Dupy said:
Well this is pretty disgusting:
More at
http://tpmdc.talkingpointsmemo.com/...-dadt-means-more-gay-rape-in-the-military.php
Wonder how long they've had this bogus report waiting in the wings.
Hahahahaha what???????
This is absurd, however there are some things that people not in the military should know, the study is not all bogus. There's a weird vibe in all male combat units not unlike the movie Waiting or what I assume some big Fraternity would be like, there's always some asshole waiting in the wings to make you accidentally look at his cock and there's of course sometimes some loser who thinks tea-bagging is hilarious. Frankly, as far as that shit is concerned I don't think that's sexual assault, it's a side effect of having 100's of juveniles share a barracks, however, I know there's many people who of course don't want that to happen and I do believe that they have a right to not have to fight someone to not get balls shoved in their face. It's a fair gripe. But I've never really heard of a man sucking off another man in his sleep against his will or some shit, it's absurd, so I'm positive they're mixing these juvenile cases of harassment, in with the more major shit.
Now actual sexual assault as someone else already mentioned in this thread is by far more often committed by a straight male against a woman.
I think it's time that this country start honestly separating harassment from actual sexual assault.
There's a whole host of issues regarding gay men, women and the military that we're going to have to work through. Language for instance, I don't see the big deal, if someone gets so hurt over having their sexuality called into question during a run then I wonder what he'll do when bullets start flying. Get over it.
But what straight man wants another penis near his face? In my old unit, the situation stabilized after time, you show them you don't find it funny, they find you boring and they form a little clique of people all trying to "get" each other and ignore you when it comes to cock jokes, it wasn't bad outside of the first time where everyone was learning everyone's limits. Even if you did accidentally see someone's dick every once in a while as they were doing a prank, it's still just a penis. I don't think this should necessarily be criminal, but there should be some means to force that behavior to be curbed in your presence if the people are unwilling to cut you out of their stupid games. This kind of stupid shit will probably always be there as long as they allow kids in the military and I really don't see them raising the minimum age to join to 23 or some shit any time soon, kids are kids.
But actual sexual assault, that's always bad and it sure as hell is not the men who get the short end of that stick in the military, I fail to see how any commander would fear being labeled a homophobe, of all the things someone in the military might fear being labeled as, a homophobe is NOT one of them. It's the women who suffer the most. Yeah, sometimes men get unfairly treated over an off the cuff remark, perhaps an honest sexual pass that was turned down and amounted to nothing was unjustly escalated by a woman but even with all that the women still have it worse many times having very real complaints swept under the rug or no one they can trust to talk to, it's not the men who are going to get assaulted and have nothing done about it.