dick to the face. Sorry, man. You got to deal with it. It's no big conspiracy.
So a dick to the face makes you weak in the knees? Can't move or resist?

:p
 
#61
I have to agree with this, guys. We are the driving force behind porn, and I'm trying to imagine a woman fantasizing about puking in a bucket when her gag reflex is violated by one man while two more DP her corn-hole.
I know of no man who fantasizes about such things.
The driving force behind that shit in porn is the simple fact that porn has to do more and more bizarre shit to get attention. An old porn video doesn't get you off any less than a new one, so there has be be something different about the new one to get people to look at it, and buy it.
 
#62
I don't think you know my situation enough to judge on my upbringing or social surroundings. I will tell you that in my direct circle of friends, none of them even made a homophobic remark. And regarding social expectation. I did not even finish school properly. I probably lived the most non conformist life of all my friends and classmates.

I just find the thought of having a penis in my face not so pleasant. Some find the idea of licking an asshole disgusting. My kryptonite is a dick to the face. Sorry, man. You got to deal with it. It's no big conspiracy.
Like you said, I don't know enough about you. All I can do is to draw from my experience. But in my experience, those who are volatile about it usually have background where they are expected to confirm to society's standard/friends/family. I'm also used to people saying something awful ("Last night this guy tried to hit on me, I feel like vomiting/punching him") then followed it up with "No offense to gays, I have gay friends", which was completely eye-rolling experience.
 
#68
I think most men would be shocked to know that in fandoms with popular slash pairings, male pregnancy (mpreg) is usually one of the top kinks.
Okay, this I never understand. Not only biologically it's not possible, I also don't understand why women think men will be happy to become pregnant. Is it some kind of wish-fulfillment for women to see men pregnant?
 
#72
a woman is called a nymphomaniac (Hypersexuality) if she wants sex all the time.. a man is called a man..
Ever hear a man complain about that? Probably not. The label was most likely created by a woman.

edit: Before anyone gets upset, it's a joke. I know that a male doctor coined the term, but it wasn't in regard to women who love sex. It was for women that couldn't control the urge to have sex.
 

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#76
Using Japan as my completely objective sample set, I can empirically confirm this.
 
#78
Personally, I blame hentai for my depraved fantasies.

Tentacle rape does absolutely nothing for me, but strangely certain things like mystical witch spells forcing women to orgasm (e.g., some of the Bible Black stuff) sets me off. I can't trace it back with 100% certainty, but I'm going to go out on a limb and say that when a classmate brought in some crazy Sailor Moon/DBZ hentai comic back in 6th grade for me to check out it changed me.

On the other hand, an "unpleasant fantasy" to me would involve anything dealing with assholes, shit, piss, etc. Dated a few girls who insisted in anal. Tried it once, wasn't for me and just have no interest in it at all. It actually bums me out that so much potentially good porn online is ruined by extensive anal scenes haha.

Oh, and I think this research is bullshit. I have heard some sick ass shit come from a lot of women regarding their fantasies, and have dated a few of them. I was seriously not prepared for some of the stuff I heard.
 
#80
People viewing their fantasies as a negative experience confuses the hell out of me. Maybe I misunderstood the article. Does it mean the fantasy itself or the actual act of said fantasy?
 
#91
Less weird than 'pleasant'.

On the other hand, an "unpleasant fantasy" to me would involve anything dealing with assholes, shit, piss, etc. Dated a few girls who insisted in anal. Tried it once, wasn't for me and just have no interest in it at all. It actually bums me out that so much potentially good porn online is ruined by extensive anal scenes haha.
intentional?
 
#92
That is what I was going to say. Most of the rape fantasies women have where they are the victiim would be termed 'dub-con' in fan fiction (dubious consent), and are more of the bodice ripper variety than the brutal variety.
Yeah.
According to askmen.com: “These female sex fantasies usually involve a gorgeous man carrying her off to his bedroom and quickly getting down to business. She’ll protest as he tears her clothing off and expertly arouses her body, but on the inside, she’ll love every minute of it. This continues to the point of penetration, and leads her to an incredible orgasm despite her earlier protests.”
Secondly, the description explicitly states a woman’s protest and the attacker’s complete disregard for her pleas for him to stop. We’ve heard it time and time again – “No means no!” – but in this instance “no” is ignored and ends with “an incredible orgasm.”
http://www.care2.com/causes/rape-ranked-as-third-most-popular-sexual-fantasy-for-women.html
 
#96
They don't mention age?
Oh come on. What kind of a crap study is this?
It's like saying "Many men don't know how to use the internet."

Well yeah >60 year olds that might be sorta true, <40? No so much.
 

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#97
Probably the weirdest thing ive seen, and ive seen a lot, was a bunch that was into inducing hyperthermia in their slaves. According to them it felt better when body temp was hotter.
 
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