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Would you date a porn star?

TaySan

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You got experience hanging with sex workers?
I don't want to go into detail, but yes. They are no different than us just working a profession like any other and we shouldn't treat them any differently. Many love their work and make good money.
 
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peso

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I don't want to go into detail, but yes. They are no different than us just working a profession like any other and we shouldn't treat them any differently. Many love their work and make good money.
have you considered that maybe the reason people don't want relationships with you after sex is because your sex has been transactional?
 
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I don't want to go into detail, but yes. They are no different than us just working a profession like any other and we shouldn't treat them any differently. Many love their work and make good money.
You can say that about every single job on the planet. Most humans are good people in general.
 
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I don't want to go into detail, but yes. They are no different than us just working a profession like any other and we shouldn't treat them any differently. Many love their work and make good money.
But many more are drug addicted, mentally ill, victims of terrible abuse, helpless and hopeless. Trying to put a positive spin on that “profession” is just gross. I can’t say that this reflects you personally, because I don’t know you... But let’s just say that most men saying the things you are saying are just rationalizing some thing that gives them the ability to have what “I” want when “I” want it. And fuck anybody it destroys in the process.
 

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I don't want to go into detail, but yes. They are no different than us just working a profession like any other and we shouldn't treat them any differently. Many love their work and make good money.
Aren’t you worried about STIs?
 

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I had a decently long lasting fling with a girl who ended up moving to Chicago and selling herself through some weird sugar daddy site for extra money. Was such a shame to see as she had a brain on her even if I disagreed with nearly everything she said. I feel like she could have really applied herself I to something more admirable, but she caught the mind virus way too hard.

She'd visit me whenever she came back to Michigan, and talk about how shed hook up with men over twice her age and just how much money they'd pay or what they'd buy her for the simplest acts of kindness. I wasnt really sure who was exploiting who at that point. She now has half her head shaved and is dating some gender fluid chick or something. We don't talk any longer. Shes a bit much.

With that said, I don't see porn stars being in the same league there. Theres all types, but at least there are far more safety measures and regulations which take place there.
 
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nush

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You'd be right, he had one girlfriend about ten years ago who dumped him. Now it seems he's been making up the shortfall by paying for it. He's dancing round the issue because he does not want to get kicked out the resterera clubhouse for not being woke.

Waiting for Taysans reply in this topic




Also this still holds true.


 
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Hang out with any woman who can carry on a decent conversation, regardless of their profession.
 
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TeezzyD

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Tay, don't you find paying for sex to be sort of self deflating?

Why not work on yourself and get someone who actually wants you for real?

Do pushups and eat better. Take your vitamins. Idk
 

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Tay, don't you find paying for sex to be sort of self deflating?

Why not work on yourself and get someone who actually wants you for real?

Do pushups and eat better. Take your vitamins. Idk
Exactly, paying for sex makes no sense in this day in age with Tinder and all the other sites and a embarrassing blow to the ego. ( would be for me anyway ).
 
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TeezzyD

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Legit though TaySan TaySan

Join us in the Fitness thread here. I think you'd be shocked at just how much better you may start to feel.


It's crazy how knowledgeable and helpful everyone is. You don't even need gym equipment, really.

Like, you're getting older dude. If you're gonna keep living with your parents forever, you might as well get some muscle on ya.

Just some food for thought.
 

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The way I figure it:

Pros:
- She keeps herself looking good
- You get to do any sex stuff you desire

Cons:
- She fucks loads of dicks
- Cocaine habit, probably

I think it would be pretty sweet, for a while
Retired Japanese porn star possibly? Who knows if anything is happening below the Moriscos lol...Most definitely if no dicks were involved or it was just soapy?
 
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nush

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Exactly, paying for sex makes no sense in this day in age with Tinder and all the other sites
You can order this top of the line product for $X amount

or

You can have this mystery box for free.

I did both and nothing I got through the dating apps was ever as good as the paid service. I did OK on the apps, but honestly they were mostly time consuming dead ends. So I'd only have them running in the background while I was doing other things.
 
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TaySan

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Tay, don't you find paying for sex to be sort of self deflating?

Why not work on yourself and get someone who actually wants you for real?

Do pushups and eat better. Take your vitamins. Idk
The way I see it is that either way you are going to pay for it.(Taking her out to dinner, movie tickets, emotional support, etc) I'm not actively looking for a relationship at the moment(though that can change in the future) but I still have the urge every now and then and want to spend that time with someone that's experienced at her craft and no strings attached to it.

If I wanted a relationship of course I would take that to Tinder, but I just want to have fun and I don't see anything to be ashamed about unless you are insecure.
 
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The way I see it is that either way you are going to pay for it.(Taking her out to dinner, movie tickets, emotional support, etc) I'm not actively looking for a relationship at the moment(though that can change in the future) but I still have the urge every now and then and want to spend that time with someone that's experienced at her craft and no strings attached to it.

If I wanted a relationship of course I would take that to Tinder, but I just want to have fun and I don't see anything to be ashamed about unless you are insecure.
Tinder isn’t for relationships

it’s basically for exactly what you are describing minus paying for it

Hinge, Bumble, etc. is for relationships
 
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TeezzyD

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TaySan TaySan

Agree to disagree, I guess. That whole "you end up paying for it one way or the other" line feels more like some gaudy Jim Belushi standup line rather than an actual viewpoint. From what I've read of your posts, I find it hard to believe that you actually feel that way.

You use the "I'm not insecure about it" defense quite a bit here when people rip on you for things. Sounds to me like another defense mechanism thing. I won't pry too much, and maybe you are telling the truth, but I think as you progress into your later twenties and thirties, you're going to start seeing a lot of your peers progress in life in more traditional ways while you're stuck in your childhood bedroom and paying for sex. It's really not a good look, and I say that out of honesty more than trying to get a rise here.

All the best though dude. Just take care of yourself.
 

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The way I figure it:

Pros:
- She keeps herself looking good
- You get to do any sex stuff you desire

Cons:
- She fucks loads of dicks
- Cocaine habit, probably

I think it would be pretty sweet, for a while
Sure. Hopefully she's a rich one
 

nush

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That whole "you end up paying for it one way or the other" line feels more like some gaudy Jim Belushi standup line rather than an actual viewpoint.
It's a fact, in most cases women are not going to be jumping on your dick as you get into your late 20's just because you are "Nice". Paying to see an escort is guaranteed, less time consuming, way cheaper than dating and it's honest. "I wanna fuck" "I want cash" ok deal.

A date will often cost you more and you've not got guaranteed sex at the end of it. Crawling around meat market bars and clubs buying drinks for women will often cost you more and you've not got guaranteed sex at the end of it. Which is also why I think guys dropping major bucks at strip clubs is insane, you could pay to actually fuck a girl just as hot for less and it's honest.
 
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TeezzyD

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It's a fact, in most cases women are not going to be jumping on your dick as you get into your late 20's just because you are "Nice". Paying to see an escort is guaranteed, less time consuming, way cheaper than dating and it's honest. "I wanna fuck" "I want cash" ok deal.

A date will often cost you more and you've not got guaranteed sex at the end of it. Crawling around meat market bars and clubs buying drinks for women will often cost you more and you've not got guaranteed sex at the end of it. Which is also why I think guys dropping major bucks at strip clubs is insane, you could pay to actually fuck a girl just as hot for less and it's honest.
As a film school kinda dude, I've always had "funny and creative" going for me. I enjoy going on dates a lot to be honest, and really don't mind buying a meal or a coffee for someone. If she's not into you after that, then there really isn't much else to say.

Maybe I'm too idealistic, but I don't go around bars for hookups. Never have. Used to get laid a lot just through Facebook back before I deleted mine. My statuses there were always just saying shit to make the hot chicks on my friends list laugh and it worked.

Even through Tinder, I caught a lot of luck by posting a picture of myself in my dumb punk jacket and a bio that literally just said "fuck you."

I've grown past all that though. I want to be a humble family man. I'm looking for someone who has their shit together.

I'm a catch these days. Decent job, my own clean house, stupidly loyal and sober. I can even talk sports with their dad or brother or whatever.

I guess my point is, I never really saw taking a girl for a night out as being expensive as I never really spoiled them on a date. Anything I paid for, as relationships moved along further, were things which I truly felt their company was worth more to me. If they weren't worth it, I wouldn't spend it.

That's why that one dude dropping 15k in the Era thread seemed so strange to me, as does TaySan's response. It's not hard to get laid. What's hard is making love.
 

nush

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As a film school kinda dude, I've always had "funny and creative" going for me. I enjoy going on dates a lot to be honest, and really don't mind buying a meal or a coffee for someone. If she's not into you after that, then there really isn't much else to say.

Maybe I'm too idealistic, but I don't go around bars for hookups. Never have. Used to get laid a lot just through Facebook back before I deleted mine. My statuses there were always just saying shit to make the hot chicks on my friends list laugh and it worked.

Even through Tinder, I caught a lot of luck by posting a picture of myself in my dumb punk jacket and a bio that literally just said "fuck you."

I've grown past all that though. I want to be a humble family man. I'm looking for someone who has their shit together.

I'm a catch these days. Decent job, my own clean house, stupidly loyal and sober. I can even talk sports with their dad or brother or whatever.

I guess my point is, I never really saw taking a girl for a night out as being expensive as I never really spoiled them on a date. Anything I paid for, as relationships moved along further, were things which I truly felt their company was worth more to me. If they weren't worth it, I wouldn't spend it.

That's why that one dude dropping 15k in the Era thread seemed so strange to me, as does TaySan's response. It's not hard to get laid. What's hard is making love.
I just used examples. As you get older at some some point in time the game changes and the shit that used to work, no longer works. The bar gets raised.

You can still go on dates, look for relationships, be funny whatever and pay for sex when you want it. These things are not mutually exclusive the narrative of you "Have to pay for it" just isn't true for the vast majority of punters who are in their 30's and have disposable income and are just "too old for this shit" chasing women around. But would happily take up a relationship if one occurred naturally.

Heres the secret, when your not giving off desperation vibes of "I gotta get laid and this is my only chance" that women pickup on you actually get laid more.
 
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Heres the secret, when your not giving off desperation vibes of "I gotta get laid and this is my only chance" that women pickup on you actually get laid more.
This is something which most people have to learn the hard way.

A huge part of why my Facebook strategy worked so well for me back in the day is that other chicks would always see other chicks commenting on and liking what I was posting. People want what they can't have. It's human nature. The stench of desperation is potent.
 

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casually date/hook up? yes!

seriously date? i would usually say no but damn Lana Rhoades would be hard to pass.
 

TaySan

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Honestly, I think we would have fewer incels in the world if they would swallow their pride and see a provider. Maybe they would learn a thing or two along the way and improve their social skills and attitude.
 

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Honestly, I think we would have fewer incels in the world if they would swallow their pride and see a provider. Maybe they would learn a thing or two along the way and improve their social skills and attitude.
"Provider" lol, stop with this language. You can say prostitute.
 
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It's really not a good look, and I say that out of honesty more than trying to get a rise here.
A friend of mine cared a lot about "what's a good look", barely living how she really wanted to; she got hit by a driver not paying attention, and died before she was even 30 y/o.

There's no way in fuck I'll care about what others think is "a good look"; you only got one life that could end at any random moment, so live it how you want to.

If he doesn't want to be in a relationship, and pay for sex out of convenience or whatever, more power to him.
 
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Paying for sex is so deflating, your literally bribing someone to sit on your face